anslem04:




Aint you suppose to be "unavailable " thot u had a finance.

victorian:





Yes it makes her feel at ease but it won't remove Nada!

She will see u as a clown, while she chuckles and slap your groping fingers off her blouse or skirt.

Guys who joke Alot know they don't get laid by just cracking jokes.

victorian:





I'm not available, biko


I have a man, a tall fair guy doing well for himself. Whom I said in one of my post is very patient and persistent trying to win my heart. And whenever I was frustrating his wooing efforts , he will change to pidgin language

It was fun. My annoying attitude back at the early stage, didn't make him run away

He really try. He didn't back down.



So pls I'm off the market. I'm just chatting and having fun here.

anslem04:




i hear you

OluwasureGig:
Hustle o make dem use because of you open thread for nairaland

victorian:
Most girls are attracted to guys who are handsome, observant, quiet and looks manly, talks with a deep manly voice when he has to , than to guys who crack jokes like Eddy Murphy.


I hope u get my drift?

Kylekent59:
You already said the answer. He looks matured, and manly.

No girl would wanna move with an amature guy.

If you know how bad Nigeria is now, you won't even be reasoning about GF/BF stuffs, you should be reasoning how to make big money.

sylvez:


since you've been reasoning how big is your money?

so if man no make big money he should remain dry....

Nwokem take ya time dia o!!!

you can't be lacking bread and still be lacking butter.

Aniex629:
ok Ikpa am the guy in question
1. . I need a sugar mummy only that can attract me

sylvez:


Did you just describe me like diz?

victorian:





You like the tall introverted fair ones.
I use to like the tall dark athletic ones, but later I changed my desire to either tall or abit tall, can be fair or dark, athletic and soft in their approach to women or me.

foodthought:
There's this guy in my department.. He's handsome no doubt and he dresses a little bit cool.... He has this base voice and a beard which makes he look more mature than most guys in the department...

Girls are all over him and he doesn't talk to anyone... I mean he barely talks in the department...

I thought girls only needed guys that are funny and cool, but this guy barely talks and still gets the ladies attention....

I want to be like this.... Is this a red pill something or what?

Magnoliaa:


I like the athletic ones sometimes, too. Tall or not, fair or not. And there was this particular guy I was attracted to. Very short, but very good in football.

And another into music and such. He compose them.

But they are both exceptions sha.

OluwasureGig:
Hustle o make dem use because of you open thread for nairaland

DAramis:
I don't think it is a red pill stuff. Check closely, there is a possibility that his temperament (introvert) added with years of personal development (character wise, respectful, good behavior) are part of his charisma which attracts others towards him.

Other will think he is snobbish person due to the fact that he hardly talks but what they don't know is that, he hates small talks and may detest gossip hence the reason he hardly talks.

Overall, I can bet my #20 remaining balance, that there is a high possibility of him attracting envy, jealousy and hatred from other guys as a result of this. Some of the girls may be clout chasing also when it comes to him (Like to show off that they have a handsome guy as a friend or boyfriend).

Piece of advice : Try to go closer to him and engage him in discussions over relevant topics. Try to pick some good stuff from him also (Like his responsible way of dressing) e.t.c who knows, friendship with him (free from competition or envy) might on the long run influence you with the charisma with which he exhudes.

victorian:









There are always exceptions, truly.

These kind of exceptions like the footballer and the one who composes songs? The feeling and attraction is just natural and instant for you smiles.

It happens and one keep wandering, why I'm I drawn to this guy? Gaddamit!


Lol, I have one neighbour like that but thank God he works in the next building to mine and thank God he's the arrogant type, and also thank God I'm arrogant too 2 arrogant fine guys.
We know the attraction is there between us but both of us Dem form and carry face for each other since two years till date o.

He's claiming fine guy With ride, Me sef I'm claiming fine sassy babe turn CEO ! Lol

Yesterday I was at my office balcony, feeding my eyes on people then I notice someone staring at me, lo and behold it's the guy. I caught him staring!. Our eyes locked for like three seconds, we quickly remove our eyes and I was like jeez! he walked away while I shook my head angrily and walked back into my office.

He has a gf and I have a guy.. So equation balance thank God.


Life sometimes is interesting

themaestro08:
exudes not exhudes.

lefulefu:
..

Horiolah:


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victorian:






Nope I won't

Even though he's attractive, I've made up my mind to be faithful to my guy.

So nothing dey happen.



My man is also attractive too and doing well too

logik29:
like say ubunja dey im for explain but ilegend dey sha.



Mods abeg unban ubunja.

victorian:







Eddy Murphy in film is different from Eddy Murphy in real life.

But in films? He appears exceedingly funny , an average struggling guy and a one woman kind of man, who foolishly falls in love with a lady but eventually becomes the hero in the film.

In real life, he's not funny , he's cunning , a sweet talker, wealthy and also he's player. So why won't women rush him in real life. He fathered up to 13 kids or so from different women. Lol.

What should we now call the real Eddy Murphy?

victorian:





Yes it makes her feel at ease but it won't remove Nada!

She will see u as a clown, while she chuckles and slap your groping fingers off her blouse or skirt.

Guys who joke Alot know they don't get laid by just cracking jokes.

Grandlord:
No be lie

I cringe when I see guys try to play the clown, to impress women. They can never get laid that way! The babes are only using them to laugh and play. That's emasculating!

I'm usually very calm and composed. Just in my zone and I have a very confident air around me. I get a lot of respect from people, male and females alike and people way older than me always wanna be friends with me. The women trip like no tomorrow. They always get the shock of their lives when I unveil to them the sexual beast in me and they get to love me more.

Horiolah:


Alright sis. I wish you the best.

victorian:








You try

Kudos to the sexual beast in you.

drezzyx:
Blood of Pontius pilate! 13 what!! Are u kidding me?

Grandlord:
The beast says hi.

victorian:



Yes o

Some kids from his ex wife, others from three other women.