Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,714,912 members, 6,416,125 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 August 2021 at 07:45 PM

Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? - Romance (9) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? (15123 Views)

Did Your Ex Finally Come Back? Kindly Share Your Experience. / No Wonder Why My Parent Insisted I Must Marry From Village / What Tribe Would You Love To Marry From And Why? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 1:53pm On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:




The only thing is ondo girls dont have problem changing husbands, they can remarry till they find the right place which is not bad. When you don't treat them right, don't even think they will stay a seconds in your home. They don't do this i'm doing it for my children tinging. Not at all. You treat them bad, they move back to their fathers house, they find love and marry again, if same happen, they return to their fathers house. That's just the thing. And to me that's not bad, they need to stay alive to take care of .

I dont know which Ondo you're referring to.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 1:55pm On Oct 31, 2019
chinchonglee:

Who am I??

I smoke weed?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nisai: 2:10pm On Oct 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:




Yes, and I am Yoruba, before you think I'm a hater, I have so many examples around me that's why I agreed to what she said.
Naso. Where you from? Oyo?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by JasonBoss: 2:21pm On Oct 31, 2019
YorubaNinja:
Well, I can ONLY marry a Yoruba chic. Simple. Other tribes are NO-NO... cry

Igbo is a NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO grin grin grin

I'm told they eat people which I later confirmed when I dated an Igbo lady for like 2yrs. I won't have if we're both in 9ja. She told me she can't also marry an Igbo man cuz they act too primitive. grin

I know I've seen some dumb shiit in here but this is priceless.. Sometimes i just wonder if some people got brain at all, danm
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by JasonBoss: 2:31pm On Oct 31, 2019
YorubaNinja:


Yes. She actually told me of a story. She was on her way back home from the U.S and the bus she boarded from Lagos back to her final destination in the SE region stopped at a junction for passengers to relax and refresh. She's actually based in Benin but, decided to stay with her aunt in one of the SE states. She said what she saw sent shock waves over her sexy body grin. In one of the restaurants, she saw people comfortably eating human body parts. angry She thought she was dreaming until she actually heard people make special orders for them. She got to her aunt's place and narrated her horrific ordeal. Her aunt laughed and told her it's very normal in that part of Igbo-land. She never went back to the SE again on her subsequent 9ja visits. undecided

See the below videolink. I once saw this on Nairaland sometime last year. angry

https://newsrescue.one/cannibalism-nigerians-speaking-igbo-cook-human-parts-video/

Perhaps, I've heard several of my Igbo friends that grew up in the SE not wanting to go back to there to settle due to this cannibalism thing. A good friend of mine that grew up in Owerri had to build a house there from parental pressure but never let his parents live there except for family gatherings. undecided

Scratch that.. This is the dumbest post ever. Mehn Sir Douchebag Op is on fire...

After reading this piece of crap, i just cant help to ponder!!! Do some people got brain at all..

I've been in practically all the SE region nd I'm comfortably gonna tell u this post right here is a hogwash.

4 Likes

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:46pm On Oct 31, 2019
nisai:
Naso. Where you from? Oyo?


Lagos.

2 Likes

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 31, 2019
sammycashly:
OGUN STATE...my dad told me ,son if you marry from that state am sorry you are gone I will forget about you cos you are no more my son....those people will turn you against us...fear ogunstate



Agreed.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Maryjane001(f): 4:25pm On Oct 31, 2019
I am an Igbo from Anambra State and I can't marry an Yoruba man or the one that lives here and hasn't travelled far and wide.
I live in Lagos and in my own opinion, the unexposed Yorubas have very strange stupid mentalities.
They fear the Igbo around them might dominate them someday,but they will be busy selling out their lands to us and will still claim rights on the sold land.
They r the worst kind of people to strike a deal with...when everything is all good, they r ur typical hypemen, if trouble comes, they will deny you. They respect and fear only themselves but not other tribes. They can cover up for their own no matter the offence he committed.
Their lifestyle is too extravagant but when you see their houses, u begin to wonder where all the money came from.
I don't v any problem with the 'exposed' yorubas. The ones that v a proper education and have not lived all their lives in Nigeria.
I can marry from other tribes in this Nigeria provided we r compatible.

3 Likes

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Taciturn1: 4:50pm On Oct 31, 2019
linearity:
We were strictly warned not to marry Calabar ladies.

One of our uncle then, ran away with a calabar lady, leaving his wife and children behind. He was never heard from or seen.

I am certain, he must have died from old age by now.
hmm, this one is on a Nollywood movie level
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by chigoizie7(m): 4:56pm On Oct 31, 2019
Me, no one gave me no such conditions, but na my town person I go marry, I never even see who I go marry.


Many people think igbos don’t like marrying Yoruba people. It can be true. It might seem common for igbo men marrying Yoruba women only when they are living in the west.

How many Yoruba man living in the east have you seen marrying an Igbo lady? Infact, men and women, how many other tribes living in the east Marty’s an Igbo?


Our cultural differences is so much and we love those cultures individually. As such it is somehow hard to marry from different tribe. Plus distance .



Can you imagine an Igbo man marrying a Yoruba lady who doesn’t know how to speak igbo at all, and then the man resides in the village in the east, ask yourself how such lady will cope with the immediate environment.

Same applies to an Hausa man marrying a core Igbo woman and then takes her to the north to go live with him and his families.




The same reason why an Hausa , Yoruba does not want to marry an Igbo is the exact same reason why igbos don’t want to marry from other tribes. Distances , cultural differences and language barriers.


Other than that, every woman and man you see, has same features , well except for the individual characters, cultural heritage and background , and language . You will see fine and beautiful women in all tribes, same as men, you will find bad women in all tribes, same as men. The only things that distinguishes those groups are their cultural differences and language barriers.


It is easier for those living in Lagos to marry yorubas because, they are somehow accustomed to their cultures and some even understand and speak Yoruba languages.

5 Likes

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Okoroawusa: 7:07pm On Oct 31, 2019
YorubaNinja:


Yes. She actually told me of a story. She was on her way back home from the U.S and the bus she boarded from Lagos back to her final destination in the SE region stopped at a junction for passengers to relax and refresh. She's actually based in Benin but, decided to stay with her aunt in one of the SE states. She said what she saw sent shock waves over her sexy body grin. In one of the restaurants, she saw people comfortably eating human body parts. angry She thought she was dreaming until she actually heard people make special orders for them. She got to her aunt's place and narrated her horrific ordeal. Her aunt laughed and told her it's very normal in that part of Igbo-land. She never went back to the SE again on her subsequent 9ja visits. undecided

See the below videolink. I once saw this on Nairaland sometime last year. angry

https://newsrescue.one/cannibalism-nigerians-speaking-igbo-cook-human-parts-video/

Perhaps, I've heard several of my Igbo friends that grew up in the SE not wanting to go back to there to settle due to this cannibalism thing. A good friend of mine that grew up in Owerri had to build a house there from parental pressure but never let his parents live there except for family gatherings. undecided
hahahahaha... what are you smoking?

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by AmuDimpka: 7:27pm On Oct 31, 2019
ayomikuolatunji:


Yorubas also hate each other when it comes to marriage. I am a Yoruba from osun but live in Lagos, ilaje area in ajegunle to be precise,ilaje hates other Yorubas. They hardly see themselves as Yoruba. And other Yorubas hate them too. You hear an average ilaje man or woman saying Those Yoruba too like fight ..are they not Yorubas? They bear Yoruba names,wear Yoruba dress in fact they are Yoruba. But illiterate among them is annoying and wicked. My mum said she will disown me if I ever say I want to marry from ilaje,but I am in love with one already and I love her die. She even survived sniper taken when her mum tries separating us. God saved me she didn't die if not I for dey prison. Tribalism is high among Yorubas but they don't show it

Ilaje are not Yoruba ....
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ayomikuolatunji(m): 8:01pm On Oct 31, 2019
AmuDimpka:


Ilaje are not Yoruba ....
What are they? rubbish...they are sub group of Yoruba that lives in ondo,Ogun and Lagos water area.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ccffwx: 8:33pm On Oct 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


Gospel truth!!!

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ccffwx: 8:35pm On Oct 31, 2019
Maryjane001:
I am an Igbo from Anambra State and I can't marry an Yoruba man or the one that lives here and hasn't travelled far and wide.
I live in Lagos and in my own opinion, the unexposed Yorubas have very strange stupid mentalities.
They fear the Igbo around them might dominate them someday,but they will be busy selling out their lands to us and will still claim rights on the sold land.
They r the worst kind of people to strike a deal with...when everything is all good, they r ur typical hypemen, if trouble comes, they will deny you. They respect and fear only themselves but not other tribes. They can cover up for their own no matter the offence he committed.
Their lifestyle is too extravagant but when you see their houses, u begin to wonder where all the money came from.
I don't v any problem with the 'exposed' yorubas. The ones that v a proper education and have not lived all their lives in Nigeria.
I can marry from other tribes in this Nigeria provided we r compatible.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ijoba22(m): 9:03pm On Oct 31, 2019
Gforce2015:



See this mofo... You dey cover the shame of your people... If I wan marry 50 Fulani ladies for kebbi, kaduna , Abuja etc I go marry... Most of your FOOLani ladies no get level..... They are the easiest to marry among any tribe in Nigeria....

One of the northern governor recently did mass wedding... Nah only FOOLani land Dem dey do mass wedding.... You come here come dey form too-difficult-to-get...
mafo bro Fulani, ignorance is a disease ooo, when you had of mass wedding it's Hausa not Fulani, well I can't blame you maybe you don't know the different
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by GoodFaith: 9:31pm On Oct 31, 2019
Pray to God for a happy and peaceful marriage life
for God to bless you with a good wife/husband
All the tribes in Nigeria have the same issue

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Oct 31, 2019
ijoba22:
mafo bro Fulani, ignorance is a disease ooo, when you had of mass wedding it's Hausa not Fulani, well I can't blame you maybe you don't know the different

Another FOOLani want to dance nake on nairaland.....
Kontinue!
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Oct 31, 2019
[quote author=ccffwx post=83636420][/quote]

Error of generalization...

Kontinue
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 9:45pm On Oct 31, 2019
Maryjane001:
I am an Igbo from Anambra State and I can't marry an Yoruba man or the one that lives here and hasn't travelled far and wide.
I live in Lagos and in my own opinion, the unexposed Yorubas have very strange stupid mentalities.
They fear the Igbo around them might dominate them someday,but they will be busy selling out their lands to us and will still claim rights on the sold land.
They r the worst kind of people to strike a deal with...when everything is all good, they r ur typical hypemen, if trouble comes, they will deny you. They respect and fear only themselves but not other tribes. They can cover up for their own no matter the offence he committed.
Their lifestyle is too extravagant but when you see their houses, u begin to wonder where all the money came from.
I don't v any problem with the 'exposed' yorubas. The ones that v a proper education and have not lived all their lives in Nigeria.
I can marry from other tribes in this Nigeria provided we r compatible.
don't bring this sh*t down here. This is romance and not politics.

And there is nothing like 'An Yoruba'.

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 9:47pm On Oct 31, 2019
AmuDimpka:

Ilaje are not Yoruba ....
yes, they are ebira.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Suchy22(f): 9:54pm On Oct 31, 2019
Fountainofyouth:





Yes, and I am Yoruba, before you think I'm a hater, I have so many examples around me that's why I agreed to what she said.


Thank you!

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by stinflame: 9:58pm On Oct 31, 2019
Gforce2015:


Another FOOLani want to dance nake on nairaland.....
Kontinue!

Those mass wedding are usually for widows.

Its seen as a good deed in hooking her up with her husband who feels he can't foot the bills.

So be guided.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by AmuDimpka: 10:12pm On Oct 31, 2019
ayomikuolatunji:

What are they? rubbish...they are sub group of Yoruba that lives in ondo,Ogun and Lagos water area.
they are sub ijaw group please

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Maryjane001(f): 11:50pm On Oct 31, 2019
Kapilta:
don't bring this sh*t down here. This is romance and not politics.

And there is nothing like 'An Yoruba'.

Thanks for the correction tho...�
I just spoke my mind smh

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by AmuDimpka: 5:41am On Nov 01, 2019
JasonBoss:


Scratch that.. This is the dumbest post ever. Mehn Sir Douchebag Op is on fire...

After reading this piece of crap, i just cant help to ponder!!! Do some people got brain at all..

I've been in practically all the SE region nd I'm comfortably gonna tell u this post right here is a hogwash.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Kapilta(m): 7:04am On Nov 01, 2019
Maryjane001:


Thanks for the correction tho...�
I just spoke my mind smh
it's cool anyway. I just don't want the thread to become tribal. Learning one or two.

And it's wonderful you've already known it's the unexposed and prolly also uneducated that exhibit this character(s) and i believe this can be found everywhere all over the world.

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by oyoirabor: 8:29am On Nov 01, 2019
Maryjane001:
I am an Igbo from Anambra State and I can't marry an Yoruba man or the one that lives here and hasn't travelled far and wide.
I live in Lagos and in my own opinion, the unexposed Yorubas have very strange stupid mentalities.
They fear the Igbo around them might dominate them someday,but they will be busy selling out their lands to us and will still claim rights on the sold land.
They r the worst kind of people to strike a deal with...when everything is all good, they r ur typical hypemen, if trouble comes, they will deny you. They respect and fear only themselves but not other tribes. They can cover up for their own no matter the offence he committed.
Their lifestyle is too extravagant but when you see their houses, u begin to wonder where all the money came from.
I don't v any problem with the 'exposed' yorubas. The ones that v a proper education and have not lived all their lives in Nigeria.
I can marry from other tribes in this Nigeria provided we r compatible.

Simple question... And you are writing unnecessary rubbish we see in politics section.

2 Likes

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Maryjane001(f): 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2019
oyoirabor:


Simple question... And you are writing unnecessary rubbish we see in politics section.

Oga, I merely stated my opinions with reasons. Plus, I wasn't talking about any politics.
Learn to read well next time.

1 Like

Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Youngjohnosas: 1:23pm On Nov 01, 2019
BiggyB242:


You have more of landladies than landlords in Edo State, the women always want to be in control. Their husband usually die early from what I noticed.
you sound very unintelligent and foolish.i remember some of my friends made that statement some years back while we were in school and so unfortunately for them four of them had lost their dad so I asked them who killed them.

most of those men married their wives at a tender age and coupled with family stress a lot had died.most of those men died in their old age.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nisai: 2:31pm On Nov 01, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Lagos.
Good.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 7:05pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
you sound very unintelligent and foolish.i remember some of my friends made that statement some years back while we were in school and so unfortunately for them four of them had lost their dad so I asked them who killed them.

most of those men married their wives at a tender age and coupled with family stress a lot had died.most of those men died in their old age.

Nigerians can't present their argument without insults because you don't agree with their point of view. When will you all be civilized?

Is what I noticed from the time (years) I spent in Benin.
Well, you are from Edo State so it is pointless.

2 Likes 1 Share

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)

Happy Birthday Tallesty1 / What Do Girls Think When They See A Really Big Peniss? / Why Some Toto Dey Carry Meat And Some Toto Dey Get Little Or No Meat ??

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 168
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.