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Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by 36STATES: 5:13pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
You sound like a pussie,,. Damn everyone and marry her. If you chicken away you are actively complicit in the same thing you are lamenting about. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by freeman67: 5:14pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Christopherrrr: Herein lies the answer you seek. Just find a way to subtly tell her it would not work because of what you discovered from your enquiry and let everyone move on. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by MrHeff(m): 5:14pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Zikora1000:biko send her over here. I love tall girls |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Dpharisee: 5:15pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Christopherrrr: OSU has been abolished in Igboland, on 28 Dec 2018 with a curse places on anyone who calls another Igbo OSU, all the Igbo traditional rulers participated. Don't bring a curse on your family which can only be atoned with a sacrifice at Inri 2 Likes |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by apokan200(m): 5:16pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Love isn’t enough to make a marriage work bro,listen to your parents |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by davillian(m): 5:16pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
To me love comes first And I will do anything that makes me happy weather the world likes it or not. My life my rules. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
IPOB, kings and queens of hypocrisy. They are on nairaland day and night claiming Osu caste system has been abolished. Ibo people change your ways! Talking out of both sides of your mouth all the time 5 Likes |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by madridsta007(m): 5:17pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
addictiv: You mention orphans- this is a different context. It is important that you do not muddle the two. The man in question is not an orphan. We do not like it, so we try to minimalise, mock or trivalise the importance of parental blessings "online", yes. I understand. However, marriage is an off-line adventure. Both parents are of equal pedestal; I am not sure why one set should be considered above the other. The man should follow his head and not his heart. The "heart is very deceitful above all things" Jer 17: 9. The head, when operating alone, speaks common sense. If his head says, "marry", by all means, proceed. If his head says, "no", then you do not, no matter how painful it is. I wish him the best. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by julieenoch(m): 5:18pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
My brother, like one of the persons that commented rightly said, The scriptures overrules tradition. You will regret this action till you die if you lose this lady because of tradition. Fight the tradition and stand strong upon the word of God. The Word of God is God And if God supercedes tradition, then stand upon the word of God. Fight for this great gift that God has given you. It will surprises you that at the end of the day you will be celebrated. Except if you are not born again but if you are and you have a relationship with God. I can guarantee you that you will win at last. Even though your people will be against you but please don't give up on that lady. It is God's gift for you. the rest of mind you have with her now will be forever till you die and by the way your parent won't spend the rest of your live with you. your wife will do. Make a choice that you can be bold to say you did. Don't follow the crowd in your family line. Stand out. Don't be in the Multitude, be distinguished. The Blessing of a wife is the greatest you can ever get. Marrying right will make your life right even if was wrong before. God has blessed you with a good gift, don't let the devil rob you in the name of tradition. don't forget the devil comes to steal, to kill and to destroy...... don't let the devil steal from you what God has blessed you with. Call me on this number if you need further counselling. 08028120388. God bless you. Pst Enoch 2 Likes |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by 36STATES: 5:20pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
I know you call yourself a Christian. Product of failed educational system of Nigeria. The rest of the world will ask you to do something about, if you don't agree with the situation, except ignorant and backward Nigerians who will always complain and run away without doing anything. starbuck: 2 Likes |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by nextstep(m): 5:20pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
pickatyou: There are medical/scientific reasons for why two A.S. people should not marry (producing an SS child). I fail to see any such consequences for the discussion at hand. 1 Like |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Dagrace01(m): 5:20pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Let me share u story from my mother's family. Her two cousins who never knew each other here met in the US, they fell in love and got married over there having two kids. They both decide to pay a visit to to Nigeria and on their arrival the couple were welcomed by their parents. At first the both parents were happy seeing them together thinking they got to discover they are from the same family in US. To their utter dismay the couple introduced themselves as husband and wife. Their parents astonishingly broke the news of how they are cousins to them,and how it is a taboo to marry one another, they went as far as saying if they do their children will die. The couple weren't bothered at all. They said that's not their problem, that the love they have for each other surpasses any taboo. Believe u me, till today they're still together, they had three more kids and their kids who are my uncles are still alive with even grandchildren self. Aside the emergence of Christianity and any other religion that can eradicate all this taboo, self believe also matter. That's how Yorubas will be saying ah! Don't marry girls from Abeokuta oo, they're this they're that. Thousands of Abeokuta women that have been the root behind their husband's success. (No be only Osu cast na Unilag cast una go see.. Mtcheeew!) If it's possible guy, abeg elope with the love of ur life, don't Iet ur parents scatter the journey of ur life abeg. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Stillthebest: 5:21pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Abort!! 123 abort!!! Just break the news. Break it. None of you will die. Love! Love that will disappear if you make a monumental marital mistake. So, allow that love to solemnly disappear now. That's why you are called a MAN. If you love yourself and her, let her Go since the taboo is generational. I am sure you don't want to battle three wars: from parents, your family with her if u eventually make it and the osu-caste. The 'Osu-caste' that Adam and Eve commited long time ago still lingers hard on us. Abi u still Wan enjoy her small ni before u japa! Ire oo |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:22pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
addictiv:I feel you big time |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Cmanforall: 5:24pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Have you done genotype testing? Now, imagine she's AS and you are AS, What will you do in this situation? #IMAGINE o... I will like to know your answer to this please. Christopherrrr: 1 Like |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Pataricatering(f): 5:25pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Dump her and marry a girl ur community loves - since is your community that’s most important to you . Christopherrrr: 2 Likes |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by obinoral1179(m): 5:25pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Christopherrrr:same local government but still practice OSU......Kia. This country never mature I swear.... |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Dragons: 5:25pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Zikora1000:Fault? I like tall ladies |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Slimsly100(f): 5:25pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Bros, did you just say Imo state? Our very own Imo state? Hope it's not Njaba/Orlu side cos there own dey Dem body. Just waka pass o, nor even try am. Imo wey carry Osu matter for head like gala. The result dey dey dastardly o. It takes more than love for a marriage to last o. #Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:26pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Tumbulum:Na dem dey fine pass |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by nanizle(m): 5:26pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
tot: Really depressing. OSU in 2019. OP you shouldn't call yourself a MAN if you can't marry who you love and damn whatever consequences that may arise. If MEN do this, then the OSU nonsense will die out. Arrant nonsense. This is 2019 for facks sake. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Anusiemgood(m): 5:27pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
But truthfully, same thing is happening to me... Intact I want to get her pregnant and wait for the next reaction 1 Like |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by tot(f): 5:28pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
nanizle: I tell ya. Very unfortunate. |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:29pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
nunnu: Thank God you're still alive |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:31pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
madridsta007:I think it's clear that if they choose the person for you then they have already blessed the union. They can't pick someone for you and not bless the union, you digggg 1 Like |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by starbuck(f): 5:32pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
36STATES: Christianity or not, tradition is tradition mbok... |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Bouncingbabyboy(m): 5:33pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Zikora1000:wedding planner |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by Legitn(m): 5:34pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Jombom: Bro you wicked ohhh una kill persin with laughter I laff sotee I fart |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:34pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
femzab:I'm clapping for you right now. You're a real G |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:35pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Starpro87:Wise words |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by chuksvialle(m): 5:36pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Christopherrrr:if your parents are Christians it wouldn't be an issue damning the consequences, all you need is the consent of your parents. I come from a home where my dad was rejected and considered an outcast because he was a Christian, the day he was to marry all hell was let loose in the community yet he forged ahead, long story short, history was made he became a model in the community, now people embrace his pattern |
Re: Osu-Caste System Is Taking The Love Of My Life Away From Me. by OdenKelechi(m): 5:36pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
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