MISEDUCATIONS:
mah niggah.
girls' motto is "There's plenty of fish in the sea". yet the marriage rate is going down infront of their eyes. and they're single.
no man must marry before 35 and when he marries must marry under 22.

No lady under 22 is going to get married except she's a village girl or a female without an ambition. Its f*cking 2018 not 1975. Might be your choice anyways. Good luck

frenzyduchess:
someone is miseducating you with his moniker you are shouting "mah nigga "

girls will always hate a niggar sharing with his homies. go check my last Miseducation Miss, its at 2,000 views. 95% by males. get pissed and die.

Clear compass

and you want me to read that note you plaster therw and you want me to read that note you plaster therw

Our government fellows contribute why young ladies are finding it very difficult to settle down. Why because economy is bad.
Na one u see food chop b4 u talk of woman

Our government fellows contribute why young ladies are finding it very difficult to settle down. Why because economy is bad.
Na one u see food chop b4 u talk of woman
I think at this point now marriage should be made free so DAT young men DAT are due for married will easily settle down

tartarus:


No lady under 22 is going to get married except she's a village girl or a female without an ambition. Its f*cking 2018 not 1975. Might be your choice anyways. Good luck

well if thats true then why do 30something women get pissed when we mention the 22 yr olds...

Coldfeets:
You have a point there.

As for me, the main reason why I am yet to marry is because I haven't seen or found a girl so interesting enough.

Most girls I know are so intellectually below me. My above average IQ is the problem here...

Some friends advised me to just accept the girl and then begin to train her.

And I'm like... na me be her mama and papa wey suppose train her since tay tay...?

Maybe na baby mama me I go do finally finally because as for me, living in a house with someone who cannot challenge you intellectually all in the name of marriage is the shortest cut to suicide.

There are intelligent ones. Maybe you have a character trait that intelligent ones spot from afar that completely turns them off. Intelligent ladies can spot red flags from a distance and walk away before things become complicated.

Anyway, what do you consider a yardstick by which you measure intelligence in women you'd like to date?

Mtcheew who marriage help.Thank God i will never be married in my lifetime.

see how grown ass men carry women matter for head like gala. Women this, women that. Chai a world without women will leave some men bored and useless. Men who can not stand shoulder to shoulder with fellow men usually resort to bullying women. If they go to shiloh, is it your shiloh? Marry your own and dash out your daughters and sisters and leave others alone.

Chi59:


There are intelligent ones. Maybe you have a character trait that intelligent ones spot from afar that completely turns them off. Intelligent ladies can spot red flags from a distance and walk away before things become complicated.

Anyway, what do you consider a yardstick by which you measure intelligence in women you'd like to date?

Interesting...

Would you like to date me?

U are weeked

Okoyeebos:


See you in Shiloh in 2050.

micronut:
#Who is too young to marry after 18yrs? By Elu

You wanna know? Now read this!

A girl finished school at 20, started working after service year at 22, and from there, one serious mature working class guy in his 30's, that has been searching for long, was all over her. He was pleading, Amope, please marry me now. He asked for her hand in marriage but some village people in the spirits of families, parents, and friends told my dear girl that she's too young for marriage.

They told her that she still has full life in front of her, that she shouldn't go and tie herself down in the name of marriage, that marriage is not for a girl of 22, that she ain't matured enough, that she might regret it or marry wrongly, that better guys are always available once she's ready, that she should take her time and starts exploring career wise and the advises are just endless Lol!

Fast forward to 6yrs after, this same girl has gone through 3 terrible unsuccessful relationships that has turned her to a walking corpse in the name of depression.

She wants to give love another chance again but she ain't just lucky anymore.

The guys she is meeting nowadays, want just girlfriend, and probably Gf for benefits, or just to while away time, some need money first, to even think of marrying, but all she wants now is just a serious man that is ready to settle down, and she's still searching, holding onto prayers and hope.

You said how about the rejected guy? Oh, he is happily married with kids and still a friend with this girl who he now advises and pray for, like an old friend.

Who is this girl, you may wanna ask? Lol!

Oh Well, She doesn't exist really, but this is just a play out of realities of many girls here who may be reading this, that have left school a decade ago or years ago and have been working and the only prayer they are praying for now is the #Right Man!

Now this is the issue, who is too young to marry after 18yrs as a Lady? At least from legality of age. Who? 19? 20? 22? 24? Lol!

Well, there is something that I have learnt in this life, which is the fact that[b] a chase for perfection delays good results, rather, different trials give you experience to learn what makes perfection to come in place.[/b]

I once wrote sometimes, that if you ask many of us why we are not married, you will find out that if it is not either fear of the unknown, financial challenges, then may be it is largely because of relationship insecurities - in the name of let me look for a better guy or a better girl .

You see my people, many of these reasons are understandable and are tenable, but the simple truth is that seeking perfection in either of the cases above only causes nothing but personal delay.

If you think you are too young and there is still plenty of time then you need to study how quickly time burns out unknowingly and how the same time you think you have plenty of it, will be the one that would now be against you.

4yrs ago, I was youth Corper and someone once asked me funnily, that when I would likely get married? Lol!

I answered, "Marriage for where, me that is still young, I need a good job in an FMCG company. I need to enjoy my bachelor's life to cover up for my long years of celibacy. I need to have many girls around me, when my pocket is loaded, out of which I can pick the best".

But see me now, we are still hustling oooo & still single to stupor. Lol! Now, even one funny small boy will say, bros go marry ooo. Lol!

Now, if I as a guy is being disturbed left and right, imagine what a girl of my age will be experiencing daily, just like the lady that I fictionally illustrated above.

Suddenly, the same people that advised you that the other time, will be the one, now on your neck, saying, 'Iyabo, hey, you are aging oo, do you know you will be 27 by may? Lol

Even your parents who said then that you should take your time, will be now be reminding you of those your mates that have married lately and how you must hasten up or drag Mr wrong to the right side. Lol

And for you.. Oh, yeah, you are 100% ready now but where are the ready guys? Possibly disturbing another 22yrs old girl who might just say 'Yes, let's give this marriage thing a trial" like Zahra Buhari. Lol

Moral of the lesson: There is no such time as a right time for marriage than the time when everything looks favorable on your side but fear of unknown or societal perception of too early, or not good enough for you, may make you delay it for a latter day.

See, If you don't keep any ready guy in the future, then my young lucky sister, marry that ready dude now, if he is everything you want in a man.

Again, let me add this for older single girls that are searching. If you're 23+ and you ready to settle down, please try to avoid guys between 24 to 28yrs, for marriage plans, because only very few think about marriage at that age. Many are still sorting out their lives.

At 25, I was enjoying my life as a young Naija guy with no worries, and any girl at that time for me would have been in a long time waiting mode. Lol!

You wanna settle down, roll with men of 30+, with that, your waiting time reduces.

And for guys, you wanna settle down now but you have no money, please leave out girls below 24, many are not ready, they wanna explore, and the ready ones have financial burdens, that only big bros could carry.

Roll with older girls, you might not pay a dine, as these girls are mostly financially okay on their own. Through them, you get quick parental consent, the families accept you quickly and even fund your wedding plans. Just go bring your family and come and take her away. Lo[/b]l

[b]Wisdom is all we need!

#Goodnight Single friends. Let's keep searching rightly and let's not be delaying ourselves unknowingly.

Nairaland Marriage councilor

Good talk! Well-done. A word is enough for the wise.

micronut:
#Who is too young to marry after 18yrs? By Elu

You wanna know? Now read this!



And for guys, you wanna settle down now but you have no money, please leave out girls below 24, many are not ready, they wanna explore, and the ready ones have financial burdens, that only big bros could carry.

Roll with older girls, you might not pay a dine, as these girls are mostly financially okay on their own. Through them, you get quick parental consent, the families accept you quickly and even fund your wedding plans. Just go bring your family and come and take her away.

Wisdom is all we need!

#Goodnight Single friends. Let's keep searching rightly and let's not be delaying ourselves unknowingly.

Yes, there is no right or wrong time for marriage. But the bolded is a foolish comment. So people should sponsor your wedding plans just because you desire to get married? What about during the marriage? They should pay your children's fees, house rents, transport costs, health etc?

Person never chop belly full, they'd be thinking of marriage

MISEDUCATIONS:

girls will always hate a niggar sharing with his homies. go check my last Miseducation Miss, its at 2,000 views. 95% by males. get pissed and die.

how is your file sharing going?, you are the one on the revenge mission, if I remember correctly a wise man once said "before you think of revenge, dig two graves ". You have digged yours, just waiting for your lifeless body in it. .

flyca:
No necessarily so!

Before now, this kind of topic will not be written without splashing Linda Ikeji into our faces! Now she is engaged - Praise Jesus!

Do not tag marriage to a particular age. This is one of the wrong assumptions guys make when marriage-shaming older single women.

People should marry when they are financially and emotional ready to face the challenges that marriage brings. Marriage is no child's play.

Another is that I will personally encourage women to pursue their career and be financially grounded before delving into marriage. Nigeria is hard. Marriage, child bearing etc impedes a woman's career growth. If you don't take care, you are out of job. Getting back in a few years later in a labour-congested society such as ours is challenging, most times absent.

If you marry early and depend fully on an another adult for your daily sustainance, of what use is your education? Besides, you are gonna bring a lot of pressure of the man/marriage. Nigerian economy of today harsh o. Enterpreneurship without capital sustainance will fail, biko I'm not talking about hawking ankara and perfume from office to office.

From my own experience, a woman advancing in her career does not stop men from liking and toasting her. Just live a level headed life, without too much drama. Don't give in to societial pressure and start everyday vague uploads and preaching on Facebook and co, it's no competition. Live a natural (not fake) life devoid of sexual controversies, and stalking ex-es. etc. It will not be hard for you to get a man that will adore you even in your late 30's.

I am a living example.
And Sister Linda Ikeji is also engaged too already.

This is more like it. Not foolish and moronic comments about marrying at a certain age.

flyca:
No necessarily so!

Before now, this kind of topic will not be written without splashing Linda Ikeji into our faces! Now she is engaged - Praise Jesus!

Do not tag marriage to a particular age. This is one of the wrong assumptions guys make when marriage-shaming older single women.

People should marry when they are financially and emotional ready to face the challenges that marriage brings. Marriage is no child's play.

Another is that I will personally encourage women to pursue their career and be financially grounded before delving into marriage. Nigeria is hard. Marriage, child bearing etc impedes a woman's career growth. If you don't take care, you are out of job. Getting back in a few years later in a labour-congested society such as ours is challenging, most times absent.

If you marry early and depend fully on an another adult for your daily sustainance, of what use is your education? Besides, you are gonna bring a lot of pressure of the man/marriage. Nigerian economy of today harsh o. Enterpreneurship without capital sustainance will fail, biko I'm not talking about hawking ankara and perfume from office to office.

From my own experience, a woman advancing in her career does not stop men from liking and toasting her. Just live a level headed life, without too much drama. Don't give in to societial pressure and start everyday vague uploads and preaching on Facebook and co, it's no competition. Live a natural (not fake) life devoid of sexual controversies, and stalking ex-es. etc. It will not be hard for you to get a man that will adore you even in your late 30's.

I am a living example.
And Sister Linda Ikeji is also engaged too already.

God bless you for this
come and hug me

Coldfeets:
You have a point there.

As for me, the main reason why I am yet to marry is because I haven't seen or found a girl so interesting enough.

Most girls I know are so intellectually below me. My above average IQ is the problem here...

Some friends advised me to just accept the girl and then begin to train her.

And I'm like... na me be her mama and papa wey suppose train her since tay tay...?

Maybe na baby mama me I go do finally finally because as for me, living in a house with someone who cannot challenge you intellectually all in the name of marriage is the shortest cut to suicide.

Uncle Albert Einstein, you've shown yourself, I hope your high IQ can help this country overcome its woes! As your moniker implies ;you really have a cold feet!

frenzyduchess:
how is your file sharing going?, you are the one on the revenge mission, if I remember correctly a wise man once said "before you think of revenge, dig two graves ". You have digged yours, just waiting for your lifeless body in it.

proverbs are the defense of losers.
revenge or not, my gospel spreads like wildfire.

Who need a husband self, as long as am financially off, I can live by myself, nowadays we have insemination you don't need for that, so marriage who that help, number of violence in marriages nowadays are enough to make some girls not to get married...
It were I did practice sologamy, marriage na rubbish mtcheww

There are so many factors that affect getting married. It includes : finding the right person, emotionally prepared and financially prepared,Education etc. Marrying early or late is not a guarantee for lovely marriage. The main thing is marring the right person meant for you (someone you are compatible to). That something worked out for Miss A does not mean it will work for Miss B.

Good read

MISEDUCATIONS:
proverbs are the defense of losers.
revenge or not, my gospel spreads like wildfire.

this path will drain you.I am not at all threatened by your gospel cos I know some sound minds can discern you frustrations ,not everyone is destined to miserable like you. Dragging others into your bitterness won't help you, sooner or later they will have to heal and move on, what then happens to your gospel?, thrown into the abyss from where it came from o ye son of doom.

Good will always find a way to triumph over evil like you and your likes creating gender war where there is non, leading people to the dark where there is nothing but loneliness, bitterness and frustration. Have a terrible and miserable day like you always do .

trustworthy1:
There are so many factors that affect getting married. It includes : finding the right person, emotionally prepared and financially prepared,Education etc. Marrying early or late is not a guarantee for lovely marriage. The main thing is marring the right person meant for you (someone you are compatible to). That something worked out for Miss A does not mean it will work for Miss B.

your comment is just like your moniker (trustworthy)
God bless you
come and hug me

Okoyeebos:


See you in Shiloh in 2050.

That's too much na ...�

frenzyduchess:
this path will drain you.I am not at all threatened by your gospel cos I know some sound minds can discern you frustrations ,not everyone is destined to miserable like you. Dragging others into your bitterness won't help you, sooner or later they will have to heal and move on, what then happens to your gospel?, thrown into the abyss from where it came from o ye son of doom.

Good will always find a way to triumph over evil like you and your likes creating gender war where there is non, leading people to the dark where there is nothing but loneliness, bitterness and frustration. Have a terrible and miserable day like you always do .

im not the one drained. you're the one writing me epistle comments i wouldnt bother reading.....

To guys out there ,the best age for a woman to marry is between 25-29 and any woman above this range is not advisable to marry them except the woman is financially independent.Most girls (not all)of over 30s are always aggressive .

MISEDUCATIONS:

im not the one drained. you're the one writing me epistle comments i wouldnt bother reading.....

hahaha,you jumped into my mention don't tell me you suddenly developed amnesia , I bet you are surprised at how well I have read out your personality to you, I hope redemption finds you before you drain out, with no one but yourself to turn to. It must be so lonely for you, too bad, such a dark soul you have there.

frenzyduchess:
how is your file sharing going?, you are the one on the revenge mission, if I remember correctly a wise man once said "before you think of revenge, dig two graves ". You have digged yours, just waiting for your lifeless body in it. .

Mama, leave trash for LAWMA. Your comments are sour