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Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by pocohantas(f): 6:02pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Ad hominem. Normal when they get cornered. Now he has taken off. 6 Likes
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Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 6:02pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Lmao! cococandy: |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 6:06pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
You did not condemn the man for cheating, you condemned him for cheating without a condom. There is a huge difference. Receive sense to stop being a bloody hypocrite. kay29000: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Kiezodumah(m): 6:08pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
See as everywhere calm now ooooo....The thread is even growing at an arithmetic progression and most guys are on the fence(criptically empathetic towards the man) Let say the roles were reversed now and the lady was @ fault ,this thread wud have grown at a geometric progression and trust the guys on NL to have choked the lives out of all the women in this world... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Nobody: 6:09pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM:So stupid. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 6:11pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Sounds like an accurate description of your mother. unbitchable: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by unbitchable(m): 6:27pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Midas01:a hoe load of trash |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by afribabe: 6:31pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
cococandy:This is not the you I know coco |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Duru009(m): 6:35pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
The bible says " he that is born of God will overcome the world and the things in the world" My dear, with time you will certainly overcome. Take your solace in the word of God..... |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 6:41pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
eni4real: Remember OP is a legally , fully married woman and not a runs girl. Even marrying as a virgin will not help you, when your partner is unfaithful. Many women who are not sexually all over the place have been in OPs position and even worse. Some have HIV, some have lost their womb all because of a sexually promiscuous and careless partner. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Winneygirl(f): 6:42pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
cjfavour: Thanks. I'm not asking that she leaves her home. I'm asking that she takes some space to sort out her feelings. What's the worst the man could do now? Sleep with someone else? He already did that. . She's bitter. She's angry. She's going through a lot now. Taking some time to think about her life,which she almost lost due to the man's recklessness, is not asking too much. Her life and sanity matters a lot. Being sober doesn't restore trust. Being remorseful doesn't take away the damage done to her body. . This is a woman who has had to endure monitoring spirits of the society for not being pregnant yet after 3 years of marriage, only to realise that her husband had passed on an STI to her, which went undetected for so long, causing damage to her body and further drowning her chances at conceiving. . Taking some time away from this toxic situation is not too much to ask. Not all the time 'Endure'. She's hurting and she's humiliated. She needs to safeguard herself, her sanity and heal from this wound. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by foreshore(m): 6:47pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Dominiondominio: Tales by moonlight |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by izospindle(m): 6:47pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Jobia:Body no be firewood sister you won't understand |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 6:54pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
golddare: Magic Johnson has lived with HIV for over 2 decades and he is still standing strong. Many live with HIV in our midst. HIV is probably safer than the Coronavirus right now. HIV has just become a chronic disease, that can be controlled enough not to be even easily transmissable. The problem with HIV is the initial hype when the disease was first detected , when there was no treatment for it and it was more or less a death sentence. No longer the story now. Nigerians have just refused to move beyond the death sentence that used to be associated with HIV, even though it's not same again. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by katyamizotta: 6:54pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Op please endure. You are going to have to build endurance for the rest of your marriage as he will not change. He not only cheated but allowed you contract a disease and did not get you treated. Do not leave that home for another woman because Oga will definitely bring in a child some day and you will be needed to be a stepmom to the child. You need to learn to pray and fast. You are going to be doing serious fasting for him to have a change of heart and not all prayers get answered immediately or at all. You need to be close friends with several doctors because you will start having biannual STD checks and any other checks possible. Start saving too just in case there are some very expensive drugs prescribed. He is a man and a man must cheat. They dont want to cheat but their pe nis sneaks out of their boxers and slithers down the street looking for anything female (i didnt call dog or cat, but its possible) I believe you are strong and you can endure. Above all, remember marriage is for better for worse, by fire and force, till death do you part. ( you escaped death once but you are now infertile, i guess next time death will do you part and you get to die as a virtuous woman) 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Nobody: 6:57pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Nobody: 7:00pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:I was talking about the negative outcomes of Pelvic infection you wrote!! Are you sure this topic is not a Fiction?? |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 7:00pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Keep describing her. unbitchable: |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 7:01pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
This is the appropriate one. Don't be a hypocrite Randy100: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Midas01: 7:01pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Says someone without a brain. Lmao. femi4: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by dammypat(f): 7:05pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Randy100:. This is what is ruining many homes,only woman build home and make marriage works while the man fold his arms,sleep around,irresponsible and serve the woman with all shit because she is the builder, the woman gets fed up,starts nagging,care less and face her kids,the man continues his irresponsibilities with this stupid mentality and the home becomes a war front! Pls marriage is a work for two, if you are not ready to head home and build it together with your wife, stay single, May God help us ooo. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by afribabe: 7:05pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
mywells:and with a single mother of 4 at that.... hmmmm. And people will be blaming a woman for bringing "outside" children to their infertile husband..... |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 7:07pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
eni4real: You will be surprised that worse stories happen in real life. What the eyes have seen atimes, will leave you eternally speechless. That's why you see so much bitterness in many marriages , and even if OP resolves all differences with her husband, things can never be the same. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Fejimummy: 7:09pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
everybody is saying forgive your husband, work on you marriage bla bla bla... if the table was turned around the same people would say throw her out... forgiveness is for only women 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 7:15pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
danilmo: The guy you quoted is so dumb, it's unbelievable. Why make assertations on something you claim to know nothing about? Mad o |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Nobody: 7:15pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:People say, Time will heal.. Provided the man turned a new leave, completely!! |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Sammarshall(f): 7:16pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Dominiondominio: I’m really sorry sweetie! Honestly, I can feel your pain. I really wish I can give you a hug now and be your friend. I pray to God to help you, if you can get closer to Jesus, he will give you rest. When ever am sad or heart broken, I always cry to God and somehow, I get peace. If I can be honest with you, sometimes love is never enough. Talk to God but if you feel you can’t do it anymore, is okay to fail sometimes. The best is yet to come.... |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by gonkin(m): 7:20pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Chai, sorry and I hear STD is harder to cure in females. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 7:23pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
eni4real: Well, I pray time heals her pains... I pray she comes out of this stronger and more clear headed. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Nobody: 7:29pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:Amin 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Discombulator: 7:38pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Divorce him |
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