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Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Prec1ous(m): 9:31am On Feb 26, 2020 |
ngwababe: Do you want to be my friend? |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by JustinOwen(m): 9:33am On Feb 26, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Mogajunior(m): 9:38am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Simply put.. You want to eat your cake and have it. I really love ladies with high self worth for knowing that she's threading in the wrong direction and quickly making amends. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by ngwababe(f): 9:41am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Prec1ous(m): 9:44am On Feb 26, 2020 |
ngwababe: Oya respond to my message. Since you know my secret. You are safe. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by wisdomkid: 9:59am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Smile4mee01:You did the right thing. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by themaestro08(m): 10:20am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Prec1ous: Doesn't applies to every lady. Some prefer you be straightforward and tell them your mind. Its better. Its either she says no or yes. It saves time and energy. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by suaveBrother(m): 10:22am On Feb 26, 2020 |
... respect to op for being focused. you stated your priorities early before any misinterpretation ... ...cutting you off social media from her part I think was not neccessary. maybe it's her way of forgetting her feelings for you ... ... out of sight out of mind or absence makes the heart grow fonder ... meself I'm confused ... |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by themaestro08(m): 10:25am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Davash222: Shut the hell up man!... Probably the young ain't interested in that wretched pussy of hers... He needs only friendship, nothing more. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by themaestro08(m): 10:30am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Another unintelligent bitch drawing conclusions on something she knew nothing about... How do you know hr is pestering her? I wonder what you bitches feel like.... Trash. |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Katier00(f): 10:41am On Feb 26, 2020 |
jidxin:you are entitled to your opinion |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Acidosis(m): 11:05am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Smile4mee01: She's 35? That means you're 34? And still confused as to what to do with your life? |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by oazeez1991(m): 11:54am On Feb 26, 2020 |
As far as I'm concern, u don't av 2 blame d lady 4 her acts. We are ol human nd our reaction 2 situation varies, most especially d female species, dey are way emotional dan we are. Dia is high tendency she wanted marriage 4rm u, albeit her age, nd since u cudn't offer it, den u av no need blaming her ova her way of cutting u off her life. U only sound been selfish ova not considerin her feelings, but mkin ur focus be on her action (blocking u). If dat's her best way of moving on nd getin hold of herself ova d feelings she has been nursing 4 u, den it's fair on her side. U don't smell wat u know u wudn't eat. Women nature emotionally is flexible, dey tend d love wif d whole of dia heart shud wen dey meet d man of dia dream. Our approach in tackling situation varies nd shud be understandable. It's best u respect her decision nd not blame her. Let's even assume she only wanted 2 trap u in2 marrying her, nd since it's obvious u wudn't succumb 2 it or fall into her trap, no big deal on her part by cutting u off her life so getin 2 see u on social media won't bring back d feelings she was trying 2 lose or affect her decision of trying 2 move on. Regardless of ur gender, we ol are prone 2 getin emotionally down nd depress in situation wia dose we love or av feelings 4 suddenly leave our life. We might be fighting d urge of moving on, but we still getting 2 be in touch wif dem or avin smtin who reminds us abt dem do mk d journey of moving on quite difficult. So, it is understandable shud we device an idea dat will help our recuperation phase, but unjust 2 criticize odaz who tend 2 use an approach different 4rm d one we use or know in our own situation. My POV thou! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by crackkhaus: 11:57am On Feb 26, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:I have always known you have limited mental abilities because I don't see how this rant of yours is related to my comment to that other guy. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 12:02pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:nobody dey agree say e shit dey smell. Go back and read what you wrote. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Xmen149(m): 12:14pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Apus: you have finished work,.I decided to be reading only but this your sense brought me out its this kind of person(op) that will be doing friend/bestie knowing fully well she had feelings for her and end up taking advantage of it under the topic "we didn't know when it happened" it's not a crime to like someone but if the friendship is not defined (even amongst dudes) then am not doing dey your lane. I won loud am here as I have severally,.WHEN YOU ARE LIKING SOMEONE AND GETTING TOGETHET GET IT DEFINED(eg,fuuckmate,flirt,co worker,we date 6months if we find each other worthy I come see your people etc) with the person TO AVOID ALOT OF THINGS like heartbreak,over expectations,sniping and stabbing play boys will be like let's see how it goes or be shouting bestie and be f*ing her behind the serious boyfriend again if ua too close to a lady and she settled for another person please terminate it,.if she needs help let her talk to a counsellor,once she starts confiding in you instead of her husband it's only a matter of time b4 you start f*ing her or mess up her marriage by proxy getting mushy mushy with serious people is a risky game people should be sure b4 they play 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by crackkhaus: 12:22pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:Perhaps you're the one who should go back to read my comment, then tell me exactly what was in there that made you type that incoherent rant-filled response about Nairaland guys, or men who impregnate mad women, or men who you think are feeling themselves. Are you okay at all? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 12:28pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:I should be asking you if you are cos I don't even see why you had to say Nigerian ladies look like smeagol your head dey touch . 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by crackkhaus: 12:31pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:I don't remember typing that, but let's assume I did, are you the appointed spokesperson who rants on behalf of all Smeagol-looking women? |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 12:33pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:you don't remember typing that but the comment is still there na, now it's my turn to ask if you are ok at all? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Apus: 12:50pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Xmen149: Thank you sir! I even love how you put it in context. Couldn't have said it better. Let those who have ears hear.... Bless you sir!! |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by crackkhaus: 12:55pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:Don't be dense. I know what I typed, I'm saying that your interpretation of it is not what was written. You can go quote the post again, then highlight where I stated Nigerian women look like smeagol. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Switch07(m): 12:57pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
eduman365: So selfish of her when I saw the comment I didn't want to say anything before she start trolling insult they were just friends nothing more |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by stormborn28(m): 1:03pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
xendra:hmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:05pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:my friend you better shut up if you don't know what you wrote then go have your brain checked. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by crackkhaus: 1:12pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:I am not your friend, and you must never quote me again to rant about your insecurities when no one is talking to you. Reptile... 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Switch07:I think she got emotional cos she has probably been thru something similar, that was why I didn't apply aggression in my response as well. Las las, na woman we go all marry, but make dem no rush us. That wonderful life they all want is what we are all working hard to give them, the future kids and ourselves. A marriage without happiness and wealth is a boring marriage. I hope they'll understand that life's timetable isn't fixed by anyone but God. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Ladycewhy(f): 1:40pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:I will quote you when I like,if you don't want, deactivate. Aquatic animal 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by golddeejay(m): 3:50pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Prec1ous:I always wonder how people keep ladies they are interested in as friends. It is you are a potential kill or not. I have blocked some some girls on social media and moved on, some of my friends think i am impatient and weird. I am of the thinking if i have a slim chance, you are not the girl for me or you are strongly with someone else, there is no need keeping you around and hoping. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by jidxin(m): 5:34pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Katier00:its not my opinion that's the full version. We usually omit that part |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by DedeNkem: 5:55pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Is marriage a must? So a man and a woman can't have intimate relationship without it ending into marriage? She probably wanted a boyfriend she could f*uck whenever she wants. That she has reached marriageable age doesn't mean she wants to marry you! Guy, you be maga o! Why should she maintain contact with a loser? She has moved on! |
Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by IWillSueYou(m): 6:13pm On Feb 26, 2020 |
Looking at it objectively with no female bias, she did the right thing. Is self-centeredness a bad thing? No. If you didn't want to commit, she has to move on. She cannot compartmentalize at this point, because she only gets hurt emotionally. She's already acknowledge she's not getting what she wants from the "friendship" which is heading nowhere, so why are you angry? 1 Like |
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