almarthins:


Wetin be "we"?
Just say you have used some body nt just somebody many body

NairalandCS:


I didn't see if you just met.

Most guys don't ask for sex on the first date, use that time to show him what you have to offer.

pocohantas:
There was a thread advising ladies not to claim they were used and dumped. https://www.nairaland.com/3909291/ladies-stop-saying-used-dumped

The OP gave just one scenario and I was surprised that all our resident intelligent men couldn't figure out the other side of the coin...but that's normal. The men advised such women to count their losses and move on, with emphasis being on how they both enjoyed the sex. Why they feel it's all about the sex is story for another day.



Please, no semantics, no insults, no claiming not to understand...just straightforward answers like you all gave on the other thread. I want to learn

justscorchone:
A guy meets a girl he admires at an early age,he's first crush in life.musters confidence after soo many years to ask her out but gets rejected,steady rejection for years until he learns the secret of packaging ,then he swear never to pour he's heart to a woman,and only bait girls with package since it's the only thing that works,he knacks knacks steady and it becomes a way of life,sadly some innocent girls cross he's path but he doesn't see them as such but look at them as conquest.

Daboomb:


Its always a bad idea to train and educate a lady through Universoty, no matter how much you love her.
Let her father and mother educate her...while you just pay the dowry.
If you cant marry her "as it is", dont waste your money improving her because when she is done "improved", she will realise that you are no longer on her level and she will have to look for a better person!

It also makes you feel she is so much indebted to you and that makes it even more painful when she dumps you for another guy.
But the truth is the women dont care a hoot.

Show me one unhappy husband and l will show you how he spent all the money he made in his early years of youth, to fund her education, only to be dumped.
Serves him right though.

frenzyduchess:
It's obvious,the only reason most commenters will have the feeling of being used on this thread is the money they invested cos that's all they probably invested in the relationship. Money money money, that's all they can offer to make a woman stay, and when they want to digress a little bit, they mention sex ,thats all they know,nothing else, I am even surprised the thread is still on third page,seems the only thing that gives them erection is commenting on female bashing thread,forgetting how ill trained they too are,how unrefined and savagely they relate with the opposite sex in the quest to show they are the man, how egotistic and bossy they can be
Bact to the topic, unfulfilled expectations brings that feeling of being used and dumped In a relationship be it guy or lady ,like my nairaland brothers suggested on the other thread, MOVE ON

Shortyy:

Which time? I once told a guy who was asking me out that, if we date I want a no sex r/ship. He said, and I quote "I don't think that will be possible coz we're not men, you're a woman and I'm a man" the thing is that y'all will want sex, even if she's bringing heaven and earth to the r/ship.

Phi001:

Nowadays in Nigeria, money is the language of love. No matter how much French you know, if you're not pouring in money, you're likely to remain a single linguist...

Callmedondee:
Lol

SmartMugu:

You're entirely right. After my case started, I've been dealing with as many women as possible. Not like I like that, but when someone you gave your all to switches on you, life still has to go on. Funny enough, it was her co-workers that were advising her that led to our break-up. What they wanted was what she had. They had baby-daddies, she had a husband, a family and a home.

After she left, her advisers started coming to my house, each claiming to want to help clean up my place. I think I ended up messing with 3 or 4 of those she chose to listen to. That's just her decision, and it hurts her now, I didn't start it, she just chose to listen to people that don't have what she had. Life goes on, it's too many women in the world to really waste your time on someone that doesn't appreciate you, that's my mentality.

lefulefu:
some ladies will be claiming good advice for their friend who is happily married or has a good partner when in reality they are all out to snatch their friend's partner.friends indeed

BabaRamotu1988:
i can recall during my school days there was this guy very intelligent and he fall in love with with this opportunist lady who only pretended to love him because of the help she's getting from him on education this lady doesn't know anything but with this guy by her side she always get good grades as in during tests and exams they always sits closer.
and to add to it the guy always spends his pocket money buying things for the lady, changing her hair paying for her textbooks etc.


but the girl always told us that she doesn't have any atom of love for the guy
so the funny thing is that on the day we graduated was the day the lady deleted the guy's number from her phone laughing that she has got what she's looking for (good grades)
lol i don't pity the guy sha because as our fellow guy we warned him but he's in lof

Lalas247:

Husband snatchers
Side chics Association

lefulefu:

na dem dey form best friends pass with best advice .ehn endtime sidechics everywhere

lefulefu:

na dem dey form best friends pass with best advice .ehn endtime sidechics everywhere

Lalas247:
How many I don suck dry .. dash for bin
Lefulefu how many ... dey want me blood o

Lalas247:
How many I don suck dry .. dash for bin
Lefulefu how many ... dey want me blood o

Martin0:
st.obi & st.maria

Lalas247:
How many I don suck dry .. dash for bin
Lefulefu how many ... dey want me blood o