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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Wizywiz(m): 3:25pm On Apr 10, 2020
Youngpo413:
keep on ignoring her,na desperation cause am...they always believe its all about beauty and 'endowments'.
i no get her time...its my tradition not to go back to any Ex ...she remains an ex

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Torie8(f): 8:32pm On Apr 10, 2020
jawalis:
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Am here
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by jawalis(m): 8:50pm On Apr 10, 2020
Torie8:
Am here
Oh. Been a while I read from you.
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by geekybabe(f): 2:05pm On Jun 05, 2020
Leave everyone to handle their breakup the way they want.
If they wanna post motivational quotes, let them post. Finish. Keep your opinions to yourself and let women breathe..

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by christian4chris: 2:05pm On Jun 05, 2020
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by jericco1(m): 2:06pm On Jun 05, 2020
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by omoiyamayor(m): 2:08pm On Jun 05, 2020
mhizgracie22:
I'm a girl tho grin
lol sexism is another problem in Nigeria, some people believe only men are wise or can make sense. #NoToSexism

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Otii4god: 2:09pm On Jun 05, 2020
Wizywiz:
well, she broke up with me then..i loved her so much then...she was so eager and desperate to marry, she gave me an ultimatum on when to marry her, i refused yielding to her pressure we broke up and now she is coming back to yarn dust to me...maybe because she still dey single and in her late thirties...
You nko? You don marry bros? If you like dey dia b deceiving yourself, no marry d babe

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by SaintHilary(m): 2:09pm On Jun 05, 2020

Girls are the most confused beings on earth. Only them go breakup, only them go still form motivational speaker. "I'm stronger now ..
"Beautiful life ahead
"Single and happy
Yen Yen Yen!

Anty you're not happy!! Stop deceiving your inner self..Why not head to Erriga's Twitter page and learn a thing or two about life

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:09pm On Jun 05, 2020
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.

I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.

If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).

You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.

You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*

Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened.

Spot on!
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by zero911: 2:10pm On Jun 05, 2020
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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by knowhowk: 2:11pm On Jun 05, 2020
How can I give the OP a Medal for this Article.....
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by rosy1992(f): 2:11pm On Jun 05, 2020
You have said it all. It works 100%
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by 900warriorz(m): 2:12pm On Jun 05, 2020
ife
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Blackmoran(m): 2:13pm On Jun 05, 2020
Me and one of my ex girl are still friend on facebook, I was on line this particular day saw her timeline boldly written "I DONT NEED A MAN, Am INDEPENDENT".. I my mind just shake my head, cause its been years I heard from her last... Between 15min of reading her post, she inbox me privately, starting with casual greetings, for my mind I know this is not normal.... To cut the story short , she was begging me to assist her With her school fees, that exam was approaching... I didn't even reply her I just logout....

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jun 05, 2020
Hey miss! Did you actually compose it?
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by OKTolu(m): 2:14pm On Jun 05, 2020
No time for love bro
Hustling mode activated

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by professore(m): 2:15pm On Jun 05, 2020
Make sense
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by NACE13: 2:16pm On Jun 05, 2020
As a man, when you have so much things to think about in this present economy, break up issue shouldn't last more than 3 days in your head, let's say a week at most.

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by BIGGIE121(m): 2:16pm On Jun 05, 2020
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.

I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.

If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).

You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.

You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*

Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened.


nice thread
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Alexaonfleek: 2:17pm On Jun 05, 2020
KingZaddy:
you got good points...


your ex is pained when[/s] she [s]doesnt see signs of you missing [/s]her.[s]


stop being constant online (whatsapp facebook)

dont chat [/s]her[s] up

when you make posts let them be business related (life progress)

celebrate birthday of other friends and make sure your captions dont smell of emotional hurts
very good points indeed.
But your post sha undecided
Na only guys dey get ex sad

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Alexis105: 2:18pm On Jun 05, 2020
yyba:
may coronavirus and dangerous thunder locate my ex and her parents immediately . undecided undecided angry

Ha!! Watin hapun na? Did u sponsor ur ex in school or abroad that he/she now abandoned you? Kilode?

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by ayomikuolatunji(m): 2:18pm On Jun 05, 2020
True
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by oluwasegun007(m): 2:20pm On Jun 05, 2020
I think the ex bf of NCS boss new wife need to read this.

Abeg make peson ask me for my account number na undecided
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by bukatyne(f): 2:20pm On Jun 05, 2020
mhizgracie22:
"I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.

I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.

If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).

You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.

You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you*

Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened.

Nice one.
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by dcrested(m): 2:21pm On Jun 05, 2020
Nice one op.
Some people find it difficult to move on. Just like my elder brother's ex, she's always posting on her whatsapp status about my brother and their relationship.
I don tire, e be like say make I break her head put small sense inside.
Baba don move on since.
E no concern me.
What do I know?
Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Tonalphs(f): 2:22pm On Jun 05, 2020
why keep their number in the first place? all those won't be needed if u cut all ties in the first place. mind you, no enmity. but I'm not just keeping ur number or fb details

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by NACE13: 2:23pm On Jun 05, 2020
Blackmoran:
Me and one of my ex girl are still friend on facebook, I was on line this particular day saw her timeline boldly written "I DONT NEED A MAN, Am INDEPENDENT".. I my mind just shake my head, cause its been years I heard from her last... Between 15min of reading her post, she inbox me privately, starting with casual greetings, for my mind I know this is not normal.... To cut the story short , she was begging me to assist her With her school fees, that exam was approaching... I didn't even reply her I just logout....

Lmao grin grin. Crazy bro.
One called me to ask for help that she ran out of data, I said OK. Recharged N500 through topUp for her to do 1 week plan. When she called back to thank me, I could feel the disappointment in her voice, because she thought it would be the usual send money thingy

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by pocohantas(f): 2:23pm On Jun 05, 2020
My WhatsApp status cannot be dignified with such. No time for drama...

Tonalphs:
why keep their number in the first place? all those won't be needed if u cut all ties in the first place. mind you, no enmity. but I'm not just keeping ur number or fb details

I may not remember to delete number and I also won’t necessarily initiate conversations. Doesn’t mean we are enemies, we are not friends either.

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Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by osamz007: 2:24pm On Jun 05, 2020
One of the best topics I've come across today, not all those trash that grace to recently.

Once you have moved out of a relationship keep moving forward. No time


Life too short to give a damn!

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