RisenPhoenix:


RideS. You forgot that I want more.

Oliver twist ngwanu o! Na you go still tire!

Michelle55:
Not worth it... Just stick to one because one woman is enough problem already,why are you trying to die young by having massive heartaches?

PS: and if you must become polygamous, make it 3 instead of 2... Because when those two will gang up against you, the 3rd will snitch on them to become your top priority and favorite heard this secret from one baddest grandpa in my area

So I was planning for two b4, so I will make it 3 then, good one from u..
Thanks..�

Michelle55:
Not worth it... Just stick to one because one woman is enough problem already,why are you trying to die young by having massive heartaches?

PS: and if you must become polygamous, make it 3 instead of 2... Because when those two will gang up against you, the 3rd will snitch on them to become your top priority and favorite heard this secret from one baddest grandpa in my area

A man will be in best position to answer this because there's hardly any woman who will want her man to marry another whether it's advantageous or not

It's very dangerous for your life, your wive's life and your children's life. In a whole day you can lose all you think you have accumulated due to Polygamy. It's not today it started but since the beginning of the world. Gideon had 70 sons but one from his concubine, Abimelech killed them all in one day. Remember David and his son who raped Tamar? what about queen Athaliah who killed all her husband's kids so she can rule? there are several examples around us, people who can't progress, those who die untimely, so many examples of waywardness due to polygamy. It's just like a deathtrap for many who get involved in it

Bro I completely disagree with you, sometimes a nagging and disrespectful wife can lead a man into polygamy, when the woman discovers there is a rival especially when the rival also have kids for you, they tend to behave so she doesn't get thrown out.....

drmikeadams:
. It is only a foolish man that will still engage himself in the yoke of polygamy in dis century ,,u marry two or more wives then u create problems and rivalry between the wives and children. Then the foolish man will die without putting the family in order,,,then there will be fuji house of commotion when the man is gone

Men should stop allowing their erection become their directions in life

akan102:

If you say "No"
Please what are your reasons

His mummy probably told him so. And the lady he is aspiring to make his his gf doesn't support it.

Smartbrainfix:
No advantage in having two wives, especially if they live in the same house with their children, how much more, more than two!. Man is polygamous by nature and as such will desire to have another woman in bed at the slightest opportunity. That said, If you are so desirous of having more than one woman at the same time where your cultural, religious or family practices pushes or permits you to do so, think of the consequences. However, if doing 'that thing' is the reason you are looking for polygamy, look for women who will agree to be your mistress on terms.

Please are you trying to say that the only reason men marry more than one wife is because of the sex?

RisenPhoenix:


Ned Nwoko is happy. Go see his smiling pics all over the internet.

IMO marrying an even number of wives portends its own problems as they will constantly be on eachothers necks.
The ideal number should be 1,3,5 and so on.
This allows for rotational gang up amongst them and free you from excessive headaches.
You sef think am.

EJanni:

Oliver twist ngwanu o! Na you go still tire!

That is why I am managing only one for the meantime. I want to lay a solid financial foundation. According to plan, my wife has me to herself for just 4 more years.

It is very good if the woman has her own money and can milk enough from the man.

Taking care of a grown man alone is too much stress. If you have co-wives to share it with, you can have enough time for yourself and sideguys.

He wouldn’t be looking for you upandan, because the other wives would be at his beck and call.

bomsilaga:

IMO marrying an even number of wives portends its own problems as they will constantly be on eachothers necks.
The ideal number should be 1,3,5 and so on.
This allows for rotational gang up amongst them and free you from excessive headaches.
You sef think am.

Nah it doesn't really matter. What matters is that you control your household. Whether one or one hundred, if they see you are in control, they will not dare to cause trouble. Women are natural troublemakers, but they know their limits very well. You only have to ensure that you set those limits from day 1 of marriage. The problem is that in modern society, from day 1 to after one child, the men are still doing love love while their wives are the one setting limits for them.

It's a mentality thing.. atleast 60% of married men have side chicks even with the hardship so

RisenPhoenix:


Ned Nwoko is happy. Go see his smiling pics all over the internet.

Ned is not clean, but won't go further. I pray we will witness what will happen in his household when he departs. You're joking with polygamy? if you're a Christian, I hope you realize that it's the reason Islam was formed. Today, how is the world enjoying our Muslim brethren existence?(I mean the extremists amongst them)

Apart from those who desire a large family, which one woman cannot exactly give you

There is mo other TANGIBLE ADVANTAGE OF POLYGAMY

That's my view anyways

It's for those who want the kids

party at least, if it's one of your fantasy

RisenPhoenix:


He can marry the rest of the wives the same way he married the first one. It has nothing to do with greed. That is only what Africa Magic teaches and what feminists use to dissuade men from taking their monopoly over the husband from them.

Saying it is due to greed is actually contradictory. In fact, polygamy requires great responsibility and sacrifice on the part of the husband. A greedy person will conversely, still sleep with the same number of women; but without taking over their responsibility the way a polygamist would.

[b]Paint it all you want, justify it with Islam or any other religion if u like, use the adjective “responsible” to make it look good all you want....if u like, even say polygamy is reducing the number of single women...to make it look like a humanitarian stunt.
Take it or leave it...you cannot marry many wives and not be greedy... weda u are keeping them outside under adultery like some men do, or u formally bring ur greed home and add more to the women in the name of polygamous marriage.... it doesn't change the fact that u had a wife at home and u were lusting after another outside...until u formalized ur lust and added more lust later...

Wait how do U people even do it if you are polygamous anyway....does it even look right or feel right?? Entering one pvssy today, enter another tomorrow, enter the next perhaps the same the day.....looks like a script from a highly corrupt film writter.....
How do women even cope psychological receiving dic from another pvssy...when it’s not pornographyy...[/b]

1StopRudeness:


I just asked Dangote and Atiku.....they both said it’s cool and they have peace of mind

Who says?

mignone:

Who says?

I said Dangote and Atiku and u are still asking who says....don’t u know them?

Having more than 1 wife is a good thing if only the man will be able to take care of them both equally without being partial.

Look around in your area, find me like 5 men that married more than 1 wife and died young....Men with more than one wife tend to live long....

Mizwisdom:



Ned is not clean, but won't go further. I pray we will witness what will happen in his household when he departs. You're joking with polygamy? if you're a Christian, I hope you realize that it's the reason Islam was formed. Today, how is the world enjoying our Muslim brethren existence?(I mean the extremists amongst them)

No I am not an adherent of any organized religiosities, but I believe that Islam has a lot more good about it than polygamy, which prejudiced bigotry may not let you see.

And muslim extremism has nothing to do with polygamy. Polygamy existed long before Islam or Christianity and was the norm. It was the Church that unnaturally proscribed it. Those who oppose polygamy can not usually find any logical reason for doing so. Perhaps you can do the honour? And I no longer believe in the truth of your bible so please don't quote the 'one flesh' verse that christians always rely on.

tete7000:


What can you make of this passage of Matthew 16:

“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
Matthew 19:4‭-‬6 NIV

Abi you know more than Christ, the Son of God?

Please note the bolded :
1.Singular male and female
2.Two, not three not four, not five
3.a man (singular) united to his wife (singular), not wives (plural)

That's why i cautioned against long grammar. The verse you qouted, does it unequivocally say you cannot marry two wives?

It does not have at all, infact it's unscriptural.

1StopRudeness:


Paint it all you want, justify it with Islam or any other religion if u like, use the adjective “responsible” to make it look good all you want....if u like say polygamybis reducing the number of single women....Take it or leave it...you cannot marry many wives and not be greedy... weda u are keeping them outside under adultery like some men do, or u formally bring ur greed home and add more to the women in the name of polygamous marriage.... it doesn't change the fact that u had a wife at home and u were lusting after another outside...until u formalized ur lust and added more lust later...

Wait how do U people even do it if you are polygamous anyway....does it even look right or feel right?? Entering one pvssy today, enter another tomorrow, enter the next perhaps the same the day.....looks like a script from a highly corrupt film writter.....
How do women even cope psychological receiving dic from another pvssy...when it’s not pornographyy...

Wow. Bolding your pointless assertion makes it so very convincing. I have seen the light. Now please go away.

Certainly as the saying goes, "To every disadvantage there is a corresponding advantage" but I haven't given it any thought though. Haven said that, destiny certainly defers; it might be of great advantage to one and.... Y'know.
But due to our African women's attitude there tend to be more known disadvantages of polygamy than advantages. Like my guy up there said.... Better have mistress than second wife. (That saying comes with lot of real life experience)
Even Jesus never had any wife; talk more having 2wives.... My brother I will like to be your lawyer!

RisenPhoenix:


Untrue. STDs are spread via indiscriminate extra marital sex, never through faithful polygamy.

with more than one wife is not extra abi?

enemyofprogress:
with more than one wife is not extra abi?

I didn't say extra. I said extra marital.

"Extra marital"; outside the confines of a legally and/or culturally acceptable marriage contract.

Polygamy is a legally and/or socially acceptable marriage to more than one spouse.

in case u dont know, polygamy breeds jealousy, conflict, discord, hatred among families involved. dis in itself hinders u from enjoying benefit of marrying more dan one wife

RisenPhoenix:


That is why I am managing omly one for the meantime. I want to lay a solid financial foundation. According to plan, my wife has me to herself for just 4 more years.

oga live me alone! Whatever you choose for yourself is non of my business. Meanwhile, more strength to your amu

NextD18:
One of the Advantages I know is that; The nagging and bad-mannerisms will be lesser as there will be competition between the wives to impress you with good characters and doings.


This is only if you are RICH!

Rich men don't have nagging wives bruh...

RisenPhoenix:


Wow. Bolding your pointless assertion makes it so very convincing. I have seen the light. Now please go away.

Pointless....?? I know ur kind...it’s better not dialogue with you as u have suggested...peace man

RisenPhoenix:


No I am not an adherent of any organized religiosities, but I believe that Islam has a lot more good about it than polygamy, which prejudiced bigotry may not let you see.

And muslim extremism has nothing to do with polygamy. Polygamy existed long before Islam or Christianity and was the norm. It was the Church that unnaturally proscribed it. Those who oppose polygamy can not usually find any logical reason for doing so. Perhaps you can do the honour? And I no longer believe in the truth of your bible so please don't quote the 'one flesh' verse that christians always rely on.

Yes, agreed most of us including myself have grandparents who were polygamous, I must tell you it isn't something pleasurable in most cases but if you feel that's the best life for you please go ahead

barnny:
Does Marrying More Than One Wife In Anyway Has Advantage?

Please let's discuss and learn from different ethnic background if marrying more than a wife in anyway has advantage, disadvantage or either ways. I'm sure people from polygamous family might have learnt one or two lessons that will/might make them conclude that marrying more than a wife is a no no for them. While some believe there are still benefits in marrying more than one wife.

Note: this discussion is open for both Christians and Muslims including the atheist as far as we are here to learn, unlearn and relearn

Yes oh. We should be asking:

Are there advantages in marrying more than 2 wives because more than 1 is every man's wish and calling