Yigiyaga:
U knew,past. Present....minds change and here i am. Almost decided to pry further the last time we conversed,but i was cold about heart matters. Now im willing to give more.

CarlosTheJackal:
I thought you are married with kids or should I dig up evidence of how u said you ve been married before Adam proposed to Eve

victorian:









Huncle, please read and understand.

I said I once dated a guy.. I never said that's the guy am with now or that's the guy I dated last month.

I once dated.

It's not too hard to read, and comprehend.

My English and pidgin is simple enough, biko

victorian:


Honestly ehn? U are so on point.

Nothing in marriage except having kids.

If you don't have your own money as a woman, don't venture into marriage cos suffering awaits such woman

That's the stark reality.. Except for some lucky few.

Ishilove:

Oga, this English is plenty. Take it offline

victorian:









My Sister, I shock!

I felt so disgusted!

That was the end of the relationship.

I don't take trash! And he wanted me to get pregnant.. I told him, nothing will ever make me get pregnant for him, until he proves he's capable. so he had better wake up! And go back to the drawing board to sort his life well. He can go and marry another woman he can starve at home.

Ordinary indomie wey no be food o.

I see it as snacks.

pocohantas:


Since when?

Rextizzle:
Spill it out!

victorian:












Poverty kill you there!
Lol

victorian:



Amen o!
Two packets of hungry man for morning and night. I shared it into two..

That's not food.

If I eat like that in my house, I will emaciate and fall sick.

I love good food but I was like lemme manage what he has. And he's complaining on top.. Lol

Chai!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I easily let go perhaps that's y. Bad attitude? No one is perfect. Prickly in nature? I'm a jolly hearted person if treated right. UGLY? I'm definitely not that.
There comes a time in a man's life that what he wants is settling down, would u also give him this same epistle for wanting to just get married?

victorian:













Poverty kill you there!

Lol

Belafonte:


If a man was to get married, I would advise him against it. Marriage is not a proposition that a man should enter because he's old enough or has enough money to throw around.

If he wants offspring, there are surrogates willing to bear him children for a fee. Women are just not worth the stress, no offence meant.

In this age of independent women, and hashtags like #marriagenotprison, #marriagenotjail, I see no reason for a man to get married simply because his lady friend thinks we clock is ticking. Nobody gives a damn about women's ticking clocks. The important question is, "will marrying you improve my life?" If the answer is no, sorry you're not worthy.

CarlosTheJackal:
My grouse with you Is your penchant for bringing guys down and making yourself the centre of attention.

ARE YOU MARRIED NOW?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He has to be an Alpha male with good sense of humor.
Family and God is everything to me so he should have same values.
I'm not tribalistic but Igbo would b ideal. He should be presentable, like he mustn't b the dark version of Aquaman. If u dream of being a dad soon, then good

Other attributes of a serious and focused male will b appreciated.
Virgin males plus those in their 20s should keep off please.

No time waster should bother, plus if u don't even know where u headed don't bother.

Ishilove:

And he is 38 years old for that matter. Now we know why he is still unmarried

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He has to be an Alpha male with good sense of humor.
Family and God is everything to me so he should have same values.
I'm not tribalistic but Igbo would b ideal. He should be presentable, like he mustn't b the dark version of Aquaman. If u dream of being a dad soon, then good

Other attributes of a serious and focused male will b appreciated.
Virgin males plus those in their 20s should keep off please.

No time waster should bother, plus if u don't even know where u headed don't bother.

Lonestar124:
How does one eating habit relate with poverty?

Many rich men even find it difficult to eat twice in a day.

Someone that eat too much is prone to talkativeness and you know the consequences right?

ibkayee:



Lol I think her list is reasonable

Ishilove:

Oga, this English is plenty. Take it offline

ednut1:
lol. She prob is joking. Haba. Na bad tin to be virgin

Rextizzle:
I just pity the guy that will end up with you sha.

pocohantas:


If I come dey find partner, it is now these small small boys in Romance section that I will marry? All these Ugandan and Tanzanian boys ehn?

I thought you people said I have a partner that is fcking me offline, while I pretend online? All these alpha males sef, always speaking from 2 sides of the mouth like mentally slow creatures.

victorian:










Guys brought themselves down with their own actions. I virtually did nothing.

I was once a victim, but glory be to God I have surpassed their issues.

I simply say what I have experienced in life when it comes to men and it's not a delightful experience. I wish I can wipe my memory and add pleasant experiences there. Trust me I would have done so in a split second . And start hyping men.

But unfortunately my experiences don't go away so easily. And I talk about them, for people to know what's really going on.

Im simply saying the truth to also purge myself of the past .


You are asking if am married now?
No need asking.. Lemme not be the center of attention, biko

Ishilove:

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CarlosTheJackal:
Everybody has experienced an up or down side to issues of relationships but stop acting like you are the Einstein to every relationship issues

Rextizzle:
Your mates done marry get children, but you are still flexing, deceiving yourself and letting palm wine tappers and plumbers dicks inside your pussy, Abi no be your mate be cococandy?

With this your behavior self, no responsible man will go close to you, only those irresponsible one that want to chop your wide ponmo and run away.

You better go for deliverance sad girl, or I can invite you to meet a powerful pastor that will remove the demon and sadness in your life.

victorian:


Sorry but have seen it all

And it sucks!


But all these experiences made me stronger.