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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nedfed(m): 10:42pm On Apr 10, 2018
UDUJ:
grin cheesy Toby calm down. It's all in your head bro (purely psychological).

I will explain in detail[b] once I get home[/b]. smiley

Stop deceiving him.
You wey dey on top ur 3 seater in ur living room.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by MrShine(m): 10:42pm On Apr 10, 2018
i swear this is so me... my first time sex i almost died after... was so sick...made a promise never to do it again and I've kept it so far....���
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by ipobarecriminals: 10:42pm On Apr 10, 2018
sad God is not punishing u,u dey punish urself.Get dat fear outta ur head.For all have sinned.God. can't. club u to death cos of ur sin

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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by vikstandon(m): 10:43pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not
been working and i just don't know what to do.

IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.

But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.


But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.

Please Do... I have gone that part, it was suicidal I must tell you. Everyday depression I had to open up to Mum (my mentor). I as well confessed to my fellowship President.
The Devil when he saw I was out to expose myself and declare what happened in the secret to open...Kept accusing and telling me u're gone, you have lost your talent, your gift...God has left u, you are doomed.

Baba it took my preaching to myself that 'Christ is my righteousness'_for me to have my peace.

Is a normal occurrence for people who made a vow...I've been there!

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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by flamingREED(m): 10:43pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again.





I fell into Romance with a lady
(minus penetration)
I repented, or thought I did,
But my health - mental and physical - was declining.
But connected to it was guilt as well.
As one who had tasted the power of heaven, I discerned in my mind that there was danger.
I met my pastor and confessed (as a worker who had gone astray).. Though I was made to tell fellow workers and leaders face to face what happened, and put on discipline for about seven months,
But I thank God I didn't hide my sin.
I had become well..
In those days I launched fierce attack on the kingdom of darkness.
I preached and revenge my fall.
Understand that there are agents of Satan on nairaland masquerading as atheists et al.
Beware, you may perish and go to your own place like the man in the Bible.
Follow the path God is prescribing to you and find peace.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by neonly: 10:45pm On Apr 10, 2018
thedondada:
Just go.for the hiv test and rest

Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Iscoalarcon: 10:45pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.

You should have prayed before sex,

Always pray before sex by saying.

Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen!
udonmeanit gringrin
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by gidjah(m): 10:45pm On Apr 10, 2018
may the merciful Lord be gracious unto you, May Jehova Raphha Be your portion.By this time tomorrow( I decree by the Unction of the Almighty Upon me) , you shall be hale and hearthy.Receive strenght to testify in JESUS PRECIOUS NAME. TAKE CARE MY DR BOY.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by EarthXmetahuman: 10:46pm On Apr 10, 2018
dude, you are just in a state of hypochondria.

the paranoia that imaginary fat man in the sky is dealing with you is what is making you sick.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nelsmannnnnnnnn(m): 10:49pm On Apr 10, 2018
DeadRat:



So You Are Joking with God. What You Dont Know Is That God Has A Very Low Sense Of Humor....

He Forgave You First Time And You Went Back Again...


Right Now, God Will Be Telling The 24 Elders "This Boy Thinks I'm his Mate"...



What kind of rat are you self?? undecided
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by vikstandon(m): 10:49pm On Apr 10, 2018
flamingREED:






I fell into Romance with a lady
(minus penetration)
I repented, or thought I did,
But my health - mental and physical - was declining.
But connected to it was guilt a well.
A one who had tasted the power of heaven, I discerned in my mind that there was danger.
I met my pastor and confessed (as a worker who had gone astray).. Though I was made to tell fellow workers and leaders face to face what happened, and put on discipline for about seven months,
But I thank God I didn't hide my sin.
I had become well..
In those days I launched fierce attack on the kingdom of darkness.
I preached and revenge my fall.
Understand that there are agents of Satan on nairaland masquerading as atheists et al.
Beware, you may perish and go to your own place like the man in the Bible.
Follow the path God is prescribing to you and find peace.

You are right...Confession is the key... Remorseful exposure of ur act to the open...Most especially to your Pastor and Parents and Christian folks who are of like minds helps...They would pray and bring u back...

The phrase 'Christ is my righteousness' when declared to yourself helps'

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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by distilledwalex(m): 10:49pm On Apr 10, 2018
Relax your mind.. There is nothing spiritual bout this whole thing... There has been rise in drug resistant malaria lately. What you're going thru is understandable when you have malaria. Remove all psychological speculation and youl be fine.. God is not punishing for anything Guy... It's all in your head.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Diso60090(m): 10:50pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not
been working and i just don't know what to do.

IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.

But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.


But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.


My guy try drink one bottle of dry gin 40% vol both sleep and thinking will be the one begging you to sleep
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by ogunnoikitaiwo(m): 10:50pm On Apr 10, 2018
lol...and u sure..she no use pant serve u food..
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by mandate12: 10:50pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:


Both partners will pray again saying.

We give you thanks almighty God, for this and all your benefits, you who live and reign forever and ever. Amen!

Haha.. Psycho.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Femistico(m): 10:51pm On Apr 10, 2018
Don't you have friends? Go out with them and take a chilled bottle of beer... Thank me l8r
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by no1madman(m): 10:51pm On Apr 10, 2018
g]hmmmm

Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by flamingREED(m): 10:52pm On Apr 10, 2018
Demonic atheists feeling jealous
And trying to delude themselves the more that they understand what we're talking about.

God will make your punishments very public for your publicized transgressions.

Amen.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by otabaotaba: 10:52pm On Apr 10, 2018
Proverb 24:16 A righeous man will fall and rise again

That u fell is not a problem but remaining at the spot where u fell is what makes u a sinner, but we shouldn't fall often and use that as an excuse1john1:9 confess to God again but this time don't think of going back to it.
I declare to u that ur peace starts now in Jesus name

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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Apr 10, 2018
Bro, the cause of ur sleeplessness is guilt.
Your mind is giving u many scenarios about ur vow and u are also afraid of the unknown diseases that comes after sex, like HIV, etc.
If u hadn't indulged in the sex, u wouldn't have been so worried and the anxiety and the guilt is taking away sleep from u.
If u believe in God, pray for mercy and counter whatever satanic thoughts the devil is trying to bring up in ur head.
And most importantly bro, try to hold unto ur vow next time. HIV is real.
Staying away from sex as a believer is very good cause it gives u peace of mind too, so next time whenever u are alone with an opposite sex try to leave if the seduction is breaking u down.
Thanks.

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Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Blessgod30: 10:54pm On Apr 10, 2018
Naso this SEX sweet that guys can't resist it.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by ibkkk(f): 10:55pm On Apr 10, 2018
UDUJ:
SirToby please don’t bring religion into this. God is not punishing you for any activity you feel you did cheesy

You suffer from Anxiety. Anxiety is a mental health disorder and affects over 60% of Nigerians but because of the way our society is designed we decide not to treat it cause of the supposed stigma attached to such. When people think of anxiety, they think of worrying and stress. They think of fears and a feeling as though something is going to go wrong. Anxiety is seen in thoughts and actions.

But anxiety has a tremendous physical component, and one of the key contributors to those physical sensations is long term stress. This Stress has a tremendous impact on your health, and one of the most common conditions is feeling ill.


The stress from anxiety can cause feelings of very genuine sickness. These feelings often mimic the way illnesses make you feel. Your stomach can feel like it's rumbling and you may even feel like you are having fever or malaria. Feeling sick may be a sign that you've fallen ill, but it can also be a clear sign of anxiety.

When we are stressed and the stress is a prolonged one (e.g. grief), it is physically very hard on the body to maintain this stress response for a prolonged period, so we have to find ways to take our body out of this stress response. Some of these ways are spending time with friends, counselling, medication, mindfulness, making sure we eat and sleep enough, massage, hypnosis etc. There are lots of different things that can help.

Anxiety can weaken your immune system, increasing the risk of suffering from mild illness.

Feeling ill is something that often causes concern. Some people feel so sick that they vomit or experience profound nausea that keeps them away from their activities. Some people experience more than just nausea as well. They may experience other symptoms that are similar to catching a fever, malaria or flu. They may feel like their organss are swollen, or their tongue is dry. They may feel lightheaded. They may even cough or experience severe stomach discomfort, like indigestion.

When anxiety is causing these symptoms, they're not dangerous. Anxiety is simply your body's misfiring of the body's natural fight or flight response, and the way your body reacts is designed to make sure that you know you're supposed to be fearful.
The problem isn't the signals themselves, the problem is that you're experiencing them all the time, often when it is inconvenient. People feel these symptoms for different reasons:

Situational anxiety is actually natural. It's inconvenient, but it's natural. Back in school, if you felt severe illness before a big test, it's because you genuinely feared that test. While tests shouldn't provide that fear, the reaction is not unexpected.

But on the other hand, the one you should fear and what I think you have is Feelings of chronic illness from anxiety which is even more problematic, because when your anxiety won't go away, the feeling of being ill won't go away either. It becomes something that makes you feel worse about your health, saps your energy, and can ruin each and every day (all symptoms you are feeling now).

My recommendation: go to the clinic and see a trained therapist. He will prescribe some good anti-depressants. You will be okay. smiley



Good! GOOD!!Good!!!
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by twentyk(m): 10:55pm On Apr 10, 2018
Im just verry happy barca lost...
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by visionex: 10:55pm On Apr 10, 2018
TonyeBarcanista:

Lols you de use God de play?
,not a laughing matter imagine a mere moral
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by distilledwalex(m): 10:55pm On Apr 10, 2018
Another thing to help you... Set your phon to auto off and on.. Maybe 9 to 5 and go to bed earlier... Resist the urge of using your phone within that period of time.. Thank me later
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Tombilly(m): 10:56pm On Apr 10, 2018
donstan18:
You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.

You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.

Always pray before sex by saying.

Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen!
Make Amadioha break your ribs for toiling with our precious prayer before meal.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Spar7tan(m): 10:57pm On Apr 10, 2018
Jabioro:
Nothing do you,get one devana drink,call the babe again this time around measured you drill the bore hole perfectly.No roforofo,clean and dried hole shoulb your watch words by then you will weak and tired..sleep cover your eyes like a little baby.As for your sin with God,He had not noticed any yet except if you gone for 70 *7 in a day,therefore your sin record is Nah.

Na u dey handle pen and paper wey Dem dey write sin put? Abi?
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Spar7tan(m): 10:58pm On Apr 10, 2018
DeadRat:



So You Are Joking with God. What You Dont Know Is That God Has A Very Low Sense Of Humor....

He Forgave You First Time And You Went Back Again...


Right Now, God Will Be Telling The 24 Elders "This Boy Thinks I'm his Mate"...



And the 24 elders will be like "IMAGINE"
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by dapsin999(m): 10:58pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:

Thanks brother.
i will act accordingly.
sincerely appreciate.
i need your prayers also.
Thanks.

I am an aromatherapist. Buy an aroma diffuser if u don’t have, use Lavender and sweet Orange essential oils. U will find yourself sleeping like a baby. And your mind will be calm, it’s a strop anti-despessant. U can run some Lavender oil behind your ear and around neck before bedtime.Thank me later.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Domance: 10:59pm On Apr 10, 2018
[quote author=Firgemachar post=66603197]

SirToby, this comment will destroy you and take you to hell faster than you can imagine. smiley

The poster is a hell-bound satanist sent to fast track your destruction.


Who be dis one wey dey run mouth any how so? Pls learn to respect peoples opinion. OP requested for advice which every one has d liberty to. Its left for d OP to sieve d various advice and pick d most suitable for him using his discretion. pls stop running people down because of their opinion on issues.
Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Divinerace(m): 11:00pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:

Bro i'm serious. i need help.

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