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Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by vezycash(m): 11:35pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
OceanOfJoy: Speak for yourself. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by DNSPro: 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
HitSong:ask ur dick |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by HolyTitus(m): 11:40pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Davash222:for your mind and at this age, you still think all cars are meant to be serviced, right 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by foleskay(m): 11:44pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
I guess she knows that since you're out of the country, you aren't coming back soon so the need to block you. She guessed maybe you've moved on in abroad that you re. If you still like her try reason with her, call her and explain things to her, hopefully she might wait for you. But I doubt it due to her age factor. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Octopusssy(f): 11:44pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
HitSong:This is an incredibly stupid question to ask, but to indulge that stupidity a little, go through my post history and find out if I have typed anything reasonable in the past. Dumbo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Davash222:My guy just shut the hell up. Must everything relate to sex? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:53pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: 10/10 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by March1117(m): 12:04am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Prec1ous: BadT guy! |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by shogsman(m): 12:07am On Feb 26, 2020 |
To be honest, you're the fool in this story,what were you expecting, you don't wanna have a relationship and you still wanna lurk around her for what.girls got better things to focus on,you're definitely not her only choice. 10 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 12:15am On Feb 26, 2020 |
vickydevoka:There's everything wrong with it, especially when you know she so much wants something more than friendship. This guy can't eat his cake and have it back He chose his career, why is he feeling sad that she blocked him? 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 12:21am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Only her knows why she blocked you. You might just be those kind of friend she wanted to cut off but cos of proximity and work she had to continue relating . immediately you left na, she said good riddance to bad rubbish.. OR You are those nonsense kind of guys that keep flirting and confusing her head... You don't want a relationship but would be flirting upandan, checking on her upandan...saying suggestive things and maybe go and gossip to other colleagues that she likes you.... So immediately you left her space, she remembered James 1:8 and said rather than deal with your here and there. She should kukuma help you make the permanent decision... OR She is weaning herself off you.. And this nonsense advice you are forming here Talk true e pain you... You pulled away and somehow you are expecting her to pull closer...mtchewww...she did exactly what I would have done... You try to form space, o give you plenty space.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by darediamond(m): 12:21am On Feb 26, 2020 |
GamalNasser:PRACTICALLY!! |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by wizkidblogger(f): 12:34am On Feb 26, 2020 |
You're sounding "pained" and you narrated the story as if na she dey rush you 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by lekonso: 12:34am On Feb 26, 2020 |
She did the right thing. You want to be playing on her emotions when you are not ready for marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by puremaker7(m): 12:34am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Mariangeles:but your own journey to this world began with sex |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by safarigirl(f): 1:00am On Feb 26, 2020 |
At 34, you are still taking pride in the fact that you are unmarried and still not ready to settle down 34 Do you think you are a small boy? You clearly sound like one, but in what world do you think you have time for these shenanigans? A man your age that isn't ready to settle down, but is still gallivanting is unserious and should rightly be dropped. You are still feeling too big to be left, at your old age. At this rate, na your pension you go dey use pay school fees. Better go and marry, old man. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Vicyace: 1:27am On Feb 26, 2020 |
tiwiex: That's another angle and viewpoint. IMO, I don't class that as a strange behaviour. When you have deep feelings for someone and it becomes clearer and glaring that you and that person are never gonna be an item, I think the best thing is to let go and cut loose the other party in other to focus on a more promising future with someone else. Personally, I don't keep close friendship with someone I have deep feeling for or would have preferred to date. It's not healthy. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Rexnegro(m): 1:32am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Davash222:this is a conclusive tots bro u can't too sure of what ladies want precisely... the op knows better what exactly transpired between them. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 1:33am On Feb 26, 2020 |
she blocked u on her social media cos she dont want to be seeing your facebook pixs.so i dont know which one come dey pain u inside 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by SSam01: 1:51am On Feb 26, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 1:55am On Feb 26, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:how people keep in touch with their exes baffles me . Not that I hold a grudge o if we see outside we will greet and go our separate ways but having you on my social Media is a no no. What will we be chatting about ? Our past relationships or current ones? Now back to the op, both of you are of marriageble age ,you are 34 and she is 35. Let's be honest with ourselves, she wanted more from you ,she wanted proper commitment but you had other plans . It's only one thing to do ,cut it off, you said it yourself that you were never interested in her, so oga wetin come be your problem? oh so you want her to keep hanging on waiting for something that never was? This is her own way of weaning herself off you,it's not as if the two of you ever dated ,right now she sees you as " the one that got away" . There is no point constantly being reminded of that on her timeline everyday on social media.Her social media accounts are her personal space,she deserves all the sanity she can get that doesn't mean she is a hater. You are just being self centered and a nag. Someone is trying to protect her self and move on ,here you are whining about how guys should cut it off first.All I see from this post is a guy with a bruised ego,you are 34, stop acting like a manchild. 11 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Yuneehk(f): 1:57am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Vicyace: Aptly put. What you wrote is exactly what I feel the lady thought through and decided to do. It doesn't mean she's not hurting or she liked what she did. It's only natural that she puts herself first and does what she knows is best for her. In this case, it's cutting ALL ties which will help her move on faster. He expected her to still be stuck but she moved on too quickly and he's pained. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Yuneehk(f): 2:00am On Feb 26, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 2:22am On Feb 26, 2020 |
fairfora:your case is one in a million. As you can see the op is egotistical and full of himself so the outcome is likely to go sour. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 2:32am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Mreazi121:isn't the bolded supposed to be common sense to guys tho . Why waste her time and lead her on if you are not a demon 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:52am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Some still keep in touch though, they even attend each other's marriages, different strokes, for different folks. frenzyduchess: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:55am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Her true colors is showing? I don't think you are right, hasn't she been friends with him for 3yrs? What's if she is hurting, does not know how to manage the situation or be healed from it. tiwiex: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:00am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Wow, if only things work out positively all the time. If she waited for him, I don't think he would have considered her as his first choice of marriage partner, he doesn't sound like he had deep emotions for her, he would only have kept her as a SIDE OPTION/SECOND OPTION. fairfora: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 3:02am On Feb 26, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:I have been invited twice, congratulated them and didn't bother saving their contact. How people out of nowhere send their exes wedding invitations when you have not even been on talking terms is absurd. Like do you expect me to spend money to attend your wedding? Cos atleast I must make new hair and transport myself to the venue that one on it's own is incured expenses on my part. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:06am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Most ladies do not like to attend their exes weddings so you are correct, personally, I like to reduce closeness as much as possible if one is an ex. frenzyduchess: 1 Like |
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