Blackivy27:
Then why the fake promises. I'll never make you cry I'll never cheat Sugar coated tongues dripping honey. honesty's better than the heartbreak that follows.

MannieA:

Why?

MJBOLT:

other group?you mean the 'cheating group'.i do not cheat,if a man is allowed to have multiple wives then i should be allowed to have multiple GFs

RatDead:


Nay, I'm not that devoted !

Blackivy27:
you are a muslim?? do they know you have other gfs?

Kingosytex:


Not all promises can be kept.

MJBOLT:

i'm an atheist,Yes.

Blackivy27:
The church will miss you. So why your decision

Blackivy27:
like moi.

bigmic111:
my dear, it was a problem for me for a while. see self control is hard. everywhere u go on the street u see girls show casing what their mama gave them.
even if you think you are dating the most beautiful girl in the world, you will still meet one that is finer than her.
so self control on the part of the guy is necessary.

I have also noticed then when I tell ladies I have a girlfriend that is when they up their temptation to fall me. they won't let me be until I make a move on them.
so ladies should stay off guys they know have girlfriends, but they won't cause na we still get wetin them need look, height, build, money and personality wise. if a guy looks too fine or loaded he most likely isn't single or is stringing someone along. so ladies keep it friendly with guys that have girlfriends if you know or suspects he has.

MJBOLT:

you are an atheist?

RatDead:


Incommunicado.
I encompass church in my heart. Not hypocritical nature some tenders.

Blackivy27:
hi
but cheating hurts like hell. Every time i listen to a sad song i cant help but cry.

Blackivy27:
I've lost my faith.

Blackivy27:
Perfect.

bigmic111:


hello,
yes I have been cheated upon, at least by one girl who told me so. it stings and you may loose all trust in relationships.
you need to get off the sad songs, it won't help you too much but you can share the experience, can you manage that?

RatDead:

You seems to have the attribute of '' sapiosexual '' ?

Blackivy27:
Yes.
lets say his names Mf. he's sweet, nice, caring. I never grew up with a dad so he kind of played that role. I personally hate taking money from males. But i had friends, my classmates who'ld need financial aid. If i had i'll give to them. But at times i wouldnt be able to. And Mf would. All the girls in my block would nominate him when it comes to being the best guy. And i'd be proud. Standing there smiling. He wasnt hansome. But his flaws didnt matter. He had a magnetic personality that attracted me. He's what you would call a ladies man. So everything was going well. Then 2months into our relationship he started acting off. He wouldnt talk to me, ignore me. I told my friends who told him... Typing.

Blackivy27:
Yes.

bigmic111:


I'm following your write-up.

Blackivy27:
he told me i was being jealous. I should stop bla bla bla.
because earlier i had seen him i a class alone with her Mc. I was angry but he assured me.
i was still doubtful but what could i do than wait...

3days after our 3month annivesary, i always call or send a message, but this time i forgot. As i was about texting another friend texted he is Dv. Dv likes me. From the first day, he even confirmed it later. He asked me persistently who my bf was. I got tired and told him. His reply was Mf is dating Mc. I thought he was joking. But a part of me knew he wasnt. I sent a not so good gal message broke up with him. He accepted didnt denial. They had been dating for 3weeks!

to cut this story short, his friends begged me and i forgave him. I told him to break up with her though. But in a slow way not to hurt her. After all she was innocent... Typing

Blackivy27:
Then why the fake promises.
I'll never make you cry
I'll never cheat
Sugar coated tongues dripping honey.
honesty's better than the heartbreak that follows.

Blackivy27:
my first boyfriend.
he can talk very sweetly. I wish i listened to my momma.

bigmic111:


you told him to let her down slowly, that usually doesn't work out. strings becomes attached but did it work?

RatDead:


Introverted ? If Ambivert ( you will be more of an introvert )
Jealous lover, Peace loving Et Al ?

frankkydee:














That's because the players you guys end with knows what you girls love to hear

Blackivy27:
No. He used her pic as his fb profile picture. He was dating her too. Over the course of our relationship we broke up 5 times. He even had the guts to tell me im his first wife, even if he has another and treats her better im still the first... Wtf

if im away from him its easier to think. To end things. Attempted again some days back. Wrote some nasty stuff. Mc broke up with him. I mocked him over that. I know it was mean but i was hurt. The next day he sent a love message. He's gentle but the fact that after forgiving him he couldnt choose me. He was still hesitating to leave her hurt.

bigmic111:


the truth is bitter but once you accept it, you will become better. it's just like bitter medicine, shallow it and later you feel better.
please don't turn out like me or these other retarded nairalanders here.
me messed up when we had our chances even though I am personally trying to make amends.
love is sweet but watch who you love!
your ex loved you in a retarded way. you said you guys never had sex right? -maybe all he wanted was sex and the other girl gave him that.
or maybe he just needs to be a player to fuel his ego amongst his friends.
correct me if I'm wrong -you still in secondary school?

catwalq:


Take heart dear. You are welcome to the club eh .

But seriously though, both genders cheat. Its an individual thingy.

Blackivy27:
Just left this year.

Blackivy27:
Just left this year.