You are genius my brother. How do you do that? I actually want to be like you.

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Your healing process has started just for the fact that you feel bad & remorseful about these characters of yours.
If not, you wouldn't be bothered or be here to find help in the first place.

Atomemmy:
I DON'T FIND ANYTHING WRONG IN UR CHARACTERS. I ONLY FIND SOMETHING WRONG WITH UR MINDSET. U FEEL LIVING UR LIFE IN CONTRAST TO THE WAY OTHERS LIVE MAKES U REJECTABLE, AND THEN U WANT TO PLEASE THEM.
IT'S NOT BAD NOT HAVING FEELINGS FOR WOMEN. IT'S A GOOD SIGN U'RE MORE THAN A MAN. TRY USING THIS NATURE OF URS TO ADVANCE GOD'S KINGDOM LIKE BECOMING A PREIST UNNO?

What is this one saying

Unrated900:



Yes na it’s annoying coming here everyday talking trash about ladies and they are Jobless
They can’t deal with ordinary relationship,are they the one that wanna deal with marriage

Asshole

Are you a lady? Cos you deserve some hug

I have this problem too.... I run out of emotional resources too fast in a relationship no matter how good the lady is.... I might not feel like calling or texting her for months... This do cause issues and eventually breakups

op sounds just like R Kelly was described to be. you need professional help, nobody here can help you

xendra:
NO. Don't talk it down, what the OP is talking about is not that simple, I know men who are like him, and they are angry at women for not being perfect when they themselves are intolerable. they HATE women yet they are always sleeping or trying to sleep with one, just can't keep any. its NOT normal at all.

just reading his post I would think it's a friend I turned down his marriage proposal but I'm sure it's not him because that one can't write as good as the OP but he is very rich so he gets to sleep with a lot of pretty women yet feels sooo unfulfilled/unsatisfied, and hates women for not being perfect...SMH

Its a damaged or improperly developed male ego construct issue. There is a female variant but let's stay with men.

To humiliate another human being is not simple gender hatred but a need to bring the person to the level at which the castrated or damaged ego can contain them. This is normally found in men who had quiet fathers and dominant mothers, men who have suffered sexual humiliation or even men who lost their mothers early and did not receive affirmation Many men in currently in their 20's and early to mid 30's suffer from this syndrome. The "latch key" generation.

The fastest solution strangely enough involves receiving affirmation from males ( with all the risks this can entail) possibly using team team sports ranging from contact sports to fun activities like paint balling. Men often feel that women can fix their problems whereas and in fact only male affirmation can repair the damaged ego.

the day you realize you have a problem is the day it get solved, nothing we can do about it from here

PrimadonnaO:
You are Narcissus himself! Plus a lot of other weird mix.

I don’t even know what to say. You need Jesus... and the transformation of the Holy Spirit.

All of these traits are far from healthy.

QED

Don't worry
U will meet her soon
We all do

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

The first solution to a problem is acknowledging there is a problem, step 2 is identifying the problem.

Form ur description this is not a problem soley about relationships with gals bt people even ur family. We need to get to the root of the problem.

On the easy side this could simply be a state of mind u adopt at a certain time and over time it becomes at part of u, if that is the case u will need a conscious effort to reverse ur mentality same way u adopted the current mentally which has now become a constituent behavior.

2ndly It cud be norm our of reflex..

xendra:
A lot of men are like you, the only difference is you are now aware it's a defect while most men still think they are ok and have no problem


that's why a lot of them bash women at every opportunity, their problem is actually inbuilt (mostly from mistakes an adult made during their childhood). and this condition takes a conscious effort and a lot of work to rid of, but nobody can do it for you. men with such behaviour damage any woman that comes into their life, as no matter what that woman does can't fix them unless they make conscious effort to fix themselves.

to fuvk woman don become damage again? Na wa ooo

Narcissistic, Sociopathic and psychopathic tendencies. Definitely need professional help. As you are able to recognize this is a problem, you are on your way to getting better. Good luck OP.

A typical gene of a typical Nigerian politician. Please join politics ASAP and your conscience will not prick you again! Lol

Nice heading

Say baba 2023

Hmmm ,a pretty weird fellow I must say...OP seek therapy ASAP

All these traits will make u a good Nigerian police officer. Please join them.

Lemmy read all about those who choose to make life tough an uninhabitable for themselves because of their on bitterness against women. This kind of bitterness has des6 their lives oh, yet the fools among them will still continue praising the man who actually needs help to reshape his life.

OP, check out MFM oh.

@OP, Oyibo call it sociopath but we spiritual people know that you're possessed by legions of demons .Trust me I know what I'm talking about. I've seen a teen laugh at the news of dead relatives while others cry, same teen loves to hear little children cry so he pokes them with sharp objects and when they cry he derives joy. Same person set a trap in front of his house so that anybody walking in will get poked by a knife to the feet and he laughs because it gives him joy. That teen is happy when others are in pain and suffering and he will even be the cause of pain. There's no evil the boy doesn't do. But guess what? that sociopath is now a loving, caring, compassionate personality. He gave his life to Christ and although a gradual process, God has healed him completely such that he can feel and love. Yours is still not as bad as what I'm describing, I'm talking of a wicked, extremely wicked person that loves inflicting physical pain on venerable people, so please give your life to Christ He will drive all those demons away from your life. Good luck

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You are not moved by the death of family members and friends? You are a psychopath. It's not just about women.

Angelfrost:
Another E.L. James' Christian Grey character (You should read all her books on Christian Grey, starting with Fifty Shades of Grey, if you haven't)...

You probably have an unhealthy domineering personality bordering slightly on the psychotic... You should take serious steps in addressing this, before you truly hurt someone or yourself.

All I read is just one selfish modafucker badly in need of repentance

YOU HAVE DEMONIC POSSESSION lk Obasanjo whose future generations have unendingly started paying for.... You need deliverance!

Fifty shades of wetin na
Don't worry. A girl that will mellow you is coming your way.


You're a Sadist

XhosaNostra:
I'd say you're a narcissist, but you're self aware. People like you usually have deep-seated abandonment issues or suffer from fear of rejection. You only skim the surface when it comes to emotions, so noone can get close enough to inflict any sort of pain. Get them before they get you type of thing. Underneath the seemingly uncaring facade, there's actually an extremely sensitive person that's scared to death of getting hurt, so they put up all these defences to protect their mushy core. Something like a human crustacean One person will manage to break down your walls though, mark my words. But it'll only take one person. It won't be easy sailing. There'll be a lot of vacillation between enmeshment & suffocation on your part. Good luck to the poor girl

Iwe po

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

the real psycho has been spotted.. you're a sadistic, narcissist and emotionless person.. I think this is a mental disorder.. and you're a danger to yourself and others around you.. I believe this behaviour must've been with you from childhood.. and I believe you must've been spoilt alot by your parents.. may God help you sha

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

I'd been contemplating on what to call you till I got to the part where you wrote the find joy in making those ladies feel bad about themselves etc. You're nothing but a schadenfreude and need to see a psychologist asap. If the traits you exude aren't checked and stopped, I fear you might murder someone (you may never do that though but there's a high chance you would). Something happened a certain point in my life that made me really dislike men, I couldn't just fathom being in a relationship with one and I sort of do have a way of manifesting anything I so desire. Knowing this, I avoided men like plague because I didn't want to harm them (not physically) but know that if I did want something terrible to happen to someone who hurt me real bad either verbally or physically then I would manifest it (whether a man or woman) so im always cautious of things. Each time I realised a guy liked me I would simply warn him ahead because at some point I would feel like it was already time for me to leave. I don't want to bore you with the details but I knew I couldn't go on that way so I worked on myself a great deal, trust me, I was irritated by men (but I never let people know because I didn't want them thinking something else). Yours is extremely bad so I'd suggest you have sessions with a psychologist. I can refer you to someone who's an expert but if you don't want to go with this person just seek help asap. You're capable of doing worse than you even know.

TheSourcerer:
they do home delivery on psychoactive drugs?

Could be arranged if recommended by our Psychiatrist.