Akshow:
You dont know the relationship they have. Do you know the anger she has towards her father?

manny4life:


You said it yourself "absent parent". What does the Bible say about a man that cannot provide for his family? An infidel... Yep that's right. Provision isn't only about money, but all round. So therefore, if you have been reduced to an infidel, what's left? Like I said before, you said it yourself "absent parent". Case closed.

YelloweWest:

And when men run their mouth nkor? Calling their wives prostitute for no reason etc what should women do?

By the way anywhere you see a nagging wife there is a foolish husband!

preccy69:



well at least its nt all times

Skubidude:


You obviously dont get it do u, and why do i hav this feeling dat u ar a woman n not a man? Well the Bible says children shud honour their parent and elders without any condition attached to it. There4 the young woman just disobeyed the 1st commandment that goes wit promise n the Bible again has stated clearly dat disobedience is as bad as witcraft if not worst. I dont care if her father was an abuser or a native doctor, she has no right to humiliate him in public like that. It is both humanly and spiritually wrong no matter hw modernized

Skubidude:


You obviously dont get it do u, and why do i hav this feeling dat u ar a woman n not a man? Well the Bible says children shud honour their parent and elders without any condition attached to it. There4 the young woman just disobeyed the 1st commandment that goes wit promise n the Bible again has stated clearly dat disobedience is as bad as witcraft if not worst. I dont care if her father was an abuser or a native doctor, she has no right to humiliate him in public like that. It is both humanly and spiritually wrong no matter hw modernized

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”[a]

4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

NwamaziNwaAro:

After beating Anne Njemanze endlessly in front of this child as a toddler 16years ago..

Do you think this kid will ever forgive you or respect you.


WARNING

Never beat your wife in front of the kids, they will forever harbour a resentment.
If you must beat her, do it when the kids are asleep or when they've gone to school

But never, Never in front of them.

YelloweWest:

I have children and I support her. Why?? Because motive is everything. I don't care what a person dose I only care about his or her motive.

This man was clearly trying to capitalise on a young adult daughter of his whom he has been absent from her life! He didn't have the decency to tag her or even send her a private prayer. But he quickly tagged bloggers so that they will circulate it and earn him cheap publicity!

What an insensitive heartless animal.

I have lost respect for this man. If he could try to use his own child for cheap publicity, there's nothing such person can't do for money!

4C2215131:


That in my opinion still doesn't justify her rant.

manny4life:


If it doesn't justify it, then why the hullabaloo? Why is everyone's raising hell then. Neither of us are in her position to make a determination of what's right or wrong before man or God.

4C2215131:


If you really want to be candid, the temptation to poison a child's mind against an absent parent is usually very strong. Most succumb to it.

Charly68:
Seems some folks are in support of the stupidity of this young girl;no matter the difference she seems to be too mannerless to me..no courtesy for her own father...God says honor your father & your mother so that your days may be long ...if you honour your Mama alone without honoring the one who fathered you,you haven't obey God. Two wrongs can never make a right..she ought to be silent instead of throwing public tantrum at her father.

delishpot:


True but some husbands also frustrate their wives and we will not support them starving him with good or sex(since they can not beat him) talkless of if they pour him hot water. Even if a woman catches her man red handed and hurts him, we still would say she was a wicked woman. So why would we justify men beating their wives because they frustrate them?
Bad wives could be from any back ground is my opinion though. As we do not say ladies should avoid men from homes where the dad's were brutal to their moms or where the dad had more than one wife because we believe the son would act exactly as his dad towards their wives even though I believe most girls from divorce homes tend to stick to their marriages more due to fear of what society would say. Like eh, what do you expect? Her mom also did not sit in husbands house. Many women are enduring abuse in their marriages too but we hardly hear them treating the man's Bleep up with violence.

CaroLyner:




Never ever beat her.

Student125:


Yes I agree bad woman can be from any background.
But, remember...a lion cannot give birth to Tiger, our children are our replica.
Also, biology taught me that that your phenotype(you/look) = Gene(donor from both parents) + Environment(what you learn from ur society, remember ur mother is your first teacher).
It is logical that a child that was raised by a single parent will lack that other parent's part during upbringing.
I said before, if a woman knows her power, her man will respect her.
Come to think of it, y marry a guy that will frustrate you u..oh you will say some guys pretend?, the truth is no matter how someone hide their character, u will c traces unless u want to overlook or probably not observant.
I know nobody is perfect, but marry those things you can cope with in a man/woman to avoid issues.
Lastly, the greatest gift a father/mother can give their child is finding/ marrying their better half.

pocohantas:

Same way lots of men succumb to being absentee fathers. They have been brainwashed into thinking the kids will always come look for them when they're of age.

If he is featuring in her life, this can't happen. Maybe when she is younger, but not now she is of age.

mexxmoney:
Can you call someone whose number you don't have or tag someone whose handle you don't know?

mexxmoney:
He and his wife are divorced and the wife has clearly brought up the child telling her so many bad things about her dad to turn her away from him...... That's what women can do

Akshow:
Are you sure he has been a father to her? Fatherhood is more than being the biological father u know.

4C2215131:


Whatever.

Each to his own.

Choiszman:
Yesterday, Nollywood Actor, Segun Arinze’s Daughter turned 20 and the proud father took to his Instagram to wish his “now adult daughter” a happy birthday.

He wrote:

“Wow! Time sure does fly! My Daughter Renny is 20!! I wish you great wisdom, good health, long life, deep knowledge and whatever you lay your hands on will prosper. You will be a role model to your peers. Ann God bless you for doing a great job! Happy Birthday Renny.”


Okay, Fine.. That was it.. But then, later on.. Renny came to her Father’s Instagram Page and left the below comments:

“What’s the meaning of this Sir? You didn’t tag me you don’t know my IG handle either. You’ve tagged other people and bloggers and you didn’t even have the courtesy to call me to wish me a happy birthday and you’re doing this online? What a pity. I would overly appreciate it if you stopped this. God bless.
One more thing sir, my mothers name is spelt “Anne” not Ann. stop being the rain on my parade and stop spreading lies. I have never insulted you. STOP THESE LIES”
Is there a bad blood between Segun Arinze and His Daughter or wife?

Shared on www.palmchatnow.com

PapiSmith:
This is what happens when you give birth to irresponsible kids that should have been used for rituals...No matter what he had done you shouldn't talk rudely to him in public.

I hope you know karma doesn't give a fück who is right or wrong, it only gives you what you do to others...and people wonder how curses are born. I weep for the unlucky guy waiting to marry this rug rat

4C2215131:


In my opinion, still doesn't make it right for reasons I've tendered in other posts on the topic. Understand your point though.

Sigh...eternal battle of the sexes...

NwamaziNwaAro:
Segun Arinze is a fool who thinks everyone is like him who is stuck up with social media.

Some of us cherish privacy... No unnecessary public show of affection.

You didn't call her or SMS her privately, rather you post a lavish greeting on IG and tag social media gossip handles.
When you are not in speaking terms with her mom, and you further disrespect her mom, by calling her by name.

Haba!

A father that is not wise is that one a father

manny4life:


I expected this reaction but hey, to each his own.

manny4life:
There's a difference between Father and Dad. A father is nothing but a sperm donor, while a dad takes responsibility as a parent. Being a dad takes a lot of work and discipline which many fathers seem to lack. They don't spend time with the kids, they mentally abuse their children by constantly beating their mom, some fathers are too irresponsible and don't even take care of their children. When the children are all grown and resent their dad, we're too quick to blame it all on the mother, and tag the child as "useless". As for me, a man that couldn't acknowledge me in private deserves to be humiliated in public.

GuyfawkesAB:
You just took the words out of my mind