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Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:19pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
HacheNoire: I'm shook! Thank God you made it I'm happy for you 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by UnitedFront: 6:22pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
donbachi: No need to apologise, I was pulling your leg now. Had I known that I was going to end up as a businessman, I wouldn't have wasted my time seeking admission to study pharmacy at all. The lesson is that I won't allow my kids to waste their time like that. |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:22pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Opeoluwaabel: Best advice Thank you soooo much I'm happy |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:23pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
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Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:24pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Leebeedo: OMG! This is very inspiring Thank God for your Life now oo 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by richiepolymer(m): 6:24pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
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Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by UnitedFront: 6:24pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier: Your priority should be money needed to see your study through, life and good health to see the next seven years and beyond 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by leonard509(m): 6:25pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier:Start finding alternative sources of income and start spending most of your time outside home. Start living the independent life as soon as possible by fending for yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:26pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
frozen70g: Thank for this wonderful advice I promise you and my much that I'll come out with this distinction by God's grace By the way I be guy o |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:26pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
techliteup: I'm sure there's a story behind it But we thank God you're still alive |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:28pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Homguy: Thank you very much for this I'm grateful Long live the "men of honour" 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:28pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
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Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Dannonye(f): 6:28pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier: Timing differs some people die at 30 Some 75 Timing my dear So relax and be happy Don't start a journey with a heavy mind You'll finish well Your patience will pay off Watch Besides do not let your parents words get to you They care but cannot express |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:30pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
vowiski: I'd be thrilled to hear i have sent an email |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:30pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
oluwamile: You dey give me hope small small bro Thanks Long live the "men of honour" |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:31pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
billbonesmd: Amazing!! Doctor of pharmacy or what? |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:32pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
UnitedFront: I guess you're doing great?? |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:35pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
UnitedFront: Of course man that is the Goal and that has always been the goal See you at the top 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Gwagone: 6:35pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier: Your parent want you out of school in time while my father doesn't care at all. My dad must not hear I bought jamb form, the time and last time I used my own money to buy jamb form, I don't even know how he got to know... He was very angry and said that 'instead of me to save and invest, I am thinking about school'. I am still not happy about it...... 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Ejaisky: 6:35pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
This is the funniest thing I have read in a very long time.... You very depressed because you in year one while you are in final year? Smh. May God make life easy for you after graduation. If you start comparing yourself with others now, they are still so many things ahead that people don't get or achieve or get at the same time even if they are age mates or start off together. Graduating, getting a job, better paying job, getting married and whose spouse is better off, child-bearing(some will wait for years and may not even have), quality of living, then what your mother is doing(comparing your children's progress with others), etc. It will be so draining doing all these. You go just kill yourself. My advice: Live your life. Study hard and strive to succeed. God is never late. |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by iaamxavier(m): 6:38pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Gwagone: Make him understand that you want to go to school by all means and that you can hustle and try and finance your self if he isn't capable |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by afribabe: 6:41pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Came4amod:And if everyone will do this, who is going to follow him or allow him to follow cos if he is not rich, then he will probably fall into the other category of the unfortunate people according to your classification. You, can you allow an unfortunate person to follow you if you are rich?? Or you think the rich people are mumu abi? 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by horia: 6:41pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier:Bro many of us have seen even worse . see what I learned in the little time I've spent in pharmacy school; Self development should be ur priority. it brings independence and independence frees one from emotional stress such as this. People feel bad when those they trust most define them in an inferior manner. Make urself proud of you in the things you do. Don't force it, just allow ur best self come out and appreciate who u are, and what you do. Let these define u. Anyways, always remember that U're a Nigerian. Depression should be a foreign entity. |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by brownskilo(m): 6:52pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
This should be one of the topic with the most reasonable comments I have seen so far on nairaland. No attacks on the poor girl, no thread derailer and no Mr perfectionist. It seems they've all left nairaland to twitter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by renewable1(m): 6:52pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
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Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Parkwell247: 6:55pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
Yours is even better than some. Don't worry bro, once you enter school, you will earn your respect. Moreover, everybody's time is different, do not be depressed because your mate are ahead of you, but it should be something to inspired you. In everything, give thanks to God 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Budline1(m): 7:00pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
kendological: True, no time for bad energies. Sometimes family is overrated. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Budline1(m): 7:04pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
mastermaestro: True, bad energies can kill. I can relate. Some ppl can only give bad energies, when it's time for the real responsibilities, they aren't ready. No be person dey send him pikin go abroad go study without complaining. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by golddare: 7:06pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
It's normal thing, dont kill yourself for that besides things not easy, so understand your parents and look for a way to make them happy, it's easy if you understand them but believe me she doesn't know the negative effect of it. If I were you I will take it as blues that will ginger me to excell . |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Budline1(m): 7:08pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
ogawisdom: It's not even about getting a job, it is about making it in life. Ppl make it legally without working for anyone. |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by goody1shoe73(m): 7:10pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
iaamxavier:You mean you're not a girl? Anyways knuckle down and work hard, time will quickly fly pass. I graduated at 29,i had some setbacks but I don't think I'm doing badly currently. What will be will be 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Making Me Depressed With What She Said To Me by Hcqmela: 7:12pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
hemlock0:its not misplaced. It seems you have never been compared with your fellow peers before by a parent most especially mothers. I understand the OP well cos I have been in same situation too.Stop saying the depression is misplaced cos comparison normally is bad not to talk of when a parent is doing that to a child knowing fully well the circumstances wasn't the child's doing. 1 Like |
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