I will comment after I finish eating. Lala pls join me.

I doubt his affection for you. A man that wants serious relationship would not act that way. That is a red flag! forget good ride and nice house. You deserve more. May God direct your heart.

Candycrushy:

So you have been sleeping with all the girls visiting you...should i say they are insane for visiting you .

u see yoursef, u are misjudging me 4 just saying d obvious facts.

Liposure:
u see yoursef, u are misjudging me 4 just saying d obvious facts.

You already described yourself in your prev. Comment.

Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

I’m surprised ur still asking Ofcourse he doesn’t want anything serious beside Sex, what do u think when he acting like a sex starved maniac. Is that how sm1 who wants Smtn serious behaves? Ask urself?? If u want fun u and tango Bt if u want Smtn serious and sensible better run and look elsewhere cos by the time this guy is done with u u might be wasted goods. The only serious thing he wants with u is sex and probably drugs.

He has a good car and house doesn’t equate to being responsible. Kindly note that.

Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

You hardly know this guy and yet you went to his house? He almost raped you and yet you still want to consider going into a relationship with him?
God help you.

Someone is a player, he even made it glanced and u are asking these kind questions

Candycrushy:

You already described yourself in your prev. Comment.

babe, me saying d facts doesnt mean am a bad boy. Am just being real. As a Matter of fact, i cherish women a whole lot. Dont get me wrong

onlinetomola:
Wetin ! Dis your write up too long to read abeg... But make I yarn according to d topic wey I fit read. Shey you inform us before you waka go there ?

mad oh did one enter

You and the guy are just childish

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FrLukas:
If you go back to him mimie you will be raped badly.

In fact, he will likely drug your drink before raping you.

If you get in a relationship with him, it will be an abusive one.

You already know these otherwise you won't bring this here.

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FrLukas:


It is that lack of self control that makes him her potential rapist and maybe rapist if she decides to be foolish and go back there

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I will say just run, if he can't control his emotion then he is not a man....

I have two things to say
1, you are a good writer and I admire your writing skills

2,that guy is very weak in bed.he's among the 10 seconds crew and you would have been very disappointed if you've allowed him, because, he won't be able to satisfy you after he's satisfied

SKINDOGGY:
mad oh did one enter

lol

Liposure:
babe, me saying d facts doesnt mean am a bad boy. Am just being real. As a Matter of fact, i cherish women a whole lot. Dont get me wrong

Really...all good
Buy that doesn't deny the fact that this act of guys always wanting to sex every and any girl they meet for the very first time is right, its totally wrong
There's sth called self control.

Davash222:
"He has a nice ride and nice house"



Na that nice ride and house go kee you! Aside kpekus, what else can you offer a guy with a nice ride and house
There lies the answer to your question.

Practically nothing. Nothing to offer safe the ....

[STOP PRETENDING, IF HE HAS A NICE RIDE AND A NICE HOUSE,
WHY CAN'T YOU GIVE HIM A NICE Bleep BECOS U HAVE A NICE PUSSY TOO

please use your discretion, the guy might have good intention.

Toluwarnih:
he might nt be a rapist because a rapist wont wait 4 a 2nd chance, his intentions are yet unknown, he might only lack self control

put your sister in the same scenario and lets see if you will allow her to wait for 2 chance.

The next time you will visit his house, he will rape you if you don't submit willingly.
Thank God he didn't rape.
That man is not for real, he wants you as f*ck mate. So decides what you want.

I would really love to hang out with you, I don’t know about you but I could really need a friend right now

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Afamed:

Practically nothing. Nothing to offer safe the ....

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It’s the toughest challenge because they can be shallow in thinking. They have not depth. The only thing making her to contemplate dating him is the nice car and nice house after all he did to her.

proclinician:
He has a nice car and a nice house. Hmmm what if he was a ritual killer na like this u for just go. To raise a daughter may seem the toughest challenge of my lifetime.

Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

The truth lies within your heart dear

Blu03:
Op
You want a serious relationship. Take your time and re_read all you've written if the guy in question can give you that.
Honestly, you do not need anyone to tell you he's interested in sex alone.
Quit playing with fire... Drop the sex starved fellow like a hot pot.

Why? She said she’s sex starved too

oshaosha2014:
It’s the toughest challenge because they can be shallow in thinking. They have not depth. The only thing making her to contemplate dating him is the nice car and nice house after all he did to her.

Just imagine brother. After all the red flags initially the girl agreed to go to the house because she saw a nice car. How can parents possible instill good virtues in the girl child? It is difficult.

girl if that guy dic*k get into ur puss*y walahi na der u go know say all men are desame ....

Candycrushy:

Really...all good
Buy that doesn't deny the fact that this act of guys always wanting to sex every and any girl they meet for the very first time is right, its totally wrong
There's sth called self control.

dats true. Everything is not about sex

all of una way be guy and una de spoil this guy paroles and brotherhood code go judge una oo

sexylassie2:


Don't be pained if we woman do not want broke guys in our lives, we don't want them because they are liabilities, the car might attract her but the idiot of a man do not know how to sweet talk a lady.

He think, he is entitled to sex just because he has a car and apartment.

What do u mean by BROKE Guys? Explain pls

Just do all you can do as a parent and pray for them. They have their own mistakes to make too, just like you the parent. Many of them come back to the good values you have taught them after making many mistakes. And some, they are just lost to every worldly vices you can find, despite all your efforts as parent. YOU CANT BLAME YOURSELF.

proclinician:


Just imagine brother. After all the red flags initially the girl agreed to go to the house because she saw a nice car. How can parents possible instill good virtues in the girl child? It is difficult.