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Goldencheese:
Why would a man kill his wife? If you don't want the marriage again, quietly divorce her rather than become the very undertaker of the mother of your child or children. This world is very simple. I mean, this is terrible.

you think is easy like that? Don't pray for such I won't blame the man not easy to bear

Kriss216:
One of the demerits of marrying a Nigerian girl.

pls marry in ur own country

Some Nigerian is doing some nasty thing as we speak.

Either fraud, rituals, corruption, Yahoo, prostitution , drugs, armed robbery, extortion.

Everyday bad news and you want to tell me these are humans?

Connectiann:
This is serious tragedy

na wrong Fvck cause am

This is a case of infidelity and paternity fraud. In this situation, the man could have taken a walk but he didn't.

Did she deserve it or not?

Cc Afroknight prince049 stanliwise

all those ondo and ekiti girls that don't have sense, I hope u are learning...igbo men don't know how to manage relationship, they hurt woman, because they feel every thing about you has been brought.

SavageMaster:
You see your life

hahahah.

saxby:
oh no, what on earth could have caused such tragedy

na wrong Fvck cause am

What a terrible way to die for the woman

What?

A woman was killed and still got blamed for getting killed by her partner

Kriss216:
One of the demerits of marrying a Nigerian girl.

A simple divorce lawsuit in the most secret court know to any of their friends and acquittances was all either of the parties needed to have filed to part their ways peacefully and legally and then live happily ever after, but they listened to what society would say and ended it in the most brutal and sadistic way. You don't need to live with a partner you are no longer safe with, you may end up dead like this couple. Brief a lawyer for a divorce that is all you must do to stay alive and free.

Searching for Anuoluwa1234

Where is she? Has anyone seen her?

Which news do I believe here. This one is saying Femi while the other says Chris and Olamide in the nairaland. Nawaaaaoooo

I am dear, how HV u been

noble2faith:
Searching for Anuoluwa1234

Where is she? Has anyone seen her?

https://www.nairaland.com/5944006/couple-involved-murder-suicide-lekki#90958690
In the above link the man's name is Chris and we have Femi here. Sure it's a true story like this?

Hope027:
Which news do I believe here. This one is saying Femi while the other says Chris and Olamide in the nairaland. Nawaaaaoooo

Exactly my point too

Ikennamurphy:

I'm telling u...my girlfriend's behaviour gave me a clue she was cheating, she started disrespecting me..is usually obvious for them and u will know they're cheating unlike a man

Exactly.
My fiancee, a very popular niaralander was wearing my engagement ring yet cheating. I won't disclose her moniker for the sake of not ruining her fame. Such shaming isn't necessary cos what happened had nothing to do with nairaland.
I was looking forward to when our pre-wedding and wedding shots will grace the headlines in this forum.
We had already done introduction and planning for main event before one yahoo yahoo boy she was messing up with in another city sent me her nudes.
She and her family did everything possible to save the relationship but I would hear nothing of that. To me the relationship was dead.
In fact she was lucky we were neither married nor was she around me when that happened because violence was inevitable with the way it hurt me.
You know what, though I never cheated on her but had I been the one that cheated, the relationship could still have been saved with due diligence on my part and that of my family.

Sixfeetbelle:
This is a case of infidelity and paternity fraud. In this situation, the man could have taken a walk but he didn't.

Did she deserve it or not?

Cc Afro knight prince049 stanliwise

Are you also justifying murder? Why are you uncertain whether she deserved it or not. Anyway, I wouldn’t be surprised if you believe she deserved to die for her infidelity. You have expressed somewhat similar sentiments before.

Anuoluwa1234:
I am dear, how HV u been

Waoh! Here you are! Been good, u?
Been expecting ur reply to my mail since the day I sent it.

AfroKnight:


Are you also justifying murder? Why are you uncertain whether she deserved it or not. Anyway, I wouldn’t be surprised if you believe she deserved to die for her infidelity. You have expressed somewhat similar sentiments before.

Simple question that required simple answer, yet you went on a tirade.

Have a good day

Matrimonous:

Exactly.
My fiancee, a very popular niaralander was wearing my engagement ring yet cheating. I won't disclose her moniker for the sake of not ruining her fame. Such shaming isn't necessary cos what happened had nothing to do with nairaland.
I was looking forward to when our pre-wedding and wedding shots will grace the headlines in this forum.
We had already done introduction and planning for main event before one yahoo yahoo boy she was messing up with in another city sent me her nudes.
She and her family did everything possible to save the relationship but I would hear nothing of that. To me the relationship was dead.
In fact she was lucky we were neither married nor was she around me when that happened because violence was inevitable with the way it hurt me.
You know what, though I never cheated on her but had I been the one that cheated, the relationship could still have been saved with due diligence on my part and that of my family.

That's bad...I don't know why they do that..my own babe sef was maltreating me in my house, sometimes I don't eat before going to work and she did not care..she changed completely unlike what she used to be till I saw the chats of how she has been sleeping with the guy in the same house I rented for her...I knew it was over..the mumu gal is asking I forgive her and let's move on..I simply told her I have forgiven but can never move on with her ...women are becoming the oppressors too


It's not funny

I am sorry about that, will reply you now

noble2faith:

Waoh! Here you are! Been good, u?
Been expecting ur reply to my mail since the day I sent it.

Sixfeetbelle:


Simple question that required simple answer, yet you went on a tirade.

Have a good day

Because it was a dishonest question.

Sixfeetbelle:
This is a case of infidelity and paternity fraud. In this situation, the man could have taken a walk but he didn't.

Did she deserve it or not?

Cc Afroknight prince049 stanliwise

No one deserve to die when they didn’t take anyone life. She simply broke the marriage vow and death is no penalty for infidelity no sane place in the world. If you break a vow the consequences is marriage dissolution, breaking of every tie and burning of bridges. Although not to the extent you abandon your children which they play no part in.

AfroKnight:


Because it was a dishonest question.

I really did bid you a good day already.

But indulge me, will you? How is it dishonest?

stanliwise:
No one deserve to die when they didn’t take anyone life. She simply broke the marriage vow and death is no penalty for infidelity in the world. If you break a vow the consequences is marriage dissolution removal of every tie and burning of bridges. Although not to the extent you abandon your children which they play no part in.

Emotional maturity comes into play here a lot. How many people do you reckon are emotionally mature? And if we agree that the statistics is few, shouldn't people have common sense when in a committed and defined relationship?

Matrimonous:

Exactly.
My fiancee, a very popular niaralander was wearing my engagement ring yet cheating. I won't disclose her moniker for the sake of not ruining her fame. Such shaming isn't necessary cos what happened had nothing to do with nairaland.
I was looking forward to when our pre-wedding and wedding shots will grace the headlines in this forum.
We had already done introduction and planning for main event before one yahoo yahoo boy she was messing up with in another city sent me her nudes.
She and her family did everything possible to save the relationship but I would hear nothing of that. To me the relationship was dead.
In fact she was lucky we were neither married nor was she around me when that happened because violence was inevitable with the way it hurt me.
You know what, though I never cheated on her but had I been the one that cheated, the relationship could still have been saved with due diligence on my part and that of my family.

Indulge me for a minute, will you?

Can you clarify the bold?

When there is no Christ in you, everything will be a burden unto the soul


Separated will be better then God would have justify him

I don't get it, your one time sweetheart you stab her multiple times. Oh Jesus. Satan is bastard Hmmmmmm. May her soul rest in peace

Sixfeetbelle:


Emotional maturity comes into play here a lot. How many people do you reckon are emotionally mature? And if we agree that the statistics is few, shouldn't people have common sense when in a committed and defined relationship?

Emotional maturity has loose definition and it appear different in everyone’s eyes but it is something easily recognizable when done. The most pragmatic thing for anyone to do is not to take actions that jeopardize your future. Just because someone has wronged you doesn’t mean you should go down with them.

There are few cases where you throw your own safety out the window and this are for severe cases where someone take someone dare to you or something dear to you e.g your integrity.

But on a general ground when necessary find a way to get bad people suffer the consequences of their actions without getting bad yourself.

I am a big fan of people suffering for the consequences of their actions but not to an extent I become bad so as to make them pay for their own bad expect in exceptional cases.

stanliwise:
Emotional maturity has loose definition and it appear different in everyone’s eyes but it is something easily recognizable when done. The most pragmatic thing for anyone to do is not to take actions that jeopardize your future. Just because someone has wronged you doesn’t mean you should go down with them.

There are few cases where you throw your own safety out the window and this are for severe cases where someone take someone dare to you or something dear to you e.g your integrity.

But on a general ground when necessary find a way to get bad people suffer the consequences of their actions without getting bad yourself.

I am a big fan of people suffering for the consequences of their actions but not to an extent I become bad so as to make them pay for their own bad expect in exceptional cases.

And when I made my comment in that other thread, you guys made it seem like I was pushing for violence. Walking away in cases like this is advisable, I agree, (cause killing them is extreme) but it always depends on how hurt the person was and their maturity. Some people can't handle betrayal at all.