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CrimeRe: Driver Shot Dead During New Yam Festival In Abia Community (photos) by 46arcadez(m): 6:14pm On Aug 16, 2021
The Gods are thirsty, but not the blood of innocent ones.
CareerRe: Dilemma: Advise From Experienced Bankers Needed by 46arcadez(m): 4:59pm On Aug 13, 2021
Would have advised you to take up the new work with higher challenges cuz you will be more developed if not for the security challenges in kaduna.

Leaving your family behind and travel to kaduna for the new job will make you spend more.

Las las 'Safety first'
CrimeRe: Keke Operator Arrested After Robbing, Raping His Female Passenger In Benin City by 46arcadez(m): 5:12pm On Aug 12, 2021
Benin ehh
FamilyRe: Prophet Divine Okoh's Marriage Ends After 3 Months For Not Keeping To Promise by 46arcadez(m): 11:00pm On Aug 05, 2021
Omihanifa:
Bleaching prophet undecided
See as Baba dey red like tomatoes
Bleaching Pastor, so God no do HIM work well?
Werey dey disguise Pastor
Nairaland GeneralLand Owners In Ugwuaji Enugu by 46arcadez(op): 5:57pm On Aug 02, 2021
Can someone please help with the list, have checked on their online site but couldn't see it.

#Public Notice!

Enugu State Government, through the State Ministry of Lands and Urban Development, publishes list of genuine purchasers of land from the genuine land owning villages of Ugwuaji Community, as authenticated by the respective Executive Committees of the villages and other affected persons.

...Asks those whose names appeared in the list herewith (published in Sun Newspaper of Monday, August 2, 2021) to proceed immediately to the office of the Surveyor-General of #Enugu State, in the Ministry of Lands and Urban Development, within one month from the date hereof, for the payment of the appropriate survey fee...
��.....can anyone get access to the Sun Newspaper it was published from?...
Share here please
Car TalkRe: Car Washer Wrecks His Client’s Car After Driving It To Buy Food (Video) by 46arcadez(m): 7:29pm On Jul 25, 2021
nedekid:
Unfortunately, nothing will happen. Owner will have to fix or sell his car, the culprit will return to work, after tops 1 week
Sure bet
FamilyRe: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by 46arcadez(m): 2:11am On Jul 22, 2021
Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please
I stand with your mother.
RomanceRe: I Find Older Women Attractive. Am I Weird?? by 46arcadez(m): 3:31pm On Jul 18, 2021
Singles - Approved
Married - Japa
RomanceRe: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by 46arcadez(m): 10:37pm On Jul 17, 2021
Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?
Just read the first sentence;
Six years and not yet married?
I am not reading again.
SportsRe: UFC: Conor Mcgregor Injures Ankle, Poirier Wins UFC 264 Showdown (Graphic Video) by 46arcadez(m): 9:15pm On Jul 11, 2021
MC Gregor is going down the lane of Tony Ferguson
SportsRe: UFC: Conor Mcgregor Injures Ankle, Poirier Wins UFC 264 Showdown (Graphic Video) by 46arcadez(m): 9:14pm On Jul 11, 2021
meobizy:
When your body starts breaking then it’s time to hang up your boots. He should have retired since the Mayweather fight. Since he doesn’t have sense he’ll retire again then come back next year.
Just for the money
RomanceRe: She Takes Too Many Pictures And Videos by 46arcadez(m): 9:41am On Jul 10, 2021
Draslo:
My guy's babe is the worst. She's just past her mid 20s, currently in her service year. Her WhatsApp statues in a day is more than 15. She takes selfies of herself everywhere she goes like MTN.

After she posts it, if any of her friends saves that photo and reposts it on their own status, she'll screenshot it and post the same picture she posted earlier but screenshot from someone else's status. She could post 5 of the same picture this way. Now, normally this wouldn't be a problem for me since I'm not her boyfriend but I've been patient and my patience is wearing thin.

Everytime she's around whilst I'm there, be it at his house or mine, out chilling or whatever, this girl will make tons of videos and pictures before she leaves. Also this wouldn't be a problem if she won't post all the pictures online right after.

I'm a very coded guy and I'm in love with this my low-key lifestyle. I haven't posted any of my own photos on any of Mark Zuckerberg's apps in more than 2 years but this girl will just be tagging up and down on IG. Same pictures will be on WhatsApp status.

There's no point in talking to my guy about it, the girl can do no wrong in his eyes. We're business partners and cannot avoid each other. How can I be on ghost mode on my social media apps for a long time but someone is busy exposing me to the world. How can I handle this situation?
Na so one of my guys carry his babe come visit me, omonthis girl snap scatter scatter post all on her WhatsApp status, my babe see her WhatsApp status come dey reason me say I dey f**k the babe. They are friends but not close
RomanceRe: How Do I Find Out Her Genotype. by 46arcadez(m): 7:50pm On Jul 08, 2021
Just make the conversation very interesting that first week, then stylishly ask the question
CelebritiesRe: TRENDUPP AFRICA: Ikorodu Bois Win Their First Award For Their Ingenuity (Photo) by 46arcadez(m): 7:46pm On Jul 08, 2021
Na to just use my hand give myself award, make I follow for the list of award winners
RomanceRe: How Long Do You Use Your Bathing Sponge Before Changing Them? by 46arcadez(m): 2:43pm On Jul 08, 2021
Doja2000:
what do u use?
Bed foam?? undecided
Just soap to avoid body itching after taking my bath.
RomanceRe: How Long Do You Use Your Bathing Sponge Before Changing Them? by 46arcadez(m): 12:35pm On Jul 08, 2021
I don't use sponge
CrimeRe: Suspected herdsmen kidnap cultists during initiation ceremony by 46arcadez(m): 1:39pm On Jul 02, 2021
Omo
Dem for bam the fulanis join.

Fulani guys change am once
RomanceRe: If Relationship Tastes Like A Drink, What Does Urs Taste Like? by 46arcadez(m): 12:21pm On Jul 02, 2021
Legend Stout
Bitter but you still enjoy it
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Benin City Vs Asaba City Which Provide More Job Opportunities by 46arcadez(m): 1:37pm On Jun 18, 2021
Uyi168:
...
The types of businesses you'd see in benin city:

Hotels, restaurants and bars.
Petrol stations..
School.
Churches.

Then serious yahoo yahoo.
Same as Asaba
RomanceRe: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by 46arcadez(m): 3:01am On Jun 08, 2021
omolola100:
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do you think a woman will now stoop so low and marry a poor man that is trying to make ends meet?
I have problem with this line, are you way richer than the man?
PoliticsRe: IPOB Attacks: Police Foil Planned Protest By Traders In Kano by 46arcadez(m): 1:39pm On Jun 02, 2021
Really
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help Me Verify How Real This Is by 46arcadez(m): 6:09pm On May 15, 2021
ogayoungboss:
We appreciate your interest in Custodian Investment Plc.

Your application for the post of FINANCIAL ADVISOR/ CUSTOMER SERVICE OFFICER has been processed and you have been shortlisted for oral interview. The details is as follows:

Date: Monday,17/05/2021

Time: 8am prompt.

Venue: 27, Commercial Avenue, Sabo, Yaba. (Head Office Annex)

Dress Code: Corporate

Come with a copy of your CV.

If you are outside Lagos, reply this mail OUTSIDELAG - your location. Don't bother to come for the interview. Provision shall be made for you to be interviewed in our office close to you.
Insurance

HealthRe: What Can I Do To Gain Weight? by 46arcadez(m): 5:10pm On May 13, 2021
mariahAngel:
Well, those are not good enough.
Be more intentional with your diet if you want to put on weight.
Eating beans like 3times in a week might help you.
Unripe plantains pottage, yam pottage with leafy vegetables, for like 2times in a week will be good for you also.
You can include sweet potatoes or ripe plantains to your beans occasionally to make it more filling and delicious.
Eat more of vegetable soups with your swallow meals.

Include other foods like eggs, chicken/turkey, full cream milk, yogurts...
Me I want reduce my belle fat, any advice?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Got This Interview I Never Applied, Photo by 46arcadez(m): 7:43pm On May 03, 2021
[quote author=FalseProphet1 post=101348326]I see the hand of the devil strongly upon this country, but it's being cut off by the prayers of the believes, Nigerians will experience a new dawn of good governance. This I have seen.[/qiuote]
This i have seen also.
A new Nigeria
CrimeRe: Unknown Gunmen Kill 9 Persons, Several Cows, As Fear Grips Ojukwu Varsity Town by 46arcadez(m): 10:03pm On Apr 26, 2021
Where i fit see bus enter Ghana?
CareerRe: Never Date At Your Place Of Work by 46arcadez(m): 5:34pm On Apr 25, 2021
uc4uandc:
NEVER DATE AT WORK PLACE
(A personal experience)

It was early August of 2020 when I got an invitation text to come for an interview in newly established entertainment industry here in the East.

We numbered over 300 who came for the interview and after much screening, 62 staff were selected.

The daily training was intense and interesting too because of the Manager we had, he was so detailed and funny also.

Amongst trainees were beautiful ladies of all shapes and sizes and intelligence.
The first day I saw my girlfriend, I didn't feel anything, she's very young and beautiful and opposing too (one of my likes about women). I realize she's a little opinionated, hence she got my attention.

We were all given appointment letter to our various positions. Mine was what I applied for but my gf didn't get hers, she was rather given something else. She came to me to complain since we are now friends and I told her that maybe the reason why she wasn't given the position she wanted was because she's short (Sarcastically, but I meant it)

She got angry and opposed me (I have a thing for women who oppose actions, especially when they have reasons). I apologized and we got along....... Boom we started dating.

#FASTFOWARD#
The next month, I got promoted to one of the managers, everyone was happy for me.
I have been a senior staff for like 8 months now and I must tell you that it has been a terrible experience.

My girlfriend is choking the hell out of me at work. She's very lukewarm in terms of carrying out her duties, when I confront her to do her work, she will tell me that I'm being too harsh on her. How can you litter your department like this and go home? she will tell me she's tired, I will have to assign someone else to do it, but it's her duty.

This keeps happening all the time, if I shout at her at work (when she gets on my nerves) she won't talk to me again for weeks and she won't greet me at work. If I ask her questions about sales, she won't reply me.

The most recent one was her and her colleagues misbehaving and I queried them, others replied my query, but she didn't. I wanted to let go, but one of the senior staff asked about her own reply to the query. I was forced to surcharge her N5,000 since she didn't reply, that means she's guilty.
After I served her the letter, she got angry and said "all the managers in this company are stupid" she said this to my face. Something she can't say to other managers.

Mehn! I was so furious and I was walking away when she threw her book at me, in front of other junior staff. OMG!...... I just walked away.
She's still keeping malice (her specialty) with me. I am not happy with her either.

I keep avoiding her so as not to get into more of what we are. But the work is suffering because of her dereliction.
Currently, I don't know how to tell her I don't want to be with her again, but I love her.

My advice
Never date at your place of work especially when you are bossing over her!
Continue playing with your job
RomanceRe: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by 46arcadez(m): 12:34am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything
Tell us about your past relationships plus your sexual life .
CrimeRe: Anambra: Suspected Herdsmen Kidnap Five Persons In Obiano’s Community by 46arcadez(m): 10:32pm On Apr 04, 2021
Ok

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