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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Youngjohnosas: 8:04pm On Nov 01, 2019
BiggyB242:


Nigerians can't present their argument without insults because you don't agree with their point of view. When will you all be civilized?

Is what I noticed from the time (years) I spent in Benin.
Well, you are from Edo State so it is pointless.
oh so you left your cultured state to seek asylum here, I can't believe it was that bad for you.

firstly you had to completely badmouth a whole state because of a sample of a few persons whilst drawing conclusions that the women intentionally kill their husbands just to own the house. that's barbaric and shameful of you because in the Benin tradition, landed properties of the deceased man is not inherited by the wife but rather the children.

sometimes it's best to tell a fool he is foolish so he won't draw into hasty conclusions next time.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by midnighter(f): 8:20pm On Nov 01, 2019
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 9:42pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
oh so you left your cultured state to seek asylum here, I can't believe it was that bad for you.

firstly you had to completely badmouth a whole state because of a sample of a few persons whilst drawing conclusions that the women intentionally kill their husbands just to own the house. that's barbaric and shameful of you because in the Benin tradition, landed properties of the deceased man is not inherited by the wife but rather the children.

sometimes it's best to tell a fool he is foolish so he won't draw into hasty conclusions next time.



lol, even if you call me all the bad names on earth it doesn't take a strand of hair off my body. But I will educate the people on nairaland what I have noticed about the Edo people. Hehehehehehe, e pain am. it hurts but is true. The women are control freak, and their husband die early, landladies all over the place.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Youngjohnosas: 10:00pm On Nov 01, 2019
BiggyB242:




lol, even if you call me all the bad names on earth it doesn't take a strand of hair off my body. But I will educate the people on nairaland what I have noticed about the Edo people. Hehehehehehe, e pain am. it hurts but is true. The women are control freak, and their husband die early, landladies all over the place.
keep wallowing in self pity,no need having banters with a dead brain. your hate for my darling Edo women probably because none accepted to date you doesn't take the shine off them.

it's a pity your mom is going to die a tenant,i am a proud Benin boy,u couldn't shamefully mention ur state of origin. BIGGY big for nothing ur name is really affecting ur sense of reasoning.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 10:06pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
keep wallowing in self pity,no need having banters with a dead brain. your hate for my darling Edo women probably because none accepted to date you doesn't take the shine off them.

it's a pity your mom is going to die a tenant,i am a proud Benin boy,u couldn't shamefully mention ur state of origin. BIGGY big for nothing ur name is really affecting ur sense of reasoning.

Hahahaha, sorry I hurt your feelings. You totally wrong bout me. Cheers brother.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Youngjohnosas: 10:22pm On Nov 01, 2019
BiggyB242:


Hahahaha, sorry I hurt your feelings. You totally wrong bout me. Cheers brother.
I was more concerned about ur mental state but it's quite unfortunate u don't seem to know how backward you are. I think I have to draw the curtain here. keep wailing Mr big for nothing .
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 10:51pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
I was more concerned about ur mental state but it's quite unfortunate u don't seem to know how backward you are. I think I have to draw the curtain here. keep wailing Mr big for nothing .

Lol, I smell childishness from afar. You need some growing up to do. Adios Amigo.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Youngjohnosas: 10:55pm On Nov 01, 2019
BiggyB242:


Lol, I smell childishness from afar. You need some growing up to do. Adios Amigo.
well if you say so no p,thanks for the observation.

all I can perceive in u is a fool at forty and a big for nothing biggy. do hope u work on my observations also cheers
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 10:57pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
I was more concerned about ur mental state but it's quite unfortunate u don't seem to know how backward you are. I think I have to draw the curtain here. keep wailing Mr big for nothing .
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BiggyB242(m): 10:58pm On Nov 01, 2019
Youngjohnosas:
well if you say so no p,thanks for the observation.

all I can perceive in u is a fool at forty and a big for nothing biggy. do hope u work on my observations also cheers

Small pikin sense, tah tah tah tah tah.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by dboss12(m): 11:28pm On Nov 01, 2019
marry Igbo woman at your own peril don't say I did not warn you....

check around the street they are everywhere
every others tribe had ignored them because they are after money
most importantly they don't have genuine love rather conditional one which is money first..
date as many of them and keep f**king them.
pls run far away from igbo girl
don't bring problems to your own house
.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Allsingles: 1:13am On Nov 02, 2019
Most times parents give this instructions or caution base on experience or the nature and the lifestyle of that tribe or region.
Here are some of the tribe that most parents have told their son not to marry from or some single guys has vowed not to marry from, is not because they are not Beautiful and endowed but due to one of the reasons I mentioned above.
Find out more here.....
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/09/some-of-tribes-that-has-most-expensive.html
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by DjClassik: 2:38am On Nov 02, 2019
Like she has seen d future and she was trying to change it �
ayomikuolatunji:


Yorubas also hate each other when it comes to marriage. I am a Yoruba from osun but live in Lagos, ilaje area in ajegunle to be precise,ilaje hates other Yorubas. They hardly see themselves as Yoruba. And other Yorubas hate them too. You hear an average ilaje man or woman saying Those Yoruba too like fight ..are they not Yorubas? They bear Yoruba names,wear Yoruba dress in fact they are Yoruba. But illiterate among them is annoying and wicked. My mum said she will disown me if I ever say I want to marry from ilaje,but I am in love with one already and I love her die. She even survived sniper taken when her mum tries separating us. God saved me she didn't die if not I for dey prison. Tribalism is high among Yorubas but they don't show it
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by DjClassik: 2:41am On Nov 02, 2019
Lamanii22:



Yoruba... And the Yoruba guys I've met didn't treat me nice...
Hope u treated dem nice too grin

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ONKEvents(f): 3:08am On Nov 02, 2019
Right mentality we need in Nigeria.
MEJOISLAND:

I'm from calabar and deeply in love with an urhobo, Deltan lady. . Will marry her soonest.
Na poor man go only complain of excessive bride price.
Love conquers all things

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ONKEvents(f): 3:11am On Nov 02, 2019
Hmmm.... should we tell him?
dboss12:
marry Igbo woman at your own peril don't say I did not warn you....

check around the street they are everywhere
every others tribe had ignored them because they are after money
most importantly they don't have genuine love rather conditional one which is money first..
date as many of them and keep f**king them.
pls run far away from igbo girl
don't bring problems to your own house
.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ImaIma1(f): 6:33am On Nov 02, 2019
ken6488:
Calabar or Igbo

Though I can date not marry
#note I am from Delta

Reason Is because of distance..

cheesy and The excessive bride price


That's the tribe my dad banned his daughters from marrying from after he attended his friend's burial and saw what they did to his wife in the name of culture and tradition.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by BafanaBafana: 6:41am On Nov 02, 2019
Gforce2015:
As for me , my family say make I no marry FOOLanii people... Say, the lady go kill me and that they always have hatred for another tribe..

So If I toast a Lady and I find out that nah FOOLani ... I go jApa
Fulani will not marry you in the first place do you are safe
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by MightySirKay(m): 7:02am On Nov 02, 2019
My grandma, mom and dad warned me never ever to marry from
1. Owo - Coz of the high level of promiscuity. My ex was a typical example of that, but my current babe has been the best thing that has happened to me for the past 3 years. They are both from Owo
2. Ogun State - Coz of their fetish lifestyle
3. Any tribe that doesn't speak same language as ours (Igbo and Hausa)
4. Someone born and breed in Lagos, they are very wild

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 02, 2019
nlPoster:


Yes.

Stay away from them. That's how one idiot claimed women from Ondo state were filling brothels somewhere in the east?

What the heck?

As in them like Bleep well well and them fit destroy man life if the man dump them or refuse to marry them? Bros abeg enlighten me more please.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 8:15am On Nov 02, 2019
condemn:


As in them like Bleep well well and them fit destroy man life if the man dump them or refuse to marry them? Bros abeg enlighten me more please.

Tell us what you know or have experienced (didn't someone just say Owo women are promiscuous?).


I cant read your mind to know what's in there.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 8:16am On Nov 02, 2019
dboss12:
marry Igbo woman at your own peril don't say I did not warn you....

check around the street they are everywhere
every others tribe had ignored them because they are after money
most importantly they don't have genuine love rather conditional one which is money first..
date as many of them and keep f**king them.
pls run far away from igbo girl
don't bring problems to your own house
.

I swear bro you are too correct. Igbo girls full everywhere nobody won marry them. Na money them dey find. Na use and dump I dey do them oh. So useless.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ImaIma1(f): 8:21am On Nov 02, 2019
ken6488:
What tribe


Delta
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ImaIma1(f): 8:50am On Nov 02, 2019
Kapilta:
did you just say yes to his question that 'Ondo girls are wicked and stubborn? Very funny. Stubborness is in our blood generally both male and woman buh wickedness, that's totally not true.

The only thing is ondo girls dont have problem changing husbands, they can remarry till they find the right place which is not bad. When you don't treat them right, don't even think they will stay a seconds in your home. They don't do this i'm doing it for my children tinging. Not at all. You treat them bad, they move back to their fathers house, they find love and marry again, if same happen, they return to their fathers house. That's just the thing. And to me that's not bad, they need to stay alive to take care of their children.


That's how some years back, my neighbour was gisting with our Landlady's daughter (a grown woman of over 40 though). And my neighbour(a Yoruba lady) mentioned a particular yoruba state that they don't usually stay in their husband's house.

What my neighbour didn't know was that my landlady was from that state. And both landlady and daughter were not with their husbands anymore. When the woman said that's where she's from, my neighbour just ran to come and report herself to me that her mouth will not kill her cheesy.

I don't remember the state
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ImaIma1(f): 8:51am On Nov 02, 2019
ken6488:
Delta na tribe


Sorry... state. He didn't actually specify the tribe
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ImaIma1(f): 8:58am On Nov 02, 2019
Skmoda360:

Even Akwa Ibom, there bride price is overly much ehn......


Haba!! Our bride price isn't high. Besides, all the requirements on the list are subject to negotiation. Both families pick a date to sit and discuss.

It's greedy families that try to get rich marrying off their daughter. Besides, the brides are usually sent off with gifts and items for her husband's house...mine included a washing machine and full gas cooker (with oven). That's just to mention a few.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Lamanii22(f): 9:47am On Nov 02, 2019
DjClassik:

Hope u treated dem nice too grin


I really did... I'm very nice.. I deserve better...
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by placeofallure(f): 10:05am On Nov 02, 2019
I'm kogi, the Yoruba part, and Christian. My mum, as far back as when I was in primary school, has been telling me she wants me to marry from my town. According to her, even if I marry outside, she doesn't want Ogun state. Reason, they're too fetish, na only Bible she sabi so she doesn't want trouble. I eventually married my husband, he's from my place. I didn't set out looking for my townsman, it just happened. He's a very wonderful man, an absolute Godsent.

I will tell my own kids not marry from Edo, witchcraft and stubbornness and crafty, wicked manipulations. I know there'll be a few good ones among them but I don't wanna take the risk.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 10:15am On Nov 02, 2019
I'm not sure why people get offended when this or that person says they cant marry from their place.

I dont find it offensive at all. I even actively encourage others not to marry from my state because I dont want to hear long story besides who holy pass in Nigeria?

If you're a non indigene insisting on marrying from my state, check the places that are better at hosting you, in my opinion.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by LyfeJennings(m): 10:37am On Nov 02, 2019
Igbos and the entire South South

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