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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by LordAdam16: 1:12pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: No the bottom line is: If he wants to give with no strings attached, fine. If he wants to give with strings attached, fine. If he does not want to give, regardless of if there're strings attached or not, fine. Na him money, he sets the rules on who receives it. E no reach matter to call God put; because according to religious folks he also created those who do not have parents to provide as well as those who are not contented. The good thing is that as I was told once, all problems in school end in school; so I wouldn't worry much for the lady. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Abeos: Thanks for your understanding |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by luvyaself95(m): 1:28pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44:confirm one |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by roladex(f): 1:47pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
ubunja:but this guy u wicked oo.very blunt person |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Enyimbamercedes: 1:53pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: I’d do it for anyone! Unfortunately women are more vulnerable when they are in need. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 1:53pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
luvyaself95:this my thread is it really bad? one girl here come see this my topic for front page come yarn say she know me but I no know am and that she is disappointed in me. mehn I dey fear oh if na the girl where we dey talk about so don come see this topic for nairaland. and she registered just day before yesterday and has only one post so I no fit track to know who she be. see her comment wey I screen shot below. cc ubunja
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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:00pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Enyimbamercedes:you're right they're more vulnerable whenever they're in such a pressing need. nevertheless when next session comes up and it's time for fee payments by then we'll be in our finals and if we can't find any available way to pay our fees can I mail u? |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Mydazz(m): 2:06pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: You still didn't state if you'll like to take the friendship to the next, if possible,..... if you can do it out of your goodwill without expectations afterwards then go ahead. But note that this is typical Friendzoning. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by armadeo(m): 2:09pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: Na she naaa. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:10pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Mydazz:of course : she also said she wants a friendship that will end and lead to marriage and I don't know what she means by that. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:12pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
armadeo:Oboy I don enter one chance! but come na which mod con cast me like this ni? na who carry this thing come front page |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Bishop(m): 2:16pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: The only thing I can tell you is that NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW. Weather she refunds you or not as long as your mind tells you to do that good then do it. She could be off help to you too someday. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Clinghton: 2:18pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
The issue of help cuts across friend, wife, husband etc. Give and you shall receive |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: @Rezie, If you are the girl that was discussing business with this guy then please avoid him very well, he wants to take advantage of you. If you are not the person then warn his friends offline and show them this post. Hopeless lazy men everywhere. They whine and complain about how women are golddiggers and materialistic but they secretly want to do the exact same things women do. Even worse in many cases. DateMynd44: 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by megareal: 2:24pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
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Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:29pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
NLmember:go back to that my topic and read it again but this time very slowly so you'll observed that I said I myself I'm not interested in dating or in any relationship of any kind with her or with any other female as academics is my only priority as dating or engaging on relationship or those stuff may dampen my success. I only sought for advice to see if it's tenable to give such amount of money to a platonic friend as I myself won't ask for favours from her. read it well and understand well before u come back and start ranting. anyway both ur opinion and the said reizie's opinion is non of my concern. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by NACE13: 2:31pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: Bro, na u F up. I dey observe as you dey spill enough Intel to give yourself up. Na why man suppose get more than one account, secondly no dey drop every details about yourself, like where you said you are a uniben student, you are in your finals. That's almost enough evidence to get you locked up I have friends and family on Nairaland but they don't know who I am because I usually change my school's name or date of graduation and so on. Just try reason am via sey you and some guys dey argue about something like this topic then it made you bring it here to seek people's opinion(s). But you F up sha |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by castro316: 2:32pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
larryking540: Mehn that's the worst place a guy should end up. Worse than prison |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: Hahahaha I am so glad the girl caught you. Look at him fumbling and looking for excuses after his evil plan was exposed Only you said the girl is disturbing you all over with calls and WhatsApp Only you said you want to gain financially from her and cash out more than coochie So you wanted to just grab coochie and 'cash out' until your mentor ubunja said its good to also use women financially so you changed gears and said you want to also gain financially from her. God don expose you and saved that poor girl from your plans. You no get conscience? Somebody lost her dad and is trying to survive on her own in a harsh economy instead of thinking of how to help her you are looking for tips on how to cash out both coochie and money. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 2:38pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
castro316:slave go better pass u, how u go ask girl out, she go say I just prefer we remain friends, or maltonic friendship, any way sha na children day day do dat one,if I kw I will remain friend with u I wouldn't have made an attempt asking u out, make guys wise o,u ask girl out, she do shakara move on, |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by larryking540: 2:40pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
NLmember: y u day attack op, |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by luvyaself95(m): 2:42pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44:Guy you dey fall my hand why you dey do like small pikin like this are you afraid because of this See ehn don't let girls control your brain whether she is the one or not stand your ground if you want to help her do it if not don't stop being a pussy |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:43pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
NLmember:lol the one that I want to gain financially from more than her coochie is different from the one in school that has issues. lol but lala F up as he put this stuff for front page sha |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Coolgent(m): 2:43pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44:Its a long story but to cut it short... Her Phone was stolen; as her BF then I made it my responsibility to make her happy at all cost, I bought her new Phone, to say she was happy it will be understatement, We had a swelled lovely moment together that day. well She travelled few days without informing me she also ignored me for 2weeks when i called her she laughed telling me that She tasted how i will react without her for days (imagine). I stylishly stole her facebook password behold she gave her phone number and home address to about 10 Guys! When she figured out her secret was leaked she ignored me completely. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by megareal: 2:44pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Helping someone shouldn't come with a price tag. My mum is altruistic to the point of denying herself a lot of things just to help others. At University, a schoolmate told me of a coursesmate who was pushing barrow in Lagos to pay fees. I went and reported to my mum and asked if she could help. She took over his school fees for year three and four. I sometimes helped him with some small cash for feeding. We were not friends and hardly stayed in the same circle. He dedicated his project to her. I've not met him again but everytime I remember him, I pray that life favours him, I've never ever considered payback or gratitude. My mum too asks of him and prays for him to succeed. That is why we are on Earth. To be a positive force of change. That girl may not reward you tomorrow, but any act of kindness gets stored up for you or your posterity. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by luvyaself95(m): 2:47pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
megareal:I wish to help like my mama and your mama but people these days imagine when you help someone and get blame and insult as a reward... Beside Good people die ultimately and bad people live long.. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by luvyaself95(m): 2:50pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Coolgent:imagine inside life |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 2:55pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Coolgent:she doesn't have an excuse or lie to tell u cos she has been caught red handed hence the reason for ignoring u 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by megareal: 3:05pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
luvyaself95:Has happened several times to me but I'm not daunted. Ultimately, I'm the one who gains because I definitely reap good from the act of helping. Bad experiences almost made me stop, but this year, that was my direct message to help people and I'm not regretting. I don't have much but from my small strength I do what I can. So don't stop, always understand that those you help ultimately turn round to hurt you, in most cases but preparing your mind ahead helps you overlook. Also, understand that helping with wisdom is better, good people who die don't exercise wisdom. |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Enyimbamercedes: 3:18pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: Where there is a will, there is a way. I am pretty sure you will be alright. Let us strike a deal, give your friend the help she requested and I will give you the money back |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Mydazz(m): 3:51pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: Meaning that she's not dating anyone at the moment, but watching you as the prospectI've suitor,....... Back to the matter at hand, give her what you can gI've any ordinary person in her shoes. Money should not be the reason she eventually agrees to date you later on. Give what you can without the least expecitation from her. Goodluck |
Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
DateMynd44: You are just lying because you got caught. Rezie darling don't believe him. 1 Like |
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