Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,412 members, 7,954,644 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 04:17 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor (43403 Views)
Update: Why I Stuck With This Girl, After Walking Away From 3 Other Ladies. / Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Dated You When You Were Poor / It Is Wrong To Ask “how Was Your Night?” – Here’s Why. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by delishpot: 7:41am On Jul 14, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: Yinmu, as if you will love and cherish her as a wife if she doesnt play her wifely role as a home maker in that marriage. If a woman tells you that she deserves respect as a wife and mother without playing those roles to her husband and children will you not say she was dreaming? Why then is it a problem if a woman also demands that you do due delligence as the man of the house to recieve your respect and honour as the head? All these small boys sef. Hahahaha. They can make demands for whatever fancies their brains but dont want to be asked to do anything in return. That mentality of yours is what useless dads have. Do you want to grow up to be a useless father and husband? I cant even imagine responding to your next chewing gum rant you will call reply. Chai! Who is breeding all these komkom overgrown babies we call males in naija? 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by victorian(f): 7:43am On Jul 14, 2018 |
safarigirl: God bless you Don't mind the senseless guys in this forum talking trash about not appreciating the woman who stood by them. Last last with all their money on the long run, they will still be lonely and miserable. I know quite a number of well to do guys who live empty life's. Very empty I tell you. No woman to call their own.. I just pity such men these days. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by freshyoladipupo(m): 7:44am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Op....i can authoritatively say u are a masculinist(if the word exist)....but i think u are partially right. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Peterosky(m): 7:44am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Op,thank God I am a man.This your post is totally senseless, needless and dumb.For any woman to stick with you in your difficult times, it means she would have contributed in one way or the other towards your success. I know what I am telling you because one of the reason why I married my wife is she was there for me and never found her cheating when things were so difficult with me. She also supported me in her own little way.And I am going to disappoint you that as soon as things get better than there are right now, I will reward her. You can go and die. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Iamgrey5(m): 7:47am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Mariinee:Thanks, how is school and everything. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 7:50am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Some men are just a disgrace! I will keep saying it broke men full nairaland, can't you see such question |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:School is good. My phone spoilt and I lost your number. Do you still have mine? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:52am On Jul 14, 2018 |
My dear,leave those guys,they are jst dumb,they dnt undstnd and can never,stop arguing with them safarigirl: 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 7:52am On Jul 14, 2018 |
perfectface: PLEASE I'M NOT HEAD AND PROVIDER. I DON'T MAKE ANY DECISIONS ALONE BECAUSE YOUR SHITTY BIBLE SAYS THAT. YOU SAY YOUR BIBLE SAID I SHOULD TILL GROUND.. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD OBEY YOUR BIBLE? I MEAN, EVERY PART OF THE BIBLE? IF I'M TO OBEY YOUR BIBLE.. I'LL OBEY THE PART THAT ASKS ME TO TILL GROUND AND OWN YOU AS MY SLAVE. I'LL OBEY THE PART THAT SAYS NON VIRGINS SHOULD BE EXECUTED. THE PART THAT ENCOURAGES ME TO RAPE ANY GIRL OF MY CHOICE AND PAY OFF HER FATHER IF HE FINDS OUT. YOUR BIBLE IS SHĮT SO I CAN'T LIVE BY IT'S WORD. SO OUR PARENTS, YOURS AND MINE SPONSORED US IN SCHOOL FOR MORE THAN 20 YEARS SO THAT WHEN WE BOTH GRADUATE YOU'LL BECOME MY RESPONSIBILITY? SO YOU MUST BE SOMEONE'S RESPONSIBILITY FOR ALL YOUR LIFE.. AS A CHILD YOU WERE YOUR PARENTS RESPONSIBILITY. NOW AS A FULL GROWN ADULT HUMAN YOU STILL WANT TO BE SOMEONE'S RESPONSIBILITY. EVEN BABIES DON'T CRAVE FOR CARE AND ATTENTION LIKE MANY ADULT WOMEN. I'VE SEEN MOTHERS GETTING ANGRY THAT THEIR HUSBAND'S GIVING THEIR LITTLE CHILD ALL THE ATTENTION HE'S SUPPOSED TO GIVE HER. WOMEN WANT RESPECT AND EQUALITY. BUT STILL EXPECT MEN TO PAY THE BILLS AND "BE THE HEAD". THAT IS NONSENSE. I'M NOT A HEAD AND I'M NOT A PROVIDER. CALL IT ANYTHING YOU WANT BUT I'LL RATHER TAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER WITH MY PARTNER THAN FIT INTO YOUR SOCIETAL AND RELIGIOUS BOX. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 7:54am On Jul 14, 2018 |
An opportunity for lady here to know what they will choose here if at all they are in a relationship with someone here!!! I cry for that lady that will marry that stupid post before me |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by perfectface: 7:55am On Jul 14, 2018 |
LarryBeryl:this is so sad! How do you even get off thinking this way. Someone stuck around with you when every dumped you and now things are alright , you now finally start using your brain! reasoning all of a sudden because of a change in lifestyle. Am sure u guys talked alot about how you will spoil her once things got better, now you u can't even stand the thought. Cruelty in African men is appalling. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Iamgrey5(m): 7:55am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Mariinee:oh sorry about that, Yes I do, are you still on watsapp ? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by sexdoll: 7:56am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads: nwanne eh, eziokwu the thing taya me, i no go lie you. but then again, what else do you expect in a world where so many men are nothing but pussy worshipers and pussy lickers? their stupid _ass-licking behaviors when it comes to women is the reason why they make some women feel like they are the most important thing in the world even though such women may have little or nothing to offer.... expect their fishsmelling pussy. sometimes, i just feel like slapping some men when i see them worshipping women and pussy. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by makydebbie(f): 7:56am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Learnt a lot from this thread. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 7:57am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Funkybabee: BROKE MEN FULL NAIRALAND IS A FACT. NOBODY DE DRAG WITH YOU. BROKE MEN FULL NIGERIA. I'M NOT CALLING YOUR NAME O, BUT PEOPLE WHO CALL PEOPLE MORE FINANCIALLY STABLE THAN THEM BROKE, ARE MAD. THEY DESERVE TO DIE. Funkybabee: THE ONLY TIME A REASONABLE MAN WOULD WANT TO BE WITH YOU IS TO DROP YOU SOME CHANGE SO THAT YOU WILL PART THIGHS. NOBODY CAN MARRY SOMEONE WITH YOUR MENTALITY. IT'S THE END OF THIS WORLD. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Iamgrey5(m): 7:57am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Funkybabee:Don't read too much meaning to what people write or say on the social media..... |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:59am On Jul 14, 2018 |
yettymuse:Daaamn right, babe! 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 8:01am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:Yes, I do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Igbins70(m): 8:06am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads: E no bad just that not all girls will stick to u when u are broke not to talk of being faithful |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by perfectface: 8:06am On Jul 14, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:Oh! Pardon my assumptions that you read my awesome bible. Let me not put you in the so called box. Dude it's alright to go to school as a lady and earn but no amount of it can take your place as a man. Understand your place as the provider ( why does it hurt so much) and the woman will be more than obliged to partner with you and that includes her resources. It means you can't marry a lady who isn't earning. Can't you assist your wife in owning a business that will in turn benefit the family? Lol, u even just denounced your headship of the family yet am sure u give orders around and insist on absolute respect. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by fancy4eve(f): 8:08am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Dat show how ungrateful u are.....u really need 2 change ur mind set, learn 2 appreciate odas more especially does dat stuck on u Wen u had notn. CAPSLOCKED: |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by phemmyfour: 8:13am On Jul 14, 2018 |
eezeribe:Any girl that stays with you when you have nothing, did so based on true love cos naturally no lady will stay with a man that have nothing |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 8:13am On Jul 14, 2018 |
delishpot: IN THE HOUSE I GREW UP THERE WERE NOTHING LIKE WIFELY ROLES. I WON'T SAY ANYTHING ON THAT. A WOMAN CAN'T DEMAND RESPECT. PEOPLE MUST EARN IT. Why then is it a problem if a woman also I'M THE MAN OF THE HOUSE EXACTLY THE SAME WAY SHE'S THE WOMAN OF THE HOUSE. WE'RE TWO GROWN PEOPLE RESPECTING AND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR ONE ANOTHER.
SAY WHAT YOU WANT.. BUT RIGHT NOW I NEED YOU TO GO BACK TO THE COOKING SECTION. YOU NEED TO MASTER YOUR ART SO YOUR HUSBAND DOESN'T BEAT YOU TO DEATH FOR OVERCOOKING HIS MEALS. SLAVE GIRL.
NO NAIRALANDER IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR DAD'S USELESSNESS. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 8:16am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Iamgrey5: Hmm its might be truth in some area,don't u think so |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 8:17am On Jul 14, 2018 |
fancy4eve: WHAT ABOUT THE PEOPLE I STuCK TO WHEN THEY HAD NOTHING? HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT I TOO, MUST TO BE COMPENSATED AND APPRECIATED? OR IT ONLY WORKS IF I'M A WOMAN? I DON'T UNDERSTAND. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 8:19am On Jul 14, 2018 |
perfectface: YOUR BIBLE IS SHĮT. GO TO HELL. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by divinelove(m): 8:21am On Jul 14, 2018 |
you guys should not get it twisted, a lady is like a market and some of them has so many better options than their broke ass boy friend yet they stayed and built with him. such a lady is a rare gem and should be celebrated. some of these men even upgrade and dump these ladies once money show. I don't see anything wrong in appreciating such a lady, any man that thinks otherwise is an ingrate. she left men with means and stayed an built with a broke ass n now you think she is an idiot, it's a huge step of faith in her man and there is no guarantee BC d man may still die with her even poorer. men appreciate ladies that built with u biko, man is a provider and lady a helper. if a man cannot provide for a lady you are not qualified to date such lady and that is God's standard. Having a penis is not what makes you a man, it only makes u a male. weak broke ass ingrate kids everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Iamgrey5(m): 8:22am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Funkybabee:No I don't necessarily think it is the truth in some areas. I believe we shouldn't always judge a book by its covers |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 8:22am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Some people are replying that mad dog!!! They shaa have time ooo |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by mgtow: 8:22am On Jul 14, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:It only works if you're a woman. Men came to this world to die na. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by babyfaceafrica: 8:23am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Funkybabee:lolz..like how telemundo also applies to real life abi?....nothing beats real.life experiences |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Funkybabee(f): 8:24am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Iamgrey5: Yes,we shouldn't but Yoruba says 'we first look house before naming a new child' and a word describe a person |
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)
Boyfriend Shaves Her Eyebrows Over Compliments From Guys At The Club / Access Bank CEO Shares A Marriage Proposal Video That Took Place In A Branch / Please Advise: I Am A Guy Of 35 Considering A Lady For Marriage Who Is 22years.
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 79 |