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Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by pocohantas(f): 11:13am On Jul 13, 2018 |
zicoraads: Nawa. You done commot from Belgium, enter Nigerian used. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 11:23am On Jul 13, 2018 |
Hanseel1: OGA BLAME THE MEN JARE. THE WOMEN EXPECT, THE MEN PROVIDE. IF THE MEN DON'T PROVIDE WHAT WOMEN EXPECT NOBODY'S GONNA JAIL THEM. BUT IT'S FUNNY THOUGH. GIFTS AND ENDLESS PRAISES FOR STICKING WITH ME WHEN I HAD NOTHING? LOL. I HAD NOTHING BUT I PAY FOR YOUR HAIR AND SUB. I GOT YOU HANDOUTS AND CLOTHES AND SOMETIMES ADDED TO YOUR SCHOOL FEES AND ENSURED YOU FED WELL. I'M NOT THE PERSON WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE SAYING THANK YOU, WHEN ALL YOU DID WAS PLACE ME IN CHARGE OF YOUR SURVIVAL. 2 BROKE PEOPLE. STRUGGLING TO MAKE MONEY. AFTER SOME TIME THE MAN GETS A SOURCE OF GETTING MONEY.. THE WOMAN SHOULD CONGRATULATE AND CELEBRATE THE MAN FOR BEING A BETTER ADULT AND STEPPING UP TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING WHEN ALL SHE DID IN THE PREVIOUS YEARS WAS LAY AROUND, FOLLOW FASHION TRENDS AND ENGAGE WITH OTHER TOASTERS ON FACEBOOK PRAYING THAT ONE OF THEM WOULD CONVINCE HER TO ABANDON HER BOYFRIEND. NOBODY IS IRREPLACEABLE. PERSONALLY I'VE GONE THROUGH A LOT TO REALIZE STRESSING TOO MUCH OVER PEOPLE IS NOT WORTH IT. THEY GON LEAVE YOUR SORRY ASŚ JUST THE WAY THEY CAME. I CAN'T BE THANKING ANYONE FOR BEING WITH ME IF I CANNOT FIND THE POSITIVITY THEY ADDED TO MY LIFE. IT'S QUITE LAUGHABLE THAT COOKING, CLEANING, AND SEX ARE WHAT SOME PEOPLE COUNT AS CONTRIBUTIONS TO A MAN'S LIFE WHEN HE WAS BROKE. IF THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GETTING FROM YOUR PARTNER THEN YOU'RE LOSING NIL TO ONE MILLION. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 11:44am On Jul 13, 2018 |
WORLDPEACE: IF MEN WERE AS DESPERATE FOR PRAISES AND REWARDS LIKE WOMEN, THEY'LL EXPECT THANKS FROM THEIR PARTNERS FOR STAYING WITH THEM DURING THEIR MONTHLY PERIODS. THEY'LL EXPECT PRAISES FOR HOLDING THE BABY. THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE WORSHIPPED FOR DOING BASIC HOUSE CHORES. THEY'RE EXPECT PROSTRATION FROM EVERY MEMBER OF THE FAMILY EVERY MORNING AND EVENING FOR PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY. THEY'LL EXPECT TO BE REVERED AND GLORIFIED FOR ETERNITY FOR PAYING THE BRIDE PRICE, AND SAVING WOMEN FROM TURNING INTO EVENING NEWSPAPERS (DONSTAN18 PLEASE ALLOW ME TO USE THIS ) BUT MEN DON'T CARE AT ALL. ALL THEY WANT IS LOYALTY AND HUMILITY. WOMEN ON THE OTHER HAND BELIEVE THEY'RE ENTITLED TO THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE, AND CAN AS WELL DEMAND FOR PEOPLE'S LIVES. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Jeferious: 1:02pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
safarigirl:come again with your last paragraph. What did you just say? Emotions didn't work. Of course outright lies will. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
pocohantas: Please tell us you are confam tear rubber Americana spec. Please. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Newmanluckyman(m): 2:55pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Hanseel1:...flesh and blood didn't revealed this to you. God bless you. It's amazing how relationship and romance has turned to business centres with loss and profit expectations. It's really unfortunate. 6 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
carammel: When a guy date a broke girl, should he be rewarded for dating the girl despite her terrible status? Or is the rewarding not applicable to females? 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: They're some bunch of funny creatures. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Toks2008(m): 10:38pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
zicoraads: I have written similar article which made front page about 2years ago.. Yes it's not a favour to be with a struggling guy but it's just a guy's thing to appreciate such lady especially naija men...its Just natural with us.... But she has to be hot enough to be wanted by other men and not the one who sticks because no other man dey chase am. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Hotzone(m): 10:39pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Trapping....bae gat my laundry....love u bae
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Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by frowland(m): 10:39pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
zicoraads: Thank goodness it was just your opinion. Women who stood by you during tough times needs to be appreciated and I can tell you this from experience. Very close in comparison only to mothers. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by brownhawk: 10:40pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Hanseel1:she'll compensate guys for being broke with her smelly pussy. Oh I forgot, they don't see themselves as broke but as entitled vagina carriers 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by babyfaceafrica: 10:41pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
frowland:what of fathers??..working ng 8 to 5 and sending you to school from KG till you finished university.. he doesn't deserve anything abi? 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by frowland(m): 10:45pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: When we use the word mothers, most of us actually mean uncommon care. Fathers absolutely is, but most of them are twats. I am a father actually but I am yet to know if am a twaat or not . 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by babyfaceafrica: 10:51pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
frowland:most of fathers are twats,while mothers are angels... ..abi?..your opinion 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Dearlord(m): 10:51pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Children of new generation had never known their left from their right. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by doskie(m): 10:52pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
donstan18:i love your response. especially the part where you respected fools enough not to refer to her as one. incase you are looking for the english word that deacribes that person, well, i didnt exactly find it, but i found a yoruba word that closely matches with what you want to say. its okponu. please feel free to apply it whenever he/she contacts you again. kind regards 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by frowland(m): 10:52pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: I don't know what you are talking about. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mattonnairaland: 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Why is it looking like a privilege to date poor guys? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by MinorityTribe: 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
You are right though, I can only reward her bountifully if she aid my/OUR success one way or the other. This is actually a revelation! You own no one nothing for dating you irrespective of your condition, It reeks of low self esteem and i didn't realize this since. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Akhigbeblog(m): 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Babyforever: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Biglittlelois(f): 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
carammel: Spot on!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Diso60090(m): 10:54pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Broke nigga ain't happy seeing other nigga success 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by james9932: 10:55pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
This is a very stupid post I must say, If this guy is broke then that means he is even more stupid. Nowadays it very hard to get a girl you call your Girlfriend that would be so loyal with you during your trying times when there are lots of guys out there to give her the best so if you find one my brother celebrate her if this fool likes make him go hand himself 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by jimcaddy(m): 10:55pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Walahi bros abeg three Orijin for you there. Your head dey there. I still don't get. What law of any constitution states that a girl is supposed to date a man just because she will be doing him a favour? The way girls have made guys to be thinking like mad men ehn. Girls do not know the reason why they are dating. They are just there for what they stand to gain. In Nigeria, marriage should be more or less called a business contract between a man and a woman zicoraads: 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by ikorodureporta: 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
**FRAUD ALERT! THEY JST WITHDREW N1000 & N50 From my bank for card renewal. Is it not suppozd to be end of the month? I guess its for Ekiti election... 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by doskie(m): 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Cyberleets:you have a branch in kano? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by okerekeikpo: 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
What did she give you if not pussy? 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by jimcaddy(m): 10:57pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
So are you saying now that a broke guy is the reason why he is broke, and that dating is meant to be gice and take, like a business contract? james9932: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by ImohWilliams1(m): 10:58pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Every act of loyalty deserves some reward. We've seen instances where people reward their friends who stood by them including male friends. How much more a lady who had the option of leaving your poor ass when she was faced with pressure daily from wealthy guys but she decided to stay. 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by abimic(m): 11:01pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
Not one favor done when a girl dates a guy while still hustling, it's not as if the girl fed him or paid his house rent, while the going was rough as not one situation last forever no matter how hard especially for a never giving up soul. Infact, we owe no one anything, that we pay good for evil or evil for Good is choice, and we are entitled to whatever we believe but forcing one's idea on the throat of another is even dumbest. An eagle only leave it's nest when it's capable of flight! 1 Like |
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