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Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by OmoDavido(m): 9:14pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I will not rest until I start counting my millions and doing businesses in millions and billions. My hustle must pay and I must make my family, mama and my uncle proud. After all the holdup and bus parks hustle, conductor beating, slapping and insulting me for no reason. Pushing Ice cream truck's loaded with bottle water and lacasera under hot sun. My hustle must finally pay. And I will stay legit and make this money! So help me God, Amen! 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:16pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
jaxxy:thanks..I wonder..if you see him then ..he do come and take soup from my pot..I wouldn't worry..I do help in school then 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:16pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
As a rule, give anyone that travels abroad a minimum of one year before bothering them! Some people are too hungry. Money doesn't fall on the streets! One year is to get papers, acquaint and probably get a job. 6 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by chydon22: 9:18pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:My brother your write up is a significant of a novice who thought people who travelled abroad climbs dollar trees every morning to plug out dollars. Let me educate u a little bit, your bros or friend who travelled to london have to work an average of 16hrs a day to be able to pay bills and shop for his stomach. The helping relationship between him and his sister stopped the nite he was admitted into UK. OYO is his name, he must work to if he is willing to stay back in d uk, wether illegal or legal job, there is work for legal and illegal migrant provideded u can fit in whatever jobs u see which include serving in a restaurant, cleaning, house help, meat house, mannial jobs etc which gives u less than 4hrs per day but u can be lucky working more hours. Mind illegal migrants does not work in health care and other agencies who have more hours to give u. Your bros is there passing tru many difficulties, discrimination, ancent and thinking how to work and save some cash and find a way to legalize his documents either tru arrangee or other means. With all this things he was passing tru, u re busy in naija forming he does nt call u or send money to u bc u gave him smelling okirika shoe and monkey coat. After 8yrs when ur head and your ego re no longer controlling u, and your pocket is hitching u and u remember to say hi to him without knwing that wht u re facing here is almost d same he was facing as undocumented resident. My advice to u guys is never u put your mind or hope on someone abroad or home for help. Try to be a giver your self. Chuks write frm ifo high school ogun state. JSS3A 12 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:18pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
EVILFOREST:my mind is free..I won't do that..but it surprises me that how can he ignore me like that |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:19pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sekundosekundo:really... how guy please gist me 2 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by shemite: 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I can relate bro, the people abroad do it to extent that when they know you travel out of Nigeria they will want to connect with you but once they know you are back in Nigeria they stop talking to you. This happened to a girl I know, she travelled to Dubai, immidiately she upload a photo on Facebook, this particular relative of her chat her up to know where she is and she told him she's in Dubai and they both chat on regular basis. Along the line she fell sick and was advice to treat herself in Nigeria. The same guy then message her and she told him she's now in Nigeria to treat herself but was unable to travel back to Dubai, this bros immidiately stop chatting with her. That's how most them behave. Me don't even have time to chat with anybody wey dey abroad, unless they 1st chat me up 15 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by holyword: 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
He envies you because only him and God knows what he is passing through. The dirty ugly job like washing dead body makes them to have stone heart. Your own toilet here in nigeria is bigger than his bed room where he sleeps and there is no time for them to even rest and sleep. They can not get a lady of their choice rather they go for the ones that the society have rejected . They lives like slaves and they don't have freedom and many ugly things you may not accept . Dear you are better than them by far. The worst part of it is that they don't have time to worship God the way you do here . Many,many,many,many..... 11 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
kilonso001:not two months oo.this year will make it eight years... |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by bestpunterever: 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:op don't mind them o, same happened to me, a friend of mine that I gave my hard earned 80k when he wanted to travel, he neglected me when he got to Chicago. The only advise I got for you is don't chat with him again though it's painful, and try yo focus more on your self and post some good pictures of your self on facebook to show you are living ok. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:22pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
bestpunterever:God bless you my brother.. you are mouthed... |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by mcharles(m): 9:22pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Working ooo or not He should at least interact with his friend like the old days. Unlike one of my friend wey travel go Canada In never see money buy phone yet, still dey use in brother phone,can you believe, the idiot the tell me say levels don change. for this buhari/jubril regime. Trust me nah I block am sharp sharp I no dey see any body if I don drink my garri and groundnut I no dey rush life,when my time reach I go blow chikina. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by aforosco(m): 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Eeya sorry ooo. I have a blood sister abroad in New York to be exact. When she got to US she told me even without asking that my kid bro don't worry when way open for me eh.Consider your case done.Start looking for schools in America and Canada I will sponsor you. It is more than 4 years now the only thing I got was 19k8(Corper's alawee). and getting to 2 yrs now we don't talk to each other just because I saw I was the one mostly doing the calling and it looks like I am a parasite. My blood sister oo.Since May 2017.I made up my mind I won't call her again and she also didn't bother ring my phone. But the good thing about life is that I have gotten another person that told me to go get foreign admission of my choice he will bankroll it.This person isn't my blood sef. So man move on and behave like he doesn't exist. 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by SirLakes: 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sassysure: Eeeeh someone cannot play with you 2 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Beautyaddy: 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sekundosekundo: Lol!...very bad assumption to say the least. Some people just choose to not send money to some people in Nigeria because some believe that total cost of expenses and living in Nigeria is waay cheaper than residing abroad. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:24pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Beautyaddy: he is being CALLED UPON on most post because na OSHA and am guessing you know the meaning of OSHA |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Livefreeordieha(m): 9:25pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sassysure:something like below bro..���� 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by blackright007(m): 9:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
bujebudanu1:Haha anybody can drop you off once they get over there forget that damn blood connection |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Toks2008(m): 9:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: Not all of them behave this way. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by alausaone(m): 9:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Abroad most time is difficult than what people back home used to think off, the changes sometime is not about feeling too big, is an environment where by if you must succeed and have a good record for the sake of the future, you have to be willing and ready to face with the challenges that comes along of living a crime free life wherever you are abroad, You travel to London or America or Europe with Tourist Visa, For sure you are not entitled to work , in this case there are category of people that end up loosing their job in Africa all in the name of traveling abroad, so they wont be able to work or do well like they used to do in Africa because the Visa status they have do not permit then to work , so such people end up staying indoor for years or months before they get their life together, Imagine someone who is on tourist Visa to Holland and he choose to overstay sure he will end up indoor , while his friend and family will be complaining that he has not been calling or nice as he used to be before he travel......so many reason just to mention a few 7 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Olarewaju89: 9:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe: You must be wicked somebody i swear! How can you be talking gibberish from your mouth? You better change your attitudes please. 4 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by blackright007(m): 9:30pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
YomiSpayne: nah you post, nah you like keep aticulating into dooooom |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:31pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
shemite:this is funny...but I don't know y some nairaland colleagues criticising me as if I want to beg money.. 5 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by amazemanuno: 9:31pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
carzola: True talk! I do tell my siblings to remain focused and forget the idea of waiting for one uncle or sister to send you dollars or pounds! That advice do pay off; cos as of today we are all doing well in Nigeria in spite of the bad economy... On the other hand, those we would have depended on are busy flexing, breeze in and out of country oblivious of those who stood by them when things were bad back in the days...spending heavily on fucking different rich kids, girls and young women in institution of higher learning. So funny, these same people will tell u stories that they don't have money even when u only come around because you are happy to see them in town; as if u have come to beg them for money...mtcheew! 9 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Mace0lane: 9:32pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sassysure:from wherever or however you have ever been helped learn to be grateful. All the nonsense you typed with the likes you got is the doing of ingrates one should never render help to. 5 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:32pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: My advice to you is that you should act as if those guys that are abroad don't exist. Many of them are scared of the people over here because some lazy family members and friends demand from them often. But they should not be avoiding every other person with genuine intention. Guy I have learnt some lessons that I would want you to learn too. When friends and family abroad call you and they ask you How you are doing, If you love to keep talking to them and still be on their call list, no matter what you are going through, tell them you are fine. I am good, even if you haven't eaten for days. If you tell them your true situation some might help and cut you off later or some won't even help and still cut you off. So the best way to still remain on their call list is always telling them you are OK. otherwise you would sound like a beggar. I've got about three brothers abroad, I don't call them at all except on the 31st of December to say happy new year, by that they respect you. I have lots of friends that I have blocked both on whatsapp and Facebook. once I see that you are mis interpreting my saying Hi as a style of getting something from you, I kuku ma block you so that you will have peace of mind. By the time your eye don clear and you wan say Hi, I don already block you. So work hard, look for opportunities and use them , become somebody and they are the ones that will be asking ppl for your number. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Alezy(m): 9:33pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sassysure:you ppl re just defending poo. The op didn't say he needed anything from him. For Gods sakes what's the crime he commited for trying to say hi to a friend who left years ago. Probably followed to the airport or something. Una too think negative abeg 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by jaxxy(m): 9:33pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
GavelSlam: This guy hasn’t even bothered him yet and he’s acting like a jackass and even if it’s heading that direction this is sm1 who supported when u had zero. I still hv doubts they are actually frnds. I’m not an ingrate and I don’t tolerate ingrates. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by kapelvej: 9:34pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Ogbeni, two months, your eyes don red, na waaaaaaaaaaa |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by ugosea: 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sassysure:Bros take it easy |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Tellemall: 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
adonainana: People abroad change because they are as broke as you? It doesn't make sense. All the people "abroad" have come to act like they're doing so much out there and money is so hard to come by. It's hard to come by anywhere. There's no reason for throwing people under the bus. The OP is simply wondering why his friend refuses to communicate with him when he's not begging him for anything and simply wants to remain friends with him as he was when he was in Nigeria. It has nothing to do with his "money". The ego Africans give when they leave the continent is silly. You really think everyone is after you for nonexistent money, Africans abroad? South Africans do this thing. Kenyans do it. Because of this ego black people have. I've never treated people shabbily because I think they're after my money. I called them myself from outside of Nigeria, not because they had/have anything to offer me in Nigeria, but because we are friends! All the talk of economy in the UK and elsewhere is just another reason to be unkind to people who knew you when you were in the dirt with them. It's not always about money. 20 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by marktpompido(m): 9:36pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
The guy no try at all. Life na turn by turn, today na him tomorrow fit b you ooo. Trust in God my brother 11 Likes 2 Shares |
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