Chi59:

I didn't attempt it. I'm building myself now. Thanks for asking.

Ok, take care

Chi59:
I haven't been fortunate with guys.
My first attempt at a relationship failed woefully.
And so did the second, third and fourth.
It isnt entirely without a reason though.
I'm SS. I have been a Sickle cell advocate for many years. I don't shy away from talking about it on any level.

Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence.

Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than some "healthy" people.
So I don't know, what am I lacking?
All the guys I've been in love with, for one flimsy reason or the other just disappear for no reason. Just like that.

Of course, I don't hide my genotype status, but then they seem cool with it. Months later, he disappears and leaves me heartbroken.

Now I find myself liking someone again (the fifth guy). We haven't gotten that close but I'm scared. Should I lie to him? What do I tell him?

Allow love to grow before letting such information out, it's take love to take some risk...

We 've seeing people that marry different types of human of one challenge or the other, imagine a man that marries a blind woman or someone on a wheelchair, what did you think happened? Love don't allow you to see danger and challenges.

Bottom line, let's love come first, don't let it be the first conversation as you have been doing and talk as SS advocate, reality is different from talk, LIFE IS REAL. Manage your personal life and leave what you have been thought in SS meetings and advocacy talk

OkoAnike:



Allow love to grow before letting such information out, it's take love to take some risk...

We 've seeing people that marry different types of human of one challenge or the other, imagine a man that marries a blind woman or someone on a wheelchair, what did you think happened? Love don't allow you to see danger and challenges.

Bottom line, let's love come first, don't let it be the first conversation as you have been doing and talk as SS advocate, reality is different from talk, LIFE IS REAL. Manage your personal life and leave what you have been thought in SS meetings and advocacy talk

Many thanks.

Chi59:

Your actions made me lose interest in you... fast. So I walked away before it got messy. Nevertheless, I'm glad everything turned out the way it is.
Yeah, about the project. That's a good one.

Thank you very much.

YabaLeftist:


It's very obvious the bitchh has attitudinal problems, that's why she can't land a man who'd stick with her long enough to marry her.

Her bitchiness is what is driving men away from her. And for as long as she continues in that vein, she'll remain single. Her eyes go clear when she realizes she's destined to remain a spinster all her life due to her arrogance and conceit.

Can you imagine, unfriending you on facebook, blocked you on WhatsApp? She'll soon realize that she's doing herself when she go reach menopause and no man to call her husband.

I detest prideful ladies that have nothing to offer especially this particular one that is a sickler that will put a lot of unnecessary burden on the husband, but instead of being humble so that she might get someone that might consider her plight and marry her, she's putting up some nasty, nauseating attitude. Tufiakwa!

Word! you nailed it my brother!

annford:





Word! you nailed it my brother!

Yeah, he nailed it for himself and every other foolish individual out there who thinks that just because I'm a woman looking for a partner then I should wholesomely welcome all sorts of crazy, hurtful and even disrespectful attitudes men hurl out.
What? You were posting pics of your ex almost every other day, I called your attention to it, and then, you said you were trying to get me jealous. Why? We were already planning to meet in person. So what for? Then you sent a whole list of bull crap blaming me for daring to question what you posted? Did you or did you not go to cook for the same lady who was in the hospital who had left you months ago, whilst you were still toasting me?
WE WERE PLANNING ON MEETING. I was interested in you. I had started liking you already. Then you put up such an attitude and then what, just because I'm SS, I'm supposed to go with the flow? No, you tell me.
To show that I'm a woman of integrity, I turned you down as well as the THINGS YOU PROMISED TO GET FOR ME (none of which I ever asked for). How many women can do that?
But guess what, not a month after we parted ways, I got 10 times EVERYTHING you promised to get for me without relocating to Abuja as you were pressuring me to. Isn't God a good God?

Chi59:

Yeah, he nailed it for himself and every other foolish individual out there who thinks that just because I'm a woman looking for a partner then I should wholesomely welcome all sorts of crazy, hurtful and even disrespectful attitudes men hurl out.
What? You were posting pics of your ex almost every other day, I called your attention to it, and then, you said you were trying to get me jealous. Why? We were already planning to meet in person. So what for? Then you sent a whole list of bull crap blaming me for daring to question what you posted? Did you or did you not go to cook for the same lady who was in the hospital who had left you months ago, whilst you were still toasting me?
WE WERE PLANNING ON MEETING. I was interested in you. I had started liking you already. Then you put up such an attitude and then what, just because I'm SS, I'm supposed to go with the flow? No, you tell me.
To show that I'm a woman of integrity, I turned you down as well as the THINGS YOU PROMISED TO GET FOR ME (none of which I ever asked for). How many women can do that?
But guess what, not a month after we parted ways, I got 10 times EVERYTHING you promised to get for me without relocating to Abuja as you were pressuring me to. Isn't God a good God?

God indeed is a Good God. Congratulations my sister. I am a happily married man. I still reach out to people who need my help, their gender notwithstanding. I am happy for you.

My dear just know that God created us for someone don't let some unserious men make you feel depressed about your status
I know someone with that status back then in secondary School and he's doing fine
I remember one time back then during break hours
We usually go out to buy something
So I noticed him he was doing some how
And didn't stand up
I walked close to him and I was like guy wetin happen now
Do you know what this guy was thinking of
He's thinking of marriage that no one will want to marry him and I told him that not true
There is arrangements in this thing we call genotype
And I once remember that my mom told me certain things about genotype
Whereas people who are AA can marry any blood group, I explained to him and he was still in doubt with me so I told him to lets go meet our biology teacher
We got there and the man said everything mentioning what I also told him he look at me and was like wow you are truly a friend and he asked me how I get to know it I told him my mom also told me
So don't let someone or anybody make you feel bad about it, all you just have to do is
Watch closely to someone who Carry's a genotype of AA and how ?
For instance when you dating someone just ask stylishly that which blood group do you fall to
Or what your genotype you are a woman you will know how to ask that from a guy with tricks lol you will ask in a way that he won't feel suspicious
Am Not AA supposing I am
Am going to marry you and have you rest assure that nothing is gonna happen
Forgive my long epistle

annford:




God indeed is a Good God. Congratulations my sister. I am a happily married man. I still reach out to people who need my help, their gender notwithstanding. I am happy for you.

Yeah. Congratulations once again

ZINIBANKS:
My dear just know that God created us for someone don't let some unserious men make you feel depressed about your status
I know someone with that status back then in secondary School and he's doing fine
I remember one time back then during break hours
We usually go out to buy something
So I noticed him he was doing some how
And didn't stand up
I walked close to him and I was like guy wetin happen now
Do you know what this guy was thinking of
He's thinking of marriage that no one will want to marry him and I told him that not true
There is arrangements in this thing we call genotype
And I once remember that my mom told me certain things about genotype
Whereas people who are AA can marry any blood group, I explained to him and he was still in doubt with me so I told him to lets go meet our biology teacher
We got there and the man said everything mentioning what I also told him he look at me and was like wow you are truly a friend and he asked me how I get to know it I told him my mom also told me
So don't let someone or anybody make you feel bad about it, all you just have to do is
Watch closely to someone who Carry's a genotype of AA and how ?
For instance when you dating someone just ask stylishly that which blood group do you fall to
Or what your genotype you are a woman you will know how to ask that from a guy with tricks lol you will ask in a way that he won't feel suspicious
Am Not AA supposing I am
Am going to marry you and have you rest assure that nothing is gonna happen
Forgive my long epistle

Thanks bro

U are indeed very healthy if that is ur picture?

Just wait for the right person but never,never lie to anybody.

Ibechris2:
U are indeed very healthy if that is ur picture?

Just wait for the right person but never,never lie to anybody.

Thanks