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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by bcbones: 4:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
Make hay while the sun shine, even water for fire go cool one day or even dry up if the heat too much, not to reggae tone your blues o. But ask Grandma she was once on �. cheesy



Lamanii22:




Abi... Mo n hot lowo (I'm hot ATM) loooool.. KO EASY RARA
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Lamanii22(f): 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
bcbones:
Make hay while the sun shine, even water for fire go cool one day or even dry up if the heat too much, not to reggae tone your blues o. But ask Grandma she was once on �. cheesy





I know right... Thank you so much for your advice.. I really appreciate you Hun...

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Moneywell(f): 4:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Pls my fellow naira landers, a friend needs ur help; she wants to surprise her hubby with calls from radio stations . Pls which radio station does this and how do we go about it?
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Peterosky(m): 5:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

I assure you that was not my intention
.Trust me, you owe nobody any explanation. Brotherly, there is no particular place where it is designated for one to find love or wife. The implication is that you can find your wife or love even in your parlour, church, school, office, shop,market place, including among your employees. So if you have true feelings for this girl,go for her. Forget what some persons are saying that you are about ruining your business. It is not true. A good girl is a good girl whether or not she works for you. Many have married their employees and their businesses are up and doing till date.The only thing to do is to make her understand that for the relationship to be productive, she must continue to give her best to the business with the mindset that she may possibly become your future wife, let her know that one of the reasons you are in love with her is contributions to the growth of your business. And above all,commit every thing to the hands of God.Trust me, the relationship and the business will go on well. That it didn't work Mr A doesn't make it a generally acceptable law in the department of love seeking. Do not let a girl with this wonderful qualities elude you. You regret later.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.
To start with you have one of the most deplorable monikers here that marks you out as an irresponsible fellow.
Secondly are you asking her out to where?
She is already in your shop, if you want to settle down I believe she has shown you more than enough greenlight in a sacrificial way. All you need to do is to get to know her better and marry or do you intend using and dumping someone's daughter? At your age a larger chunk of your mates are happily married.
If you are still playing girlfriend then it's a pity.
I doubt If you are even good enough for her.

Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Waper2(m): 5:04pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
Sharp mouth �
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by OOLUSOGA(m): 5:07pm On Apr 09, 2020
Bros l have taking my time to read almost all the response on your post. Something just strike my mind the question is what of if this girl changed after marriage knowing fully she is now in the business. Do you think about this? Remember, she is responsible to you not as your worker but your wife. But think deep. If she changed tomorrow will your business not suffer. That is just my widow's mite. I wish you the best.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by scify364(m): 5:16pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.
You are doing well but I learnt something while growing up and at work always be professional when it comes to making a living because your emotions can cause your downfall. Read how great men in the bible fell. Na woman cause am.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Adebowalay(m): 5:32pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
;Dmadddeeesssttt grin grin grin
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Legendguru: 5:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
Then go out
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Rex777: 6:02pm On Apr 09, 2020
Pray about it
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by X0012(m): 6:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
Bro take this good advice


LawBreaker:
Don't date. Only marry her. And you should get straight to marry. I repeat, if you date her you will regret it.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by PDPGuy: 6:56pm On Apr 09, 2020
If I were you, I would just let her be. I don't fancy dating a subordinate or co-worker.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Arinola1990(m): 6:58pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
you are good to go, seat her down and let her know ur feelings for her
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by donogaga(m): 7:03pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin

Bad girl.

You are damn blunt.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by holysaint1(m): 7:11pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

All I can say is, if you 're really interested in her, then stop her from coming to your shop. And wife her.

But if she works as an employee for you, then it might not end well for the biz.. Cause emotions and business don't go hand in hand. (I.e they are two opposite sides )
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by placeofallure(f): 7:14pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

13 years younger than you, so? Age means nothing where matters of the heart are concerned. I married a man who is twelve years older and trust me, I am enjoying matrimony, never had it sooooo good. The only thing is if you're serious about marrying her let it be because you really love her, not for business purposes alone. She can't be in your shop forever.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by wjxavier(m): 7:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
Oya rewrite this statement and say

I have great admiration for my employee

It’s not love. Ok?
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by biggy26: 7:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
xendra:
you too like amebo grin
they got married, but the girl was starting to hear things and was losing hope, she calls my friend everyday to get words of advise cheesy +the guy don try to convince tire, he just had to rush things.
Xendra, you are finding trouble o. Why will you start something that you won't finish?grin
Anyway, the story is sweet, happily ever after.
Hope they have children now sha?
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
U said she do cook for you? pls make sure she is not doing eye service, then tell her or help her find another job "u dont miss business with pleasure"
then you ask her out.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Dukewilliee: 8:02pm On Apr 09, 2020
Just get to know her more(family, lifestyle, etc) and pray about it.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by stormborn28(m): 8:57pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
kai!!!! Nawa oooooo...

Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Purifiedsoul: 9:06pm On Apr 09, 2020
What if you ask her out and she reject? What will you do? Sack her?
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by susuces4all(m): 9:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
Pls pray for confirmation, if not from the look of things she is the one you need to be a complete man. Make haste while its day
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by CsRockefeller(m): 9:17pm On Apr 09, 2020
susuces4all:
Pls pray for confirmation, if not from the look of things she is the one you need to be a complete man. Make haste while its day

You guys take this pray about it too serious, haba!!

Do u know that u can get the best of wife without prayers?

Stop disturbing heaven with such frivolities. If everyone does what is right we would all get perfect partners, and if u notice sth is amiss, you move on.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by freethesheeple(m): 9:23pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.


after Banging her for 6 months;ur senses will come back and then the curses..Lol
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Mryacks(m): 10:13pm On Apr 09, 2020
Karleb:


Forget the age bro.

The most important is the compatibility.

Rightly said....especially a man and woman age gap.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by pbs4real(m): 11:22pm On Apr 09, 2020
What else do u wanna hear? Just go ahead and marry her bro...that's ur future wife right in front of u.....
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by biyiwyle(m): 12:57am On Apr 10, 2020
She's not young. Leave her already and go talk to her immediately. Thank God there is lockdown, maybe you can tell her to come do lockdown with you .. get out of here and go and do it joor
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by ElonMosque(m): 1:36am On Apr 10, 2020
lol so far its not your house girl tongue
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by DaddyRochie1642(f): 2:06am On Apr 10, 2020
Oga I know what you want to do already, ... Just becareful before that your business will start to Summersault grin grin
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by zexy2030(m): 7:25am On Apr 10, 2020
OOLUSOGA:
Bros l have taking my time to read almost all the response on your post. Something just strike my mind the question is what of if this girl changed after marriage knowing fully she is now in the business. Do you think about this? Remember, she is responsible to you not as your worker but your wife. But think deep. If she changed tomorrow will your business not suffer. That is just my widow's mite. I wish you the best.
fears, don't give him ur fears.

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