Jokerman:
Just imagine these banks.

Give me loan let me build my business, for where...show them proof, show them everything... But can give 3m for frivolity. Like they say Bank loans are not to help people but yo stifle them...

Sorry Rip to the guy.

Imagine 3m for a scam union.

Michelle55:
Nonsense and ingredients
Why borrow to get married? Some people are just seriously busy preparing for wedding with everything they've got forgetting that the real deal called marriage is waiting for them.
Any marriage that would warrant you borrowing is not worth it. If she's not ready to manage with you by going on a low key mode.. My brother waka pass.

If the deceased didn't borrow and make do with what he had for the wedding, he wouldn't have been sooo depressed and frustrated to think of suicide after the marriage failed.

Make do with what you have. Never ever live above your means to impress anyone, you just might be better than them

Rip to the dead

I am surprised this is coming from a naija lady

Cut your coat according to your clothe they will not hear,like say dem don do wedding carry first before,smh

I always wonder why people are yet to believe marriage is not for everyone. Is it not the same marriage some men have become hypertensive for? And they can't just wait to go back to previous singlehood life. Some things I have come to realise they are purely negligible in this life. Having children. Marriage. Religion. God never created us and told us to leave the sky for the purposes of getting married, having kids or to be religious.


God never created us for these reasons cos we won't need them afterall when we return to Him

Before I comment on this issue. Can you guys pls upload the guy picture and the woman.

Very sad, this is what pursuing love can cause. Humans are very unpredictable, we long to love someone but that love is mostly a mirage. The only beings worth loving are the God head, they will never fail.

Choosing to love a fallible human is too much of a risk that could go u appreciated and result in calamity.

I hope his ex wife is happy now, she should be ready to live with this stigma for the rest of her life and probably die single except she relocates to where nobody knows her.

edoman2016:

How can you reason like this? Can't you read the man is a banker and not jobless. The man committed suicide because the wife simply has bad attitude and not a wife material.

Is a banker how much is salary that he went for 3m loan

Is salary may be between 80k - 120k.

*sigh* they should slap him well on the other side, people still do that rubbish.....

Matrimonous:
Men stop digging for Gold una no hear.
Focus on well meaning decent and educated ladies from good homes with understanding and fear of God but you long for senseless brats from rich homes.

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ojun50:

Forget make Yoruba people no knw the address

Yes ooo, anywhere you put Owambe party with good jollof rice and Fuji Musician, we go show.

Marriage is not a basis for people to remain sad and die

No one should kill himself or herself for the sake of failed marriage

Learn to love and if its not working just step aside and life goes on

Why will someone take a loan for wedding?

This is silly

bukatyne:
If the deceased knew that the marriage/wife/relationship was so important to him, why didn't he seek a compromise rather than a divorce?

here is the thing, u d0n't kn0w what transpired in the marriage for the man to go that length. You should even get a hint fr0m the fact the guy applied for a 3 milli0n loan. I mean, in a true relati0nship, a w0man wouldn't let her man apply a l0an of 3 milli0n fr0m the bank just for a wedding. A w0man that truly loves her man wouldn't want him to be in a debt. It's obvious the relati0nship and later uni0n was a toxic one the man had no c0ntrol of.

Pavore9:


See tweaked Beyonce lyrics o!

But on a serious note, that guy goofed direly! No man or woman should go into marriage without outlining their expectations clearly with their intending spouses. As in, identify them and discuss to avoid these kind stories. A lot us marry because it is time or the other person seems right without checking to be sure that we're both aligned on the same page....if promises are not made, hearts should not be broken o.


The first time I saw a thorough marriage counseling filled forms(a friend showed me what she wrote to her intending husband) chai...I was gobsmacked. She was totally explicit about money, sex, time, her people, his people, chores, etc....chai! My Igbo gf got me scared thinking the guy would just dump her when he sees her expectations. No, he wrote his and they discussed extensively in front of their counsellor and privately. Today, they are very much settled in as each understand their roles. Hian!

He shouldn't have killed himself. But the wife also will not have peace of mind till her last days on earth, she is the root cause of the death

I will never marry
Am not marrying oooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Borrowed 3m for wedding !!! wow this is one of the crazy things people do for love

Kingscee:
OFU local government, meaning (pu*sy or hole) local government, should I say rest in peace because over used pu*sy or what, no the guy doesn't deserve that from me, taking my precious life because of a hole? Never.

In what language, Sir?

the difference between COMPLETE AND FINISH, if you marry a bad wife you are FINISH, if you marry a good wife you are COMPLETE. but if the good one catches you with the bad one, you are COMPLETELY FINISH

why committing suicide for just two months crashed marriage? he should have given thanks to Almighty God and move on.....suicide never an option for any problem we face in this life....

That's his cup of cold tea
If he sees a struggling hustling girl he will not marry and grow together
He will rather tagged her a broke ass girl
#TeamNeverMarryABrokeGirl
He want to go and dig where he did not sow
Let him tell me what happened to all the girls he dated in the past why he did not marry any of them.
That one is his wahala Biko
Every man must taste death one day
That was how he was designed to exit earth
Nothing to cry fowl about.
Rest in peace Mr. 3Million wedding
Next world learn to cut your cloth according to your size .

Grace001:
Babe I want my wedding to be glamorous, ovation and wedding of the year.

Tell her that her father should sponsor the wedding for her. It’s not about the wedding it’s about the marriage.

Guys don’t allow any girl to push you into debt because of wedding ceremony, even if she comes from a rich family. If they can’t accept you for who you are let her family sponsor the wedding. Since their daughter want a glamorous wedding

Is it that our nairaland babes are beginning to reason like normal human now,I am impressed by their comments so far on this thread except that cococandy

Men without balls always take cheap or wrong decisions. Me, commit suicide for a woman; even if she is the daughter of the Queen, impossible. A man who is a man is known by the readiness to start afresh. At 37 and you are so frustrated, while people marry even at 60, is a sign of not being man enough. After all, when one door is closed many others are open. Yet, women of nowadays, ennhh.

no remorse kill ur self more join, u cant tell me u dont know her behaviour b4 marriage shey, u even borrow 3m definitely because she told u to, 3m not even 500k who lends moni to get married these days self, some people are senseless, houseboy ko, maid ni.

I don't just understand why people commit suicide instead of killing themselves.

GreatResearcher1:

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U no be great researcher again?
Research well joor and research for the rest of us. Live up to your name biko and don't fall our hand.

FEAR WOMEN

The guy was too weak for this world. His exit was the only solution.

How can you borrow 3m to marry? Can't you find a humble girl to marry?

Did you not see signs of her arrogance before marriage or you were in cloud 9 and played ostrich?

A friend of mine married a happening girl and the married did not last a year.

Now, he is living with a simple girl and they have 4 daughters. No Yawa except that my friend likes to post porn in our university alumni Whatsapp group

Make we all apply sense and marry within our level or we go regret am.

My wedding is going to combine service.

How can aboki spend 3m just for a wedding impossible

fastseo:

Only in Africa will u see people borrowing money for parties... ( wedding) rather for investment that will yield returns.
Even though he pays 100k per month he would have used 2 years and 6 months to clear up the loan minus interest.

That's why I tell people to always do a simple wedding, you don't need to invite the world.

But most Nigerian girls don't see it that way. In such they want big wedding and everything. They want to counter there friend that just weds. It's like a competition. One lady was telling me that she had spent almost 200k on asho ebi and her friends too must attend her big wedding.

I just laugh.

Matrimonous:

U no be great researcher again?
Research well joor and research for the rest of us. Live up to your name biko and don't fall our hand.

According to research, such ladies only exist in the movies