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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by falcon01: 6:53am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:you and your mum where wrong! Must he take something to her? that's greed and the fact that she was angry about that means.... well I don't wanna say Ill of your momma but trust me she was wrong he even tried as he went to see her it's about the Visiting nah the talks and laughs and you shouldn't have listened to her, you shoulda told her it's nothing it's not a must to bring something for her that's just greed. Call him and Apologise if you Care. 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by izzou(m): 6:56am On Jan 08, 2021 |
J111333: The lady's problem is that she can't even think on her own At first, she didn't see anything wrong. But because mama dey vex, she decided to see reason where there was none. The mama was even annoyed that she entertained him without getting Ankara, or Bag in return Chai 30 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by britiko: 7:25am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: The bolded refers to your talents, (what value u have) and not material gifts like bread. That been said, its good to give willingly, not people developing entitlement mentality and when you don't give it becomes an issue. 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 7:36am On Jan 08, 2021 |
britiko: I don't agree with you, but we can understand a verse of the scripture differently, depending on how it was ministered to us. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 7:39am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey, delete the thread, otherwise, foolish people without home training will continue to insult your mother. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Fiscus105(m): 7:39am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hathor5: Why won't she? Going to ur in law place around festive period and you go thr empty handed, Whc type of careless and insensitive fiance is that, such guy will not be sensitive to pay sch fees and dropping food money in future, if she tries to marry such animal Yoruba will say..... Ko moju Ko Mora (one who doesn't know what is shameful) 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DenreleDave(m): 7:44am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Ur mum is a wicked person... Sorry to say.... 20 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DenreleDave(m): 7:44am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Graxie: I love u |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DenreleDave(m): 7:45am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Ur mum no try.. Honestly.. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Fiscus105(m): 7:50am On Jan 08, 2021 |
iamL: For him to come to in-law house, not his own martenal house o ,empty handed not even when he is yet to marry their daughter Is enough to know one character, don't forget he also got angry instead of remorse when she told him how her mother felt, such fiance is animal in human skin. If she ever marries him she will regret 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Juliearth(f): 7:51am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I think you handled the issue quite immaturely. Your mum complained to you, but is that the reason to call him and complain, moreso, over an issue as trivial as this? You have succeeded in painting your mum in a bad light and your family as hungry. No man would consciously want to associate with such a family when choice is never a problem. If your relationship survives this hurdle, in the future, learn to be tactful when lodging valid complaints. PS Boyfriend and not meal ticket Boyfriend and not husband Boyfriend and not ATM 36 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Juliearth(f): 7:54am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Chujor1634: Exactly my point. She shouldn't have called him. A wise woman would try to change her mum's perspective about the issue on ground and not do otherwise. 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Juliearth(f): 7:56am On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: I wonder why she didn't give him credence for paying her mother a visit. Only a man who means business would do that. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Fiscus105(m): 8:16am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Juliearth:Means business? Can he do the business successful? That's question you should ask urself A wise mother had seeeeeeeeeen that, if a guy that has not entered their house completely, can be so insensitive like this,.......how much is Eva? Soap, etc. The fiance action is enough to know he not matured enough to be calling responsible man,.... A man ready to carry responsibilities of wife and kids, just like you and others are complaining. If he bought something and mother complained it was too small, that would have been a different story. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 8:17am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Thank you. I don't know why people type things on nairaland they wouldn't do in reality. I asked some guys here if they can dare go to an in-law empty handed, one said he would, the other was just going round in circle. For me, I can't even dare to do that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:I've tried to delete it. It's not working. How do I go about it? Okay. Thanks |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DrayZee: 8:24am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I don’t think you can do it yourself. Mail a mod to help you delete it. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 8:24am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: If you can't, request the mods to help you remove the topic. Dominique, your help is needed to remove a topic of sensitive nature. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:26am On Jan 08, 2021 |
rtdCivilservant:why not call it off yourself? Nonsense |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 8:27am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Don't reply anyone anymore...you'll only get yourself worked up. Just wait for the topic to be removed. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Raalsalghul: 8:32am On Jan 08, 2021 |
emmaodet: The Op go don dey regret why she bring the topic come Nairaland. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 8:37am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Now it's about 'around the festive period'. Why didn't he buy every member of the family a gift, right? Do you know what is shameful? Mother's entitlement mentality and lack of hospitality. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:38am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105:thanks. You're right. It's festive season and that's the more reason it became a problem. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105:thanks. Especially when it's festive season 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Depressed101: 8:42am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:he's opinion doesn't count, so why did you come here... Incase you lost the definition of a gift.. Here, see it below; a thing given willingly to someone without payment; a present. You be hoelosho wey your moma dey task your husband for bill? I'm sorry this your behavior is a typical entitlement mentality that we always talk about, and it will hinder many things from you if you don't drop it... I suggest you apologize to your husband to be, because he is not obligated to bring a gift to your mother, God does your moma know if he has the cash to buy a gift at that time? Your moma don marry your father, no let her deprive you of your own o... 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:I'm not regretting. As a matter of fact. I'm having fun |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by emmaodet: 8:46am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: Hahaha Abi oooo. What a life, what a family. How are things at your end bro? 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:46am On Jan 08, 2021 |
emmaodet:Omo dey alright. The thread just dey help expose all the worthless women we've got on NL. 23 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:48am On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:You're so dumb. Just because u have access to internet via operamini free mb, you have the liberty to type trash. I'm guessing you are a teenager who comes here to catch cruise, so I won't waste my time and energy on u 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by emmaodet: 8:49am On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: It's well bro 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 8:50am On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Nne, don't. It is what they expect you to do...don't give them the satisfaction any further. |
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