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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Ayomidexj8(f): 7:22pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
[quote author=mhizgracie22 post=88291039] Bros you're wicked o , there's nothing more painful than getting "thank you" or "okay" as a reply after ranting on phone or sending a long dramatic text, that shi.t hurts like hell [/quote aswear!, that thing dey pain person ehn..! 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Arckeen: 7:22pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
yyba:hahaha why you Dey shekpe! |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Gkemz: 7:23pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
yyba: Shut up since you don't have control over coronavirus. You're not even sure whether you haven't contacted it already. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Ayomidexj8(f): 7:31pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
she told me that she was a virgin, buh by the time we had s3x i found out that she wasn't trust me, i didn't complain, and i told her also that she is the only woman in my life by the time she found out, she told me that am a cheater damn! cheater kill you there!!!!
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Klass99(f): 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by sirvic68: 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22: May I have your number please... |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by dumininu01(m): 7:37pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Megaflex:You have said it bro... Getting a matured lady is very important in a relationship 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Klass99(f): 7:45pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
geekybabe:this one pain u oh 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by vickybantin(m): 7:50pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
this is some cool shit... first smart post today. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Gordieshegz(m): 7:54pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Klass99: Lol We africans are just atypical people. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
May God bless my immediate ex and ease her affairs. That babe is one of a kind. Nice points @op |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by kCatalyst: 7:58pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Nice thread OP Sharing my little knowledge... Whatsoever make people resolve to a particular thing is left to them. I think everyone has one or two problems to deal with, and the MIND itself is a complex entity capable of controlling one's entire being if left untamed or unguarded. Whatever it is, everyone should be ready to take responsibilities for their actions. I've heard this many times that it's good to end up with someone(friend) you've known for long e.g if possible from high school, and while this may be a known fact, i think it's still a matter of probability to ascertain a lasting home, in other words it may lead to good or bad marriage. However then, i think in this life, we will get to have some people whose relationships with us will be at the normal friends level cos that is who they are to us. If we have to be very sincere with ourselves, it is not everyone we have come across with, and have likeness for, like romantic love, infatuations or whatever level of likeness that we must always think we should and can always end up with, but sadly, people always want to believe it will be good if they end up together, which is where some impossibilities lie. *Please I'm not ruling out LOVE as an indicator nor will i talk about it cos it's not what i'm driving at* Many people are meant to remain as just friends no matter how strong our feelings may be for them. Some things will not just happen even if any/both of us wants to get ourselves together. Someway somehow, whatever we may want to build will not just stand. But where the problem start is when we don't get to accept realities maybe due to ignorance, desperation, preconception, belief etc. To cut stories.... I knew of a guy who wanted a lady who have been friends for atleast 2½yrs, who so much loved her and everything looked so right with them, but she wasn't so ready for him. She would only wished him as friend, even though itw's obvious not only to her, but friends in school, other common gatherings etc that she loved him. After univ, during his nysc, with all humility he rescinded his proposal and released her from his mind although he didn't think she wanted what he did atleast from the way she sounded and some actions that followed.... Why he did that at that time was cos he had a better understanding of the reason they crossed path. In fact, he knew aforehand that she would come to his path again and so many things will pop up.... >>> 2years+ after, she came back to him trying to get him back by every means. It was very obvious now that she wanted his proposal, and maybe if it was possibly morally right in our present society, she could have done the proposal, even though it still baffle what she later found in him. But this time she wasn't a confusion to him at all. He actually didn't know whatzup with her too.... He already knew her place in his life. To him in any capacity that he can, and if anything at all, at the most is to help her advance her life but not as marriage partners, so he should never even think about that. Truly, it appears she needed his help coupled with processing, making some payments etc which he gave in his ability (for those she could personally not make up with) and if he could remember well, she refunded. Meanwhile he maintained his stand of defining things in his actions. However..he thinks every of his responses baffled her since she wasn't expecting that he respond that way afterall she didn't give consent to his proposal on campus... But she eventually got his point that he was not interested in her again.... Today she is happily married to her best man for her, and everyone of them are all doing well.... As we all progress in life, many things will unravel itself in it's due course. ...even though we know the intentions of some guyz & ladies,,, chop & clean mouth **whatever that means** na God go help us settle that matter... I always say cos someone says YES to your proposal doesn't mean you are now set on the right track, nor a NO means you have lost either. I'm sure everyone will look back to bless/curse why they made a particular decision. But i think we need to learn to know and to understand people, event, and things at strategic points in time which i believe will save us lifetime worries... 5 Likes |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by DebbieSylvex(f): 8:04pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Maturity is not having to post your relationship issh on line.....mhen! it sucks 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by cooltola(m): 8:15pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Very wrong. It is okay to feel emotional because you are human. It is okay to express your feeling online or any how you feel. It is okay to feel sad, depressed, angry or uneasy. It is okay for your ex to laugh, or celebrate because no one knows your tomorrow. No one knows your future or who you will date tomorrow. Today might be lost but tomorrow is another day to live for. It is better to Express your feelings than to create a pretense. Get emotional now so you can look back and smile later. Once you pass through the emotional phase, you can move on and accept the fact the relationship is over. How to get over ex is becoming a better version of yourself, accept your mistakes and learn from them and move on. Go on and date again, life goes on. 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by vever1: 8:15pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Very interesting info |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Saintly01(m): 8:26pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
You got it all right. WhatsApp Status hosts Alot of these posts on a daily. I dread heart break. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by KingMack(m): 8:27pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Some of us still want our Ex's back into our lives so its best you pepper em small/large ad they'd be creeping right back inn! |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by ALABACONNECT(m): 8:39pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Seeing this when my ex just messaged me is strange Well, For your factory fitted UK used smart TVs, ACs, washing machines and Soundsystems, check my signature |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by ACE1010: 9:21pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
It makes a lot of sense to me |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by darediamond(m): 10:05pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:And she will surely remain Single till her MENOPAUSE! No, this is not a curse. She as already failed earlier by giving you an ultimatum. Some ladies think doing that means being Responsible but alas, it otherwise. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by darediamond(m): 10:09pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:I feel your pain bro. Women that are.not Wife material mostly act like your ex. Thank God she is out of your life as He did the uprooting for you. The future matters oo. Some ladies ARE JUST A WRONG WOMAN FOR ANY MAN!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by darediamond(m): 10:14pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Wizywiz:Imagine that! She is ACTUALLY not a Wife material at all for any Man I reapeat. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by darediamond(m): 10:15pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
geekybabe:Kpele! |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by yyba: 11:03pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by yyba: 11:09pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Gabflex:after collecting bride price, the next thing I had was her wedding date with another man. the parents all claimed they are not aware of the marriage. I feel like shooting the parents when they were saying all this rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by yyba: 11:11pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Gkemz:the doctor that allowed you out from YABA LEFT hospital must be sick and also be sack . |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Gabflex: 11:31pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
yyba:what da fork! dem scam u. this is called wifey fruad. waw, bro move on, attain more success, u will be ok. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nwaonyishi69: 11:33pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22:Guy, it sounds to me as if you have broken someone's heart, iredeemeably. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nwaonyishi69: 11:37pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
yyba:No wonder they voted with their toes the moment they got some real idea of your curse-filled nature. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by yyba: 11:40pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Gabflex:thanks bro. |
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Abikeade11(f): 11:41pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Thank goodness, I don't have ex and I'm not ready to have one. |
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