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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Odoemena12345(m): 9:39am On Apr 09, 2020
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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Chris2863(m): 9:40am On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
Hahhahahahahahahahahahahsahhshahaahhahahahahahahahahahha
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by kem40145: 9:40am On Apr 09, 2020
k4tm7p4t8q

Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by shogsman(m): 9:40am On Apr 09, 2020
This one strong o

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:40am On Apr 09, 2020
Do what you like
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Klington: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
The way to a man's heart is tru his stomach.

She is about to crack the code the start pressing your mumu button.

Tread with caution.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
kem40145:
k4tm7p4t8q
What's the meaning of this?

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by stchinedu: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

She has been making and bringing food to you? shocked


Bobo yi ti je efo riro.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Hedonisst: 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
I hate all you weak, over-emotional guys who easily fall in love at the slightest provocation.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Chuksmonika(m): 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
jossydaf:
Follow your heart,I HV a friend that got married to his employee and his business is doing fine,pray and ask for God direction
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by funshow247(m): 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
Make your findings about her background. If you are cool with it, just tell her you want to marry her and you mean it. Shikina!

I hope you didn't catch the love feelings after she started bringing you food. Efo is real o.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Golddollars: 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
Becareful, don't destroy your business.
The act of kneeling to greet does not mean a positive attitude.

Decode.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by sylve11: 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin


He wants to you to be part of the crime... grin cool
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by CYBERWEAVER(m): 9:42am On Apr 09, 2020
Please let her be, u could get to run down your business after intimacy with her please I am begging you.
Source: Experience
Abeg

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by joegigs(m): 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
She wants to catch your heart. All this schoolgirls can manipulate for Africa.small time if you fall,you don turn her father cos na you go dey pay her school fees, las las she go leave you.
Stop her from bringing that food and see her reaction, better still stop being too nice with her.slowly you will see her true colours,if she tries seducing you.I don't need to tell you what to do

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by sylve11: 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
ProfDview1:
I didn't bother to read all that u wrote but I know one thing for certain



It will always end in tears.

Pls guys, share this post incase of next time


He will come back to talk abt how a lady ruined his business..

Who has watched Money heist?

Professor mixed business with pleasure and things turned upside down...

The truth is whenever u mix business with pleasure, pleasure takes over... Emotion isn't a good thing for a good business man



Having said this,

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God bless the cheerful giver.. God bless u


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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by CsRockefeller(m): 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
What if we had the answer to all our questions and puzzles of life?

Think about it, everyday we are faced with a decision or the other to make right from when we wake up till when we sleep.

Now, another decision is here for you too make.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by shogsman(m): 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
stchinedu:


She has been making and bringing food to you? shocked


Bobo yi ti je efo riro.
I swear Bros don chop current banga soup,that girl sabi

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Dgreat3690(m): 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.
Man forget about the age.
Do your findings
If you are satisfied
Go ahead and marry her
Don't do boyfriend and girlfriend with her.
If her colleagues hear that you have done her introduction the boundary will be set automatically

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by funshint(m): 9:44am On Apr 09, 2020
Make a move on her but don't pressure her. There's nothing new under the sun...how people meet their future partners is different and unique. If you feel right about this go ahead, life is too short to lose some important opportunities in life.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by chronique(m): 9:44am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

This is where it all starts from. You got to be very careful. She can make or mar you. Before falling in love with your staff, do a due diligence check on her properly. You can arrange with someone she doesn't know to come and act like your boss and be giving you instructions and treating you like a boy boy. He can even insult you and ask you to kneel down for one offence or the other. Basically just let him reduce you to the level of the other staffs and then, you'd confess that you are not the owner of the business and that it belongs to this your boss. Do it and find out how she reacts to you. Even if it takes six months of playing the game, do it and observe her behavior. The rest is left for you to decide after you have made your discovery.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by atiku4President: 9:44am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.
You may be surprised you have been the girl's main customer from the start. You may have been paying her, but you will end up buying her good.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by bmdmixer: 9:44am On Apr 09, 2020
Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it grin
no mind am
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by sylve11: 9:45am On Apr 09, 2020
Bluezy13:
Oga Emeka...!!!


So na wetin you and Felisha dey do be dis ??


Lol grin cool
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Mutemenot(m): 9:45am On Apr 09, 2020
Well, if you love her and thinks wholeheartedly that she's what you want as a wife, go ahead to marry her. Don't date her, your relationship at the shop is enough dating. My only fear is that another good sharing fellow may work fornyour tomorrow n you end up admiring her . So check if it's lust or love.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by seyiojomu(m): 9:46am On Apr 09, 2020
Follow your preeq sir
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by jaxxy(m): 9:46am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

U can ask her out if u like her as u can find love anywhere bt i just warn to keep the working relationship exactly thesame. U cannot start to give her any special preferences than what u used to give her unless what is normal if u were dating her.

What I'm try to say is even if u date her u must treat her in the office as if ure not dating her. Atleat for now and a long while. If she doesn't deserve smtn in the office don't give her jusy because ur dating, don't make favouritism just because ur dating, don't create too much familarism in the office than b4 just because ur dating cos ur just dating she not ur wife. It's will cause problems.

If u can be disciplined and then u will be fine. If u must date her.
Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Avalancheman: 9:46am On Apr 09, 2020
Sack her.

Date and marry her.

Bring her back into the business.

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by gregyboy(m): 9:47am On Apr 09, 2020
Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.


From what i can cinclude and foresaw you were the one who played the first move on her and she followed dont come here and be writing like she was the one who employed herself or like she was the one who showed attention first, she is just playing along everylady loves to be madam
Stop the useless attention you are giving her before you enter express road becarefull

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Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by yemmit90: 9:47am On Apr 09, 2020
@op, i think you should be more smarter than this considering your age. The sole purpose of her action is to get to your head and probably become oga wife.

Dont ever try to date her, just keep observing her, especially her attitude towards others. If you eventually discover she is really what she is, just propose and marry her right away.

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