How mgtows behave when they here about marriage.

A husband whose wife dies is about ten times more likely to commit suicide than a wife whose husband dies.
Unemployed men commit suicide at twice the rate of employed men. Among women, there is no difference in the rate of suicide based on whether or not the woman is employed.

MAN SHOT LANDLORD TO DEATH FOR SLEEPING WITH HIS NEWLY WEDDED WIFE ON HIS MATRIMONIAL BED.
This 32 year old man, Babajide Akinsanya, has been arrested by the Osun State Police for shooting his landlord to death while his wife sustained life threatening injuries.
The wife and the landlord were caught on his matrimonial bed when he got back just after 3 hours of leaving for work
The suspect who confessed to the crime said “ l have been suspecting my wife and the landlord for about a month now, so l decided to come back home earlier when l saw a text message my wife sent to a number saying by 11am.
I got in through the kitchen door and went straight to my room where I caught them naked, this is a person my wife would complain about that she disliked not knowing she was saying otherwise.

I’m ready to face the law, l really don’t care.

my comment : Notice that he said the wife complain that she disliked the landlord. That is a cover up women use when cheating

Simping has a lot to do with poor self esteem
For many have simped and fall from the glory of pussies �

Let's continue shall we...

Medical research has been the single biggest contributor to women’s life span increasing almost 50 percent since 1920. Medical research was responsible for a female pill (but no male pill), fewer female deaths in childbirth, and research on female diseases .

Breast cancer receive over 600 percent more funding than prostate
cancer despite men being almost as likely to die from prostate cancer and women breast cancer.

From prostate cancer research we know that a man with a vasectomy might be four times more likely to have prostate cancer than a man without a vasectomy.

A similar connection has been found in mice. Despite these findings, the shortage of research funds has not allowed scientists to explore whether prostate cancer is caused by vasectomies or by something correlated with the vasectomy (e.g., testosterone level). Similarly, testicular cancer is one of the most common cancers in men 15 to 34.

Medical research has concentrated a lot on women .However it neglected the following seventeen areas of men’s health that is not
being adequately remedied by anyone:

*A men’s birth control pill
*Suicide
*Posttraumatic stress syndrome
*Circumcision as a possible trauma-producing experience
*The male midlife crisis
*Dyslexia
*The causes of male violence
*Criminal recidivism
* Homelessness
*Steroid abuse
*Color blindness
*Testicular cancer
*Prostate cancer
*Hearing loss over age 30
*Sexual impotence
*Nonspecific urethritis
*Epididymitis (a disease of the tubes that transmit sperm)
*Klinefelter’s disease, ALD, and other male-only inherited diseases

U can't negotiate genuine desire with a woman.
If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u.

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Dpsychologist:
Simping has a lot to do with poor self esteem

For many have simped and fall from the glory of pussies �

With regards to long term relationship
Do you believe in equitable distribution of financial burden to ease a man's own since the women can assist because she's also working, or do you believe in the man retaining a majority of the financial burden to exert dominance and authority like a Patriach and to at least hedge himself from female innate Hypergamous nature which makes women date upwards men of more socio-economic status and confidence while still maintaining frame


Is it possible to maintain frame and dominance if your wife shares the burden of provisioning performance with you?



These topic is very contentious in the manosphere

I read Dr. Miles Monroe book on understanding a man

The man is kinda red pilled

The man was talking about masculinity crisis and how we men have lost it

My grandfather told me he left his village at 19years

To go to the city to find greener pastures

Today a man of 30 is in his parents house

Eating their food.

Asking for pocket money

Now we have mummy's boy

Women are getting empowered while men de-empowered

Now a man can't boldly say he is the head of the family . When his wife may be earning close to him

This is a paradigm shift that took we men unaware

In the past , the fact u are a man u deserve respect

Men are protectors

Today there are female soldiers, police,Female doctors ,male nurses etc.

What use to be a masculine sphere is no longer so.

Dpsychologist:
Simping has a lot to do with poor self esteem

For many have simped and fall from the glory of pussies �

Very sorry for derailing the trend, but these issue is extremely important for all Redpillers who want to marry, because if gynocentrism enters Nigeria marital laws and divorce laws, most marriages with co-joint monetary responsiblity of men and women would fail

"What women are appalled by today, they will accept tomorrow and demand the day after that"

Even though I am one of the major critic of feminism on nairaland.
I admit that there are reasonable issues raised by feminist such as cases of rape and domestic violence etc
However ,what I have problem is the double standards and use of kangaroo justice

In the average person’s mind domestic violence still means violence against women.

Yet as of 2013, a bibliography of 341 scholarly investigations
(with an aggregate sample size of almost a half-million), finds that both sexes
are about equally violent toward their love partners.

Most of these studies were conducted by female academics who were originally
skeptical that women are equally violent in domestic situations.

These studies
typically found that women acknowledge they are more likely than men to initiate,
and that men and women hurt each other about equally at every level of
violence.

Men, though, are far less likely to call the police, and far more likely to attribute their injuries to a sport accident. And no one can hear what men don’t
say. Thus our image of men as the perpetrators remains the same.

Although men are more likely than women to be victims of all violent crime
except rape, as of 2013, the Violence against Women Act provides $659 million
per year for the next five years to make violence against women a hate crime and
a violation of women’s civil rights, but not violence against men a hate crime
and an act against men’s civil rights.

From myth of male power:

What can we do to stop violence against both sexes? We can start by
decreasing the expectation on men to be our killers and protectors—from our
personal bodyguards to our nation’s bodyguards. And we can stop electing
legislators who feel they must protect women and forget men. The process starts
with remembering that legislators cannot hear what we do not say

Why men need to also be protected

Our desire to give special protection to working women who are of childbearing
years seems especially understandable.

Geneticists are now finding, though, that exposing men of child-creating years to chemical toxins might hurt the children
just as much. Why?

All the eggs a woman has are present and whole before
birth. But to create sperm, cells have to divide. And it is when the cells are dividing and their borders are newly forming that they are especially vulnerable
to toxins and therefore to genetic damage.

A safe sperm gathers no defects.
The causes of 60 to 80 percent of birth defects are still not known; scientists
have discovered approximately 30 of an estimated 900 chemicals that are toxic
to human development. When we consider that it is men who are primarily
exposed to toxic chemicals, we get a sense of the degree to which caring for our
children’s safety also means caring for men’s safety. Elmo Zumwalt, Jr., was
just the tip of the iceberg.

Radiation and chemicals(esp in industry) affects sperms.

But most of these studies are not well publicised .

Those affecting pregnant women and in general women' s health are being publicized.

There is women's health programs, courses and initiatives but no men's health.

Feminism say women were seen as properties and were treated unfairly.

In 1800s, when a woman committed a crime in the United States in the , it was her
husband who served time.

Similarly, under English law, when a family went
into debt, it was the husband who went to debtor’s prison.

When it comes to
male-female issues, men’s unconscious lawmaking was programmed to protect
women. Laws were almost always made by men, but not for men.

When a man and woman jointly commit a crime, but the man is “in charge,” the
woman gets a much shorter sentence or no sentence because she is said to bebrainwashed, powerless, and an unwilling follower. When a woman is in charge
and a man works for her, does his claim to be brainwashed carry any weight?

In
the McMartin Preschool case, Peggy McMartin was the school’s director and
had hired her 19-year-old grandson—a college dropout.13 After working for five
years under his grandmother’s direction, he and his grandmother were both
indicted on fifty-two counts of child molestation. His grandmother’s bail was
one third of his14 and he spent nearly five years in jail before the jury finally
ruled that the two were not guilty. She—the director—spent less than two years
in jail.

BLOODYSPERM:



Very sorry for derailing the trend, but these issue is extremely important for all Redpillers who want to marry, because if gynocentrism enters Nigeria marital laws and divorce laws, most marriages with co-joint monetary responsiblity of men and women would fail

Good question

BLOODYSPERM:







Is it possible to maintain frame and dominance if your wife shares the burden of provisioning performance with you?



These topic is very contentious in the manosphere

Yea this topic is contentious .

Since she works let her also invest in the relationship, it is suppose to be symbiotic not parasitic.

Yes it is possible provided that it is not only money that is your source of dominance.

if only money is what you use as a form of dominance then once she has money more than you it becomes a problem.


Remember hypergamy is not just about money.
Hypergamy can be being better than her in other aspects.



As @amerix said, there are 3 F’s of dating.

- Fossil. - Be older.

- Fortunes. - Be wealthier.

- Fitness. Be fitter.

Better than her not just financially.

Dpsychologist:


Good question

I'm really bothered because these issue is very polarizing, some men believe that since a woman is formally educated like them should be given opportunities to work in the labor market to ease the provisioning burden of their spouses, the problem I have with these is that these joint responsiblity between couples is not factoring the innate Hypergamous nature of women, and men (Redpillers) that espouse these way of thinking don't learn from femcentric Societies like western countries where equal partnership is the norm unlike Africa where the man is expected to be the major breadwinner, but these western societies statistics shows that women of equal or higher earning capacity than their husband are more likely to divorce, what Nigerian Redpillers don't understand is that our cultural state and reasonably societal shaming mechanism including the fact that our marital, divorce and child custody system has not yet turned gynocentric that's why Nigerian women Hypergamy are relatively in check ,once we use legislative power to systematically destroy all our traditional Patriachal strongholds, family unit and marriage as institutions will cease to function effectively

Dpsychologist:


Yea this topic is contentious .

Since she works let her also invest in the relationship, it is suppose to be symbiotic not parasitic.

Yes it is possible provided that it is not only money that is your source of dominance.

if only money is what you use as a form of dominance then once she has money more than you it becomes a problem.


Remember hypergamy is not just about money.
Hypergamy can be being better than her in other aspects.



As @amerix said, there are 3 F’s of dating.

- Fossil. - Be older.

- Fortunes. - Be wealthier.

- Fitness. Be fitter.

Better than her not just financially.

Ok
I was considering only the financial aspect of frame

Dpsychologist:


Yea this topic is contentious .

Since she works let her also invest in the relationship, it is suppose to be symbiotic not parasitic.

Yes it is possible provided that it is not only money that is your source of dominance.

if only money is what you use as a form of dominance then once she has money more than you it becomes a problem.


Remember hypergamy is not just about money.
Hypergamy can be being better than her in other aspects.



As @amerix said, there are 3 F’s of dating.

- Fossil. - Be older.

- Fortunes. - Be wealthier.

- Fitness. Be fitter.

Better than her not just financially.

Any man who doesn't have financial authority in his household can never be respected by his woman.

A man must be the sole financial provider in his home.

That's the number one thing men must focus on and then you learn game and improve ur looks.

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Any man who doesn't have financial authority in his household can never be respected by his woman.

A man must be the sole financial provider in his home.

That's the number one thing men must focus on and then you learn game and improve ur looks.

please how do you learn game ?

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Read pickup artistry books, what PUA videos and practice it. It's an art not a science so there's no formula to it.

Foremostly understand women's nature and sexual mating strategy via the redpill

Skepticus:


Thank you. I understand the cons of going my own way. I've assessed it properly and confirmed that I can bear its consequences. I have an aversion to the issues that constitute the transactional institution called modern marriages and cohabitation (from the nature of the modern woman to the influence of the state at the detriment of men). However, I'm not against men getting married. Men should do, if they want to. The red pill at least makes them know what they are getting into, and lessen the risks.

For your question, I intend to have a kid at some point in time and I have a lady who we have some form of agreement towards this. The terms are perfect for both us.

Wow, this is awesome.

Quite busy now. In a few months, I will be assessing my options as per how exactly my relationship with women will be. I will definitely be seeking your views on particular questions I might have as regards to Mgtow.

Dpsychologist:
From prostate cancer research we know that a man with a vasectomy might be
four times more likely to have prostate cancer than a man without a
vasectomy.

So, it is better not to have a vasectomy, right?

Junnior:
So, it is better not to have a vasectomy, right?

yes