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Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Vyolet(f): 8:46am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Acidosis:It doesn't matter who he cheats with, even a 29 year old husband would cheat with the same single mother of four while her 37year old husband can cheat with a 22year old woman. Age does not determine the kind of person a man would cheat with. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Randy100: 8:46am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Something is telling me that you caused your problem by nagging the poor man out to another woman's arm(a woman with kids). What do I know? Divorce is your best option. Thank you. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Vyolet(f): 8:51am On Feb 08, 2020 |
I don't really understand what some men want. I bet he married a much younger woman because he wanted fresh blood with no baggage, now he cheats with an older woman with extra baggage, yuck!. Worst of all he had unprotected sex with her like he knows how many other men are fucking her, God have mercy. Madam, sorry about what you are going through, it must be difficult. It's better you zip up for now, relax your mind and give yourself peace, it is not your fault and you shouldn't feel bad. If you still love him and you have forgiven him, fine but i hope he won't bring home HIV next time. Being HIV+ with fertility issue can make one consider suicide or murder weigh your options properly. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 8:52am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Randy100:The man has no excuse whatsoever to cheat. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 8:53am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet:I tell you, it's disheartening. I know of a man who gave his wife HIV, luckily for her she survived it, last time she was tested, wasn't found in her system anymore but the man died. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Acidosis(m): 8:55am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet: Age does a lot my sister. There's no way a partner of same age group and life experiences will intentionally or unintentionally ruin his home by sleeping with an infected old auntie barely 3 years of marriage. With age comes experiences. The single mother has always been in the picture, long before madam "I love old men" finished secondary school. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 8:58am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Acidosis:Nah, you can't be so sure, why did the man not go for his agemate or marry the single mother if he liked her that much. Stop trying to look for a way to pass the blame to the lady, she is innocent in all these, by the way, love knows no age. For some, the older the better. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by vivypretty(f): 9:01am On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM:speak for yourself and stop judging all men by your low standard. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Randy100: 9:02am On Feb 08, 2020 |
faithfull18:I agree with you 100% but a woman who wants her marriage to work will make it to work. Proverb 14 vs 1 |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Vyolet(f): 9:04am On Feb 08, 2020 |
faithfull18:She survived it, how? She may be negative all along. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 9:09am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet:She did, She tested positive at the beginning and was on antiretroviral drugs, the man's family abandoned her despite knowing their son was the one who infected her. But you know God is ever merciful, this is one of the cases I saw faith work, God did see her heart and innocence and He came through for her. This is a true life story not hearsay. 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 9:16am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Randy100:Marriage is a joint venture. Women have suffered in this life. If one party is arranging and the other is scattering, how will it work God help singles not to marry their enemies. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Vyolet(f): 9:20am On Feb 08, 2020 |
faithfull18:I'm not disputing what God can do, he is that merciful and powerful but hope you know that prolong use of ARVs will make the virus undetectable and the victim would test negative as a matter of fact, the victim may not be able to infect another person during that period. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Randy100: 9:20am On Feb 08, 2020 |
faithfull18:Amen |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by faithfull18(f): 9:24am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Vyolet:I don't think she takes the drugs anymore. This should be over 15years now. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by LadySarah: 9:48am On Feb 08, 2020 |
If not for one thing I'd say God punish him. I won't forget the Benue woman that died of Aids contracted by his womanizer of a spouse. In future when you can't give birth he will blame you. Tell him to marry the si gle mum now he will say God forbid! What does the men want sef? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by LadySarah: 9:53am On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM: I hope you remember this when your daughters bring such complaints to you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by sisisioge: 9:53am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Madam...you need to pull yourself together and work on your mental health since the physical health as been taken care. You have decided to stay...then stay without making a jombee out of yourself... Hopefully, he won't toy with HIV next time. I'm sorry...your life is in your hands. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by bukatyne(f): 10:31am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Acidosis: This is funny. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by bukatyne(f): 10:35am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Dominiondominio: Aunty, If you can't have kids (according to the doctor), please start planning of adoption now. If you can with medical treatments, please start now. Also decide if you still want the marriage. Goodluck. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 10:43am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Acidosis: You know little about real life 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 10:50am On Feb 08, 2020 |
What's happened, has happened In my opinion, that marriage isn't worth its salt. Not only did he cheat, he also gave you a nasty infection with complications. He's definitely the enemy within, and you've been sleeping with the enemy The cheating will continue. Facts. And possibly with same woman and others too. Do you want children with such a man? With regards to procreating, it's still very possible. If your tubes aren't both damaged, pregnancy may still occur naturally. Otherwise, you have the option of IVF. Your risks of ectopic pregnancy has probably gone up too, if I may add. He did you dirty, real dirty. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by yeyeosoronga: 10:55am On Feb 08, 2020 |
What's even more bewildering is the fact that this man knew he had gonorrhea, treated himself and kept mum to his wife . He didnt even have the decency to get her treated, even if it's under the guise of lies such as it's an old infection which was discovered incidentally when he went for routine medicals or something. He treated himself and kept quiet about it. That one can kill o 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Skengman: 10:59am On Feb 08, 2020 |
You are too young to go thro this, pls. No woman or man should be advised to remain with an unfaithful partner. First of all, forgive him, then, pray to God for direction if you are a Christian. Be strong, don’t let an undeserving man ruin u. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by obotblitz(m): 2:47pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Nigeria, my con3. the cheating capital of the world. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Bear007(m): 2:47pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
The worst thing to do as a man is sex married woman.. And by the way, if he promised to have repent... Please always leave condoms in his pocket so that he won't bring terminal disease for you. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by missimelda01(f): 2:50pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM: This is so wrong on every ground, a godly man doesn't think this way. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by katyamizotta: 2:50pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM: I dont think the average Caucasian male will agree with this nature 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Enemyofpeace: 2:53pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
There is love in sharing jo. That is why it is called for better for worse. |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by Jaqenhghar: 2:53pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
MANGAM:Funny enough if the woman is your daughter you wont sit her down to tell her this horseshit 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by azadus18: 2:54pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
dis nearly brought me to tears...dis ar d things we want for Fp..not "hear d sound of tasha's fart in d kichen" 1 Like |
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