alaskido:
Chai, this girl is very rude. I cannot talk to my mum or dad this way even if they were bad to me. I pity the man who will finally end up with this girl. He needs to tighten his belt. The mother has poisoned the girls mind against the father since she raised her alone.

geekybabe:

Sadly he didnt raise her. He was apparently not even responsible in her life. Such fathers deserve no manners.

baby124:

Honor is only given to whom it's due to. It can never be forced or seen as a right. Act honorably

CaroLyner:




Never ever beat her.

NwamaziNwaAro:

After beating Anne Njemanze endlessly in front of this child as a toddler 16years ago..

Do you think this kid will ever forgive you or respect you.


WARNING

Never beat your wife in front of the kids, they will forever harbour a resentment.
If you must beat her, do it when the kids are asleep or when they've gone to school

But never, Never in front of them.

PapiSmith:
This is what happens when you give birth to irresponsible kids that should have been used for rituals...No matter what he had done you shouldn't talk rudely to him in public.

I hope you know karma doesn't give a fück who is right or wrong, it only gives you what you do to others...and people wonder how curses are born. I weep for the unlucky guy waiting to marry this rug rat

hotwax:


No father or mother deserves that once they are called "My father" or "My mother".

You have no reason to treat them such way. You can ignore them, not associate with them.

She just laid a curse on herself. Her children will do that to her even if she is responsible.

My situation is similar to hers. But I have never disrespected my father. I even do my responsibilities. I send money and take care of him.

I am not the one to judge him based on what he has done to me.

Akshow:



I beg to differ. U see, we are brought up with that false believe in Africa that our parents are always right. That's soooooo wrong. Parents Bleep up sometimes. On this, I'm with the girl. Why won't a father call his daughter on his birthday but runs to social media to post a birthday message. That's hypocrisy.

YelloweWest:

And when men run their mouth nkor? Calling their wives prostitute for no reason etc what should women do?

By the way anywhere you see a nagging wife there is a foolish husband!

delishpot:


You can not conclude like that. Divorce is not a crime. And yes, what is wrong in a woman knowing she can do better in life without a husband who makes her unhappy? Marriage no be do or die. If you don't marry a girl from divorce home, others will marry them. Instead of seeing the genesis of the problem, you chose to attack the females from divorced mothers because you generally do not like them.

murphyibiam15:

same way not every surrogate is a mother..her womb may just have been used to nurture the fetus only

Akshow:



I beg to differ. U see, we are brought up with that false believe in Africa that our parents are always right. That's soooooo wrong. Parents Bleep up sometimes. On this, I'm with the girl. Why won't a father call his daughter on his birthday but runs to social media to post a birthday message. That's hypocrisy.

pocohantas:
She should have just ignored him.

Good lesson for irresponsible fathers. You are not a father because you donated your sperm inside warm vagina, being a father goes beyond that.

I remember how his marriage with Anne of Domitila ended. No one should accuse the woman of anything. Irresponsible fathers that get no love from their kids will always blame the woman of poisoning their minds.

If only they'll learn...

chisco82:

Yes the father was wrong, therefore she should insult him that way?
That is called lack of home training.
No matter what, for God's sake this is her father.

FrankGiel:

My friend, it doesn't justify calling ur father out on social media.. It Does not!!!!
This has nothing to do with parents being always right!!!
Its called respect!! Whether they deserve it or not..

4C2215131:


If you really want to be candid, the temptation to poison a child's mind against an absent parent is usually very strong. Most succumb to it.

4C2215131:


And she messed up by her retort to his "wishes" never minding that he was out of place doing what he did. Hoping the mom talk some sense into her (at least that is what a responsible mom would do).

She would have been the bigger figure if she had held her peace. Two wrongs will NEVER make a right.

manny4life:


You weep for this generation because you belong to the generation generation wherein a man abuses his family and thinks he will reap what he hasn't sown. Even the Bible condemns the man as an infidel. Whatever you sow, that you must reap because the sins of a father would be visited on him. So therefore, I'm glad to be in this generation, one laced with reality. It really doesn't matter if two wrongs make a right or left.

SillyMods:
You're right. Nevertheless, the daughter could have handled this differently if she was blessed with wisdom. One day go be one day wey she go need her father very badly. She shouldn't disrespect her father this way in the public. Never!

ayokellany:


I have issues with my father n we have not communicated over 20 yrs. I understand parent do wrong not just some times but lot of times that is no liberty to rubbish your father publicly like the girl did. Can this girl grow up to respect her husband when she as no respect for her father ? One wonders.

What happen to silence being golden ? What happen to correcting her father in a respectable manner ? Does ridiculing him solve whatever issue between them. Hypocrisy or not courtesy between parent n child should never descend this low. This is the reason why kids abroad slap their parent to drive home their point.

NwamaziNwaAro:

After beating Anne Njemanze endlessly in front of this child as a toddler 16years ago..

Do you think this kid will ever forgive you or respect you.


WARNING

Never beat your wife in front of the kids, they will forever harbour a resentment.
If you must beat her, do it when the kids are asleep or when they've gone to school

But never, Never in front of them.

Student125:


I said someone advised, u may take the advise and u may not...but if u look around, u will realize larger percentage of baby mama were raised by baby mama.
If you understand the latter part of d post u quoted, you will get the point raised that most domestic violence are avoidable if woman truly know the power they have. but because most of our ladz this days care more about their looks and see marriage as poverty alleviation institution, some are not ready to endure anything, at a point they want to be free, party - travel - do what they like, making the marriage secondary. At this point they feel like divorcing just to get the freedom they want.
Like I said earlier, some ladies will frustrate the hell out of you that u won't just know when you will raise your hand, the reason u c some husband prefer going home late after work and sleep immediately to avoid another problem cuz their house doesn't feel like home I.e from one problem to another.

PapiSmith:
This is what happens when you give birth to irresponsible kids that should have been used for rituals...No matter what he had done you shouldn't talk rudely to him in public.

I hope you know karma doesn't give a fück who is right or wrong, it only gives you what you do to others...and people wonder how curses are born. I weep for the unlucky guy waiting to marry this rug rat

mexxmoney:


Most times it is just lies from hurt and spiteful women. They even do it when they break up with a friend or a boyfriend, they go about spreading false accusations and gossip about the person.......... That's what women can do