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Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by ImaIma1(f): 7:35am On May 28, 2018 |
FreeConCiencE: A woman can handle the bills when her husband is unable to without even the children knowing. That is why they are a team. But when a man maltreats his wife when he was the one with the money, it will take God's grace to make her still remain the same. The man doesn't actually dictate what happens. A couple should make decisions jointly even if the man's final decision will superceed in the end. Except the man married a puppet that has no mind to reason. They are a team. But a lot of men like to milk this authority. But if your love is patient,kind, not proud or self seeking as the Bible commanded, you will not have ideas of dictatorship at all. I know how to make the decision in my home. I don't force it down his throat. I make suggestions and give him reasons. I am glad i married a man that had the kind of background that he had. Rather than relegate me to the background, he values my opinion and thoughts even in his own affairs. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by sprints1: 7:38am On May 28, 2018 |
too much book, feminism, oloshoism is the main reason behind it...and the most stupid reason of all when she is in power probably a CEO of a company or she is richer... |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by eyinjuege: 7:39am On May 28, 2018 |
msylva2147: You have to understand one thing, you cannot buy a human being. So all this bride price things doesn't mean you've bought someone who is going to obey and do your biddings like a zombie. I think bride price should be abolished anyway. Even Buhari's daughter got a bride price of 500K, which is easily replaceable for people like her. That doesn't mean the husband has bought a zombie. People spend money on weddings all over the world, so its not a new thing. It's just that both husband and wife need to contribute to the wedding. It's not good enough that only the husband contributes to the wedding as done by some families. If a woman and her family cannot afford an expensive wedding, they need to cut their coat according to their size. It's poverty mentality thats worrying the whole family, not just the woman sef. Concerning women changing after marriage, it happens to both men and women. When you date someone from a distance, its a differnt ball game when you start to live with them 24/7. After a while, you start to get on each other's nerves. It's just like 2 good friends who start living together will all of a sudden start having trouble between themselves when they start living together. Even brothers with same upbringing can have the same problem. The golden rule, do unto others what you want them to do to you. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by FreeConCiencE: 8:03am On May 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Maltreating women ... I don't support that and that is not the topic of this discussion If you allow your husband decisions to supersede at the end and you allow him to have the final say...... Thumbs up for you. If you believe you can make decisions for your husband because of what you consider as reasons whether you force it down his throat or he sips it himself ........ You are wrong If you make suggestions for your husband and he makes the final decision himself regardless of whether you think you are right or wrong ....thumbs up. I repeat, your husband is the authority, he is the head and he dictates as the final decision maker. That is the teaching of the Holy Bible, the Quran and our rich culture. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by lovelybugs(f): 8:22am On May 28, 2018 |
Pataricatering:when they are jobless what do you expect? We don't see women opening threads about men do we? I don't know how someone can sit down and start thinking about women and how to run their lives. I will always say this when your looking for who to marry, make sure you marry someone with your mentality. If you want a submissive wife go and look for an uneducated girl in your village and get married to her you cannot come and marry an independent,working educated woman and be giving her order like her father and expect her to answer you. Smh when they've not finished respecting their parents . |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by ImaIma1(f): 9:14am On May 28, 2018 |
FreeConCiencE: Most times when i make suggestions, he tells me to do what i think is right, use my discretion. That is why he married me. He never wanted a woman that cannot think for herself and cannot take on decision making in the house especially as i am the one in charge most of the time...even down to what he will eat. You may dictate in your home but my husband does not dictate. He is not exactly traditional in his thinking and approach to marriage and life generally. I opened my eyes well before i married. I didn't want a traditional thinking man that will send me back to the 1900s. As long as i respect him, we are good |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Barzinime(m): 9:57am On May 28, 2018 |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Xisnin(m): 10:00am On May 28, 2018 |
Barzinime:I guess not, perpetual singles always think they have the "best" marriage advice even though they have no experience whatsoever. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Barzinime(m): 10:16am On May 28, 2018 |
Most of you want to imbibe foreign cultures but dont even understand the rudiments Just dont disturb us on here, when you have issues But what do i know? maybe thats the way your own parents did theirs, so i may be wrong Xisnin: |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Barzinime(m): 10:32am On May 28, 2018 |
That was how your father and mother did theirs abi? Even though they showed you the scriptures that institutionalize marriage, the devil still doesn't want you to have understanding, hardening your heart like that of Pharaoh, but we all know how it ended for Pharaoh so you can continue in your wisdom along with your Minions Ivorianaija: |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Xisnin(m): 11:52am On May 28, 2018 |
Barzinime:You have no knowledge of what you are discussing, you think hearsay and marriage are the same. You will be fully disappointed like the OP when the time comes. But there is still a remedy, go and ask those who have been married for more than 10 years how they live their lives, you will be surprised that it has nothing to do with the unrealistic perfect picture which you and many boys here paint on nairaland. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Barzinime(m): 12:13pm On May 28, 2018 |
Ogbeni....dey your lane...do what you want Xisnin: |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Barzinime(m): 1:40pm On May 28, 2018 |
Ok..Thought you were saying otherwise Ivorianaija: |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by frozen70(f): 9:46pm On May 28, 2018 |
Ivorianaija:Exactly, they wqntbto turn the women to robots whom they will turn around. Respect yourself as a man and your wife will honour you. You don't expect women to teach men their duties at home but when you shy away from it or becomes clueless about the home front then you have rubbed your self in the mod. Respect is reciprocal you can't keep a woman at home, starve her,subject her to domestic turture and expect her to respect you, kole work. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jun 14, 2018 |
Pataricatering: Lol, for ya mind dear. Go to prayer houses and crusades.. |
Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by Fortune118005(m): 1:46pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
The scriptures is balanced regarding marriage. Husbands are to love their wives and treat them like queens while wives are to submit to their husbands and treat them like kings. Women are to call their husbands Lord and show them respect. If a woman respect her husband, she can easily get whatever she wants from him.Fact I agree 100% |
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