Opentokwowledge:
.... cos the womenfolk holds the key to a saner society and sexual modesty is one of such doors that should be opened for a less obscene society..

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THEY'LL DISCOVER OIL IN JUPITER FIRST BEFORE YOU FIND THAT TYPE OF HUSBAND. UNLESS YOU WANT THE JESUS BOYS.

BossLaifay:
This thing men (and even women) do to women is what makes this women shaming a very disgusting act! Hear how you have hinged the society's problems and solutions on women's necks.
So it ok for men to demand, beg, lie, deceive women for sex but it not ok for a woman to give in?
If the OP is preaching sexual chastity of men and women equally then its a different point all together.
Women can not save the society and improve morals. But men and women jointly can do it.

XhosaNostra:
Good for you. Pray that he'll be faithful to you afterwards. Being a virgin doesn't = to preferential treatment or immunity. You'll still face the same marital struggles that a whòre does.

Ladyhippolyta88:
So now there is nothing shocking being a Virgin but were you not the one praising virgins up and down saying it is an achievement for the husband?And please I hate gender stereotyping so I don't believe in women only I believe in both genders so womenfolks I don't care so stop blaming women alone because men themselves contribute to it or is low waist and other indecent dressing not also applied to the male folks.How do men parade themselves?

highqueen:

I'm pres.h
don't mind them jareh.

Ladyhippolyta88:
That is why I don' plan on getting married until I see my Virgin husband

BossLaifay:
Nne its very alarming o. The way women become saviours in moral matters. But useless everywhere else.

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WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT ME?

RadicallyBlunt:
Religion don chop this one brain finish o.

Why na Nigeria this kind people full sef.

The truth is its not about ur virginity but ur personality. Whatever is able to keep u a virgin till 30 is strong enough to make u not like sex even in marriage.

Don't just be religious, its not religion that's keeping u a virgin, its psychy.

Ladyhippolyta88:
So now there is nothing shocking being a Virgin but were you not the one praising virgins up and down saying it is an achievement for the husband?And please I hate gender stereotyping so I don't believe in women only I believe in both genders so womenfolks I don't care so stop blaming women alone because men themselves contribute to it or is low waist and other indecent dressing not also applied to the male folks.How do men parade themselves?

Opentokwowledge:
Keeping the virginity comes with a message that means 'No other man has been here before, I'm not loose, I'm a woman of standard moral principles and virtues'. Whoever is keeping her virginity for her husband is not doing him any favour, she's just showing the man how principled and determined she could be, and that's attractive!

XhosaNostra:


To each their own. Men marry non-virgins all the time because sexuality is not the only thing that measures good character, determination etc in a person. Only if you're narrow minded & backward, would you use her virginity status as a determining factor to her character. Who wants a man like that anyway? To hell with him. Personally, I don't care what men like that find attractive in a woman. My type of guy will find me attractive regardless of whom I've slept with before him.

Opentokwowledge:
Do you get turned on when you see those garage boiz dress "low waist"? In fact, how does indecent dressing in males relatd to the topic in hand? Plus, it seems you understand the male's anatomy cum psychology more than the men themselves so much you see yourself as an authority to dictate what and what should preempt my sense of achievement, right? Just continue!
When you are sha done calling dog monkey, you can tell me so that we can talk.

BossLaifay:
This thing men (and even women) do to women is what makes this women shaming a very disgusting act! Hear how you have hinged the society's problems and solutions on women's necks.
So it ok for men to demand, beg, lie, deceive women for sex but it not ok for a woman to give in?
If the OP is preaching sexual chastity of men and women equally then its a different point all together.
Women can not save the society and improve morals. But men and women jointly can do it.

Opentokwowledge:
Are you going to die if you say NO to every sexual advances that comes your way until your wedding night? Simple question!

XhosaNostra:


I've been in one relationship probably much longer than all your relationships & FWBs put together. Very few men in this world would ever say they have bedded me. That's the point you seem to be missing. Non-virgin doesn't mean slut. We have self-respect as much as the next woman. To top it off, I'm extremely picky. Having a dick doesn't mean you're good enough to Bleep with.

BossLaifay:
The simple answer is no.

Question for you. Would men die if they stop making sexual advances to women before their wedding night?

Reasoning with you is pointless. You are not very bright and would never be able to grasp the point I am trying to make.

teekay213:
but her husband will forever respect her.

CsRockefeller:


Trash, nonsense.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Now I do you were referring to her"There is no better Joy". I agree with you on this one caps we have better things to do.That was why I loved xhosanostra's response and the other two guys who said it is no guarantee.

Opentokwowledge:
Since your father is not very bright, carry yourself and your stupid question and go. You senseless cock-sucking beech!

XhosaNostra:


What's trash about it? I must pretend to care about what men I don't want, find attractive in a woman? No, I don't! Birds of a feather flock together. I'm not their feather so they might as well flock off. Not all of us look for validation in relationships or men abeg.

CsRockefeller:


Alright dear, I get your point. Its your opinion and you are entitled to it.

BossLaifay:
Lol.
So bitter! You cannot answer simple question. Question you asked first o. Just shows how slow and uncouth you really are.

Jochabed:
Thank you very much,i am most grateful. I understand the pain they feel,but there is nothing i can do. Someone has to tell the truth even though it hurts. Thanks again.

Jochabed:
P.S am not married,i am just qouting what my sexual purity coach tells me.

LordHiffy:

pls dont mind them. anyone who can be disciplined enough to keep virginity till marriage have a higher chance of being faithful and more disciplined in marriage. All the opinions they are giving u is either because they themselves have lost their virginity or because they have been influenced by peer pressure and media

Jochabed:
My bro!!!!!!

Preshy561:
good for you,so since you have been advertising your virginity crusade,you haven't gotten a husby from NL?

maybe ubuntu will engage you cos he likes virgins.