Wayne4uall:


Yea.. May b u are right... The most important be say.. Make God give us money so that they won't use car with tinted glass to carry our girl or wife

Chi59:

My father is bloody fo.ol. My mother An a.sswipe. Who the hell made you a moral compass? Do you pay me to comment on nairaland that you can decide what I write or don't write. Go.at

Naughtysite:


You belong to the dregs of the society.

That is why you would consider sleeping with a married man at first and that is for nothing other than monetary gains. Sensible girls don't do that.

Secondly, your type believe than younger men cannot pamper you enough because they don't have enough money like married men.

You can keep showing your frustration. It's cause you have no bearing in life. Your tantrums can take you nowhere.

I am not your moral compass, your conscience is.

Meteng:
My question is, what if you don't sleep with someone's husband,but when you marry, young girls constantly sleep with yours?

JuanDeDios:

Rapmoney, you write very well. Do you write professionally? Would you like to pursue a writing-related career?

Pattypatt:
Sleeping with married men is very bad, disrespectful and dangerous, I pity ladies that indulge in it, adultery is one sin I will never commit in my life.

But the OP, a lady that haven't slept with a married man before might also end up with a cheating husband, life is not fair.

Denique potst=88726315:
Hope we are not late?

Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.

Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.

In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.

If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.

Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.

Nooil:


I don't do married men. If you like beware of me.

colestephan86:

What about the married men that are always going after single ladies.

Liliantalks:
Almost all girls hv one serious married man friend for financial support! Especially single women or ladies dating broke men. Whether u choose to Bleep or not Bleep married men , men will still cheat. Mine bought me my first iPhone. He’s more like the only boyfriend I hv but no marriage for sure , till I meet a single guy . She does know I exist n will never

Chi59:
You done?

Liliantalks:
what leftovers , he’s more like my fuckmate ,, it’s better than hving sex with many single men who won’t take u seriously �, no be Bleep Una still Dey Bleep ?

Alexaonfleek:
abeg I don tire for NL

Girls this girls that!!!
I'm not saying girls are innocent,but I know how many married men have toasted me.
No be say I give them green light
It's most of these married men that usually chase young girls around.
Some will even deny the fact that they're married.

Pls as you're telling girls to keep their toto in one place,pls tell these married guys to face their wives and stop chasing girls

Teaser4:
Karma is beautiful bitch.

Liliantalks:
what leftovers , he’s more like my fuckmate ,, it’s better than hving sex with many single men who won’t take u seriously �, no be Bleep Una still Dey Bleep ?

Faysuze:
There is a married man in my office that said he has a crush on me. I was like, guy you have a wife and two kids.
How can you have a crush on me?

He said his wife is so beautiful and endowed, so what are you still looking for if your wife is all that? He said i should stop being rigid and open my options. Open my options to a married man

Some married men never cease to amaze me with their stupidity.

Chi59:

And you single guys that sleep with different women nko? Even with sugar mummies, friends with benefits and all that crap? He that goes to equity must go with clean hands.

Chi59:
Some ladies don't do it for money or even the sex.
Young men are often in a haste, unwilling to work the knots that is a woman's emotions.
Many of you young men are absent, forgetful and downright indifferent. You are impatient and very careless.
But you see married men, marriage has amended their character and their attitudes to females. Years of living with a woman makes them quick to say sorry, to pay attention, to show up, to be patient.


Modified: See them bashing me. Blo.ody hypocrites. It takes two people to commit adultery. If the lady is guilty, how about the man who breaks his vows?

Chi59:
Some ladies don't do it for money or even the sex.
Young men are often in a haste, unwilling to work the knots that is a woman's emotions.
Many of you young men are absent, forgetful and downright indifferent. You are impatient and very careless.
But you see married men, marriage has amended their character and their attitudes to females. Years of living with a woman makes them quick to say sorry, to pay attention, to show up, to be patient.

Modified: See them bashing me. Blo.ody hypocrites. It takes two people to commit adultery. If the lady is guilty, how about the man who breaks his vows?

Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.

Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.

In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.

If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.

Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.

Ezemarcel:
Most of our girls now sees it as a norm to sleep with married men.....

majekoam:


Assumptions?
You think such women have emotions??!!
All married men have amended their character?
There are many men that show good character/patience/ understanding?

Argue by intellect and I can meet you on that plain. Stoop to drudgery and that's your biz.


So by your paragraph "absent", " impatient" and I'll equipped young men condones breaking a marital home and causing untold damage?!. What your paragraph is implying is that you are amongst such ladies or wouldn't mind being amongst them...leave the undoubted pathetic excuses and juvenile insults you'll throw my way and realise one thing.....
...you need help!!
.....professional help...