MissJoy29:

Pathetic ain't it?

lefulefu:
not entirely true cos i have seen widows in their 50s and even 60s who remarry.and as for those widows who dont get married they have boyfriends or men friends who warm their beds at night.nobody can just isolate himself/herself like that cos we no be island .

MissJoy29:

Lol....but what kinda women?
That's the million dollar question

MiddleDimension:


that means ladies cannot do without men actually contrary to the lady i quoted was trying to insiniate

MiddleDimension:


that means ladies cannot do without men actually contrary to the lady i quoted was trying to insiniate

MissJoy29:

I'm telling you!

MissJoy29:

Prize ko! Prizeless ni!!

My husband will be a prize to me...

& guess what?


































































































I WILL ALSO BE A PRIZE TO HIM!!!!!!!!!

MissJoy29:

Don't mind them. They know the truth but just choose to project something else entirely to feed their ego & make themselves feel good!

I know a lot of guys who are ready to settle down but haven't seen the one they want yet. You really need to see how worried they are. Here, our NL warriors hide behind their keyboards causing gullible women to be depressed by impressing on them how scarce men are & how their time is running out. But these friends of mine are facing reality not VIRTUALITY! Their time is also running out!! They very well know that the key word in the choice of a partner (any partner) is GODLY. There are ladies and there are wives...same for men and husbands.
Even these ones here talking about being the prize might also be finding it difficult to get a wife. Of course why won't they when every Nigerian girl is a hoe, loves money & is a leech. One arrogant friend then was boasting how he could get someone to marry in a day if he wants. He was on my case and still boasting up & down. But even with all the money he has (and he has a lot!) he still isn't married yet.

No one is more important than the other in this marital journey biko. Our alphamales should be aware that the God-designed differences between male and female are to be seen as COMPLEMENTARY not competitive

CC: essenceplus & Ranchhoddas

LilMissFavvy:
Hahahaha....story for the god's. You are kidding yourself. Men that beat you hands down, both in financial aspect, looks, education, intelligence,etc do go for old newspapers okay? Just yesterday, we saw a former governor's wife, married to a millionaire. Can you sincerely compare yourself to that handsome guy? Noway! Each time older women get married you guys get jealous, and abuse the man that choosed her. Continue to take pain killers for other people's headache.

TempleHouse:

Look, there are thousand of Men looking for a decent girl also, and it's just a case of both meeting each other.
Why not dress well and go to shopping mall like Shoprite, Parties, Churches and be accessible than crying in the high Street?
No one will take her serious crying in the street, I'm afraid and every decent guys will be scared to approach her.

Ranchhoddas:
This is gold. If this is your worldview then why are we arguing

Ranchhoddas:
Ideally yes

But the dynamics of today's relationships skew it in favour of one group. You know the group.

lefulefu:
see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife.

lefulefu:
see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife.

Ryan03:
Of cause its pathetic, i'm not against a man buying stuff or supporting his woman, what i'm against is a woman who does nothing for a living yet wants to wear the most expensive clothes, go an vacations, live large on someone else's pocket and will get angry when the guy refuse. I just dey vex

essenceplus:



Baby

MissJoy29:

You are so right on all the points listed.

On number 3 especially, when you guys make money & start lamenting about the quality of ladies that come to you all, I laugh! A lot of guys forsake the ones that were with them when they have nothing. Even if they don't leave outrightly,they start misbehaving. At least it has happened me not once.

There are definitely good ladies and guys out there but a lot still prefer to chase shadows and while they are at it, they still complain.

lefulefu:
on that number 3 dats one fatal mistake some of we guys make.but there some smart guys nowardays even wen they make it they still hold on to their age long girlfriends and if any upgrading needs to be done they upgrade her to their taste.

lefulefu:
see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife.

Gabriel004:
Those that end up like her plenty for nairaland. Na one of them dey write say make them no dey submissive because her own mother is not submissive to her weakling father.

MissJoy29:

You are so right on all the points listed.

On number 3 especially, when you guys make money & start lamenting about the quality of ladies that come to you all, I laugh! A lot of guys forsake the ones that were with them when they have nothing. Even if they don't leave outrightly,they start misbehaving. At least it has happened me not once

On number 2, that's one of the reasons why marriages are crumbling today. Everything is being abused and misused. No more morals.

There are definitely good ladies and guys out there but a lot still prefer to chase shadows and while they are at it, they still complain.

ufotty2001:
that is how one 40yrs lady refused to let me go.. to be sincere men are scares commodity.a world where we have 5billion female and 1billion male

dairykidd:

You need to be prayerful