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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Kingzra1(m): 4:52pm On Jun 19, 2019
happy helper ...
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Chiemeka1: 4:54pm On Jun 19, 2019
If you love her help her, if not forget it.
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 5:34pm On Jun 19, 2019
Chiemeka1:
If you love her help her, if not forget it.

This has nothing to do with love.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 9jaRealist: 6:37pm On Jun 19, 2019
Elliot2:
I guess feminism means eating one's cake n still having it. How can you ask a favour from someone you rejected?

For the same reason that dude was forming friends with someone who “rejected” him...
If he was looking for a Date-for-Money escort, he should not be pretending he was a friend.
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Chiemeka1: 6:50pm On Jun 19, 2019
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This has nothing to do with love. Then let him forget it.
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jun 19, 2019
Op this one is a straight forward thing nau. If u get then give her but if u no get then tell her u dont have . At least the worst she go do is to stop talking to u. Anyway i wonder why u still talking and chatting with someone dat declined ur toasting yrs backcheesy. Is it u were hoping she had reconsider d offer?
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by karlboss: 7:27pm On Jun 19, 2019
Truthshurts:
Hmmmmm
I was in this shoe 2 years ago bro
What I did then was....
I asked her out again...
I gave myself 2 options
1. If she said yes this time.....I won’t date her and I won’t help her also but I will let her tell me reasons for not dating in the first place.
If the reasons is cool I will just give her what my mind tells me.

2. If she said NO
I will give her the money to help her move forward and still I will also ask her why is she not wanting to date me.

That was all in the past
But I have grown
Money is not my problem anymore
Date or no date
I will just give
I do things not for any reason but for future and for good will of nature
What if I don’t have?
God has bless me....so I must and I will bless others in need so I won’t be in need or if at all I will be....I will always see who will be there for me. That’s the truth

My bro.......don’t help her as someone u know before JUST HELP her in any form u can and God will bless u.

NOTE:
We are not the same
Just Incase u still feels u can’t or don’t want to help
Send her account number to my mail.
We can change this world by giving
Thank u

Make I send my own I need money like mad
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by smeag0l(m): 9:19pm On Jun 19, 2019
I owe you something...you're the first girl to comment on this post after three pages and i was beginning to think the ladies already know the answer to this question or they are trying to guage the responses of the guys just to make their exploitation game tighter
armyofone:
Give her 5k charity and block her.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by armyofone(m): 10:17pm On Jun 19, 2019
Oya throway my own 5k grin

smeag0l:
I owe you something...you're the first girl to comment on this post after three pages and i was beginning to think the ladies already know the answer to this question or they are trying to guage the responses of the guys just to make their exploitation game tighter
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 10:35pm On Jun 19, 2019
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2019
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by temmylorlah(f): 10:46pm On Jun 19, 2019
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by meobizy(f): 11:10pm On Jun 19, 2019
OP, do it.
It is obvious you are a mugu.
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by smeag0l(m): 11:17pm On Jun 19, 2019
Wetin you wan use am for?
armyofone:
Oya throway my own 5k grin

Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by lilpage14(m): 11:21pm On Jun 19, 2019
giver her the money and stay away from her. make sure you block her or else you go turn delilah
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by bestdudes: 11:39pm On Jun 19, 2019
lefulefu:
Op this one is a straight forward thing nau. If u get then give her but if u no get then tell her u dont have . At least the worst she go do is to stop talking to u. Anyway i wonder why u still talking and chatting with someone dat declined ur toasting yrs backcheesy. Is it u were hoping she had reconsider d offer?
he is even thinking giving her the money will change her mind. Lol.. The guy go learn the hard way soon.
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jun 19, 2019
bestdudes:
he is even thinking giving her the money will change her mind. Lol.. The guy go learn the hard way soon.
haha if he dey reason say na d money wey he give her go make her change her mind den make he no jus give her.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by bestdudes: 11:49pm On Jun 19, 2019
lefulefu:
haha if he dey reason say na d money wey he give her go make her change her mind den make he no jus give her.
lol... Na him know.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by armyofone(m): 12:15am On Jun 20, 2019
See question! Let me think.

smeag0l:
Wetin you wan use am for?
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Nobody: 12:38am On Jun 20, 2019
Chiemeka1:
If you love her help her, if not forget it.

OP just kuku collect money from this Man & send to her then since he has unused money lying somewhere. Please Mr Chiemeka1, an account number will be sent to you.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Nobody: 12:47am On Jun 20, 2019
NkayStory:

Who says YOU WONT NEED HER HELP TOO IN FUTURE?..or you think she will be a student forever?...,Are all the numerous male beggars everywhere begging money from those they are dating alone?

No be only FUTURE, na Desiigner! Mtchew
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by dalass(f): 6:52am On Jun 20, 2019
Budline1:


Trust me, she was already a pro. Girls eyes Don open tey tey.
Trust you
You must be a paedophile. Just like the OP!.
Last time I checked, it was still a crime having sexual relationship with minors whether 'pro' or not.
You people should stop corrupting these girls...
Anyways you all will have female kids..karma is waiting cool angry
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Favor99(m): 6:54am On Jun 20, 2019
Elliot2:
You need to know how the average naija girl turns down a guy's advances. In my 2nd year at d uni,I have had a girl publicly humiliate me at the faculty during clearance. What did I do? I only tried to create familiarity as course mates by complementing her looks, and the next second was an outburst. She said I wasn't her type n that I was very stupid. I just apologised n kept quiet,as every one else was staring. After some minutes,this girl walked up to me to tell me that she was sorry,and that her outburst was as a result that she has not eaten since morning and that she would appreciate if I buy her lunch. Then,I said fine n took her to a restaurant. Babe eat her fill and still took takeaway. After that incident, she kept meeting me for money n outings, at d initial time I obliged until I was fed up. At the end of the day,my room mate bleeped this girl without spending any money.
Yea sorry about that. That would be a very humiliating experience. These girls shouldn’t be doing that. But I don’t think the op was rejected that way by this particular girl. Please don’t let the behaviors of some irresponsible girls make you judge all Nigerian girls. Some girls are decent and are respectful
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Obainoneandonly(m): 6:55am On Jun 20, 2019
wike54:

Poor man wey dey use zenith bank
country hard bro. country hard
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Favor99(m): 7:01am On Jun 20, 2019
Elliot2:
Casting your pearls before the swine's in one lesson in the Bible to show that not all good deeds is good deed.
I don’t quite understand what you meant. Can you please explain?
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by benjanny(m): 8:58pm On Jun 20, 2019
Turn her down entirely

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