What else is there in this era if not sex?

Lordygram:
Apart from sex, what i want in a relationship is loyalty, respect, a lady that understands,, as in with good understanding, a lady that is not broke, a lady lady that is intelligent, atleast she must be good and always get "A" in a particular university course, like Cost accounting, mathematics, even if its English but just be a pro to a subject.. She must be GOD fearing, sport loving, fun loving, good cook, fair skin, eloquent, a good advicer, a confider, she must be beautiful, slow to anger, good personal hygiene, disciplined and above all.. Her love for me must be unquestionable..as in i wont have doubts.

bros....hope u. Get. Doubles for all these qualities ooo?

Aside Sex she should be able to prepare Palmoil stew and White Ricee

Deo1986:
won't let you have the last word, so, let the 'go' come from me; Dude, Bleep off.

Thank God you have imposed urself into my employee list, o ya respond to this son...

For me, I just want a lady that has sound character and very articulate..

Rest of mind

Dasherz:

and it can be lost when not taken care of and nurtured when God who is love and who created love still has terms for us to meet

. something needs to keep a man loving you.

My phrase 'if shared' caters for your Mention.

TheSonOfMark:
As a sapiosexual, the female I call my other half has to compliment me intellectually and be cultured, nothing more or less. Typically, those are the only kind of females I date or tumble beneath the sheets with.
There are few moments which typify the essence of our relationship like arguing about issues like the irrelevance/relevance of feminism or comparing the works of authors Nalini Singh or Madeline Hunter with the air kissing our bare bodies. Moments you can't share with a dumb, uncouth girl.

Sharing skin privileges with a female who's just a happy-go-lucky, petty bimbo would seem like soiling myself in mud.

Sex is just, well, sex - huff, moan and huff. The aforementioned qualities are what make sex more than what it is - lovemaking, with someone you love, cherish and look forward to having 'mental spars' with.

The way you romance words with the sleek touch of a practiced pro is refreshing.

....n i thought i was alone on this lane

Lordygram:
Yes and that is why she has raised me as a young, intelligent, God fearing and innocent guy, and now that i am mature, its fair i search for her kind.

Good answer. I thought Ifakiland gave you a 'technical knockout' but you defended yourself most brilliantly. May God give you the kind of wife you desire!

An unintelligent girl is definitely a turn off for me, u can have all that thing on u and i enjoy the kpanshing, bt pls help me reason..

amokeme:

Can you explain number 10 please?

i did before here

thepussyhunter:



okay i mean a lady that would let me do things for her no matter how minor it is.....

Take for example my mom.......i love that woman like kilode but one thing i noticed in her while growing up is she almost always didnt like my dad doing things for her.......she had this independent woman mind set like she was some semi-feminist..............i still love her plenty sha but i dont want my woman to have such traits cos its kinda frustrating knowing you can actually help ur bae do something but she refuses to allow you do it

sometimes it makes one become unnecessarily suspicious

Boyooosa:

That number 6 tho. Might end up soiling the marriage if not well managed. You can loose your wife or even soul to spiritual home(s) if care is not taken.

i know that man.........and thats one of dem reason its in num 6

MissJoy29:

I have that mindset even though I don't like it. I have it cos I have seen my fair share of men who don't take care of their wives. I have also rolled with a lot of guys myself who don't "take care" or know what it means to. So yeah, I gotta have that mindset.

awww
that means i cant get married to you

anyways i understand though but sometimes you should let bae take care of you..........like bring you b-f in bed, get you gifts, help you do petty things etc

Rukkydelta:

Alright that's cool
But I love your mum kind of person

so this is da face of the lady who has refused to say she loves me on her siggy cos she still feels hurt over her ex ......................

No wonder kimcutie cant stop lic..........

Lawlahdey:
Well...I don't know why you guys are of the unfounded opinion that girls, generally, have fish brains though.

The same way girls are of the unfounded opinion that guys, generally, are dogs and behave such.

Are we on this together?

Ifakiland:
Does your mom have all these?

no mind am

Plenty things, and sex is nt among top 5 cos, u can get sex anywhere... A gal should hav dreams, have goals nt marriage dreams oh... Should have d mind set of a hardworking woman... Intelligent communication, e. T. C

thepussyhunter:



the list is pretty long but i'll mention but a few (the importatnt ones)

1) love.......like love love and not just love.............................you know theres this extra feeling attached to the normal feeling of being loved when the love is from a lady you love (dont know if i made sense but hope you get cos its quite difficult to explain)

2) food/cooking.........i know its not suppose to be an important thing to want from a lady but when you 're me (who's a huge lover of food and tired of cooking for hinself as a bachelor) you'd understand

3) children......not saying i'll make her my breeding entity or i wont marry her if i love her and she cant have children...........just that i love kids and a lady can provide that

4) emotional support.........forget all this macho man shiiii, a guy would always need that one person to make him feel alright during critical situations and a lady can and are usually the best candidates esp when she knows her onions

5) sex..........like hot sex.......with all dem boobs and sweet pussy.......yep ama booby man

6) spiritual support..........this shoulda been num 1 but i have me reasons for putting it here..........ever heard the saying ________ (sorry i don forget the saying)..............just know i'd need that from her

7) kisses...........this is diff from sex...........i love kissing and i'm a kiss freak.........i cant possibly kiss a guy so yea i want kisses from my woman everyday

8.) respect........yea its normal

9) loyalty......

10) someone to let me take care of her.....i no want any boss lady......i need my lady to allow me be the man and take care of her

11) an intelligent lady......my children cant be inherit dumb traits abeg

12) lady with focus and who isnt overly broke
etc.............like i said there 're a lot but these are the most important things i need from a lady................sorry if i bored you with the long epistle

you asked for it

you are on point bro

Lawlahdey:
Let them come in and answer.

we need your intelligence and God given problem solving instinct

maysimsimple:
Na so. But its more than patience to find one.



ote author=Afriifa post=61406954]big congrats to u. men dis people can reason outta of brain ehn.

i av been wit dis girl dis is five years.

Ifakiland:
Loyalty is everything to me....I deserve it and I demand it.
I need trust also, I wanna be able to give my gf my atm card with pin and not worry abt missing money.
I need down to earthness also, no forming posh, eat that chicken with ur hands woman, don't wast calcium.

100% man, bloody 100%

thepussyhunter:


i know that man.........and thats one of dem reason its in num 6

Bobs, u r creative mehn.
I reluctantly sent in DAT comment but I deemed it fit cos of some peeps that might not be aware. But I think applying their number 6 will sail them tru anyways.

thepussyhunter:



so this is da face of the lady who has refused to say she loves me on her siggy cos she still feels hurt over her ex ......................

No wonder kimcutie cant stop lic..........

you need prayers

SirMichael1:
then again, everyone should go into a relationship with the thoughts of marriage at the back of their minds. Capisce?[/b][/i]

This is where I don't agree, Sir. People go into a relationship for various reasons. And this reasons would determine whether sex and finances would be involved.

Ifakiland:
Loyalty is everything to me....I deserve it and I demand it.
I need trust also, I wanna be able to give my gf my atm card with pin and not worry abt missing money.
I need down to earthness also, no forming posh, eat that chicken with ur hands woman, don't wast calcium.

no be everybody teeth fit crack bone ....your other requirements are spot on though

[Well siad]

Ifakiland:
Loyalty is everything to me....I deserve it and I demand it.
I need trust also, I wanna be able to give my gf my atm card with pin and not worry abt missing money.
I need down to earthness also, no forming posh, eat that chicken with ur hands woman, don't wast calcium.

YelloweWest:

Very good advise. Thanks for the reminder.

However I'm no fool. Men can't do the unthinkable.
Every cent my husband earns has my name all over it.
All properties have my name too.
I have my personal money too.
By God's grace I'm covered.

I do have that law degree for a reason

There you go dear! very good. Have a good married life

Ifakiland:
Loyalty is everything to me....I deserve it and I demand it.
I need trust also, I wanna be able to give my gf my atm card with pin and not worry abt missing money.
I need down to earthness also, no forming posh, eat that chicken with ur hands woman, don't wast calcium.

This is awesome
In fact am speechless

thepussyhunter:


awww
that means i cant get married to you

anyways i understand though but sometimes you should let bae take care of you..........like bring you b-f in bed, get you gifts, help you do petty things etc

It's like we have a different idea about what being taken care of by bae mean. Everything you listed up there, I love. I love receiving gifts, I'm pretty romantic so I adore and appreciate same in bae. I love being taken care of & I can care too. Infact, i understand & receive love more through Acts Of Service (if you have read The Five Love Languages). But i thought you meant financially when you said "take care of". Like a man who helps out financially when he can. But the fact that some have but don't help has made me not to be too dependent on men. Which bring about the mindset.

And like I said before, I have the mindset but I don't like it. Doesn't mean I can't discard it when a real man come up.

Boyooosa:

Thank God you have imposed urself into my employee list, o ya respond to this son...

Will you just quit? like i said, i will have the last say. Talking about employee, is the job for real papa?

DeeTus:
Fine lady.

Thanks Mr handsome

thepussyhunter:



so this is da face of the lady who has refused to say she loves me on her siggy cos she still feels hurt over her ex ......................

No wonder kimcutie cant stop lic..........

Lol
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