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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by demmymoney(m): 8:13am On Jan 18|
Everything is because she wasn't sexually attracted to the man b4 getting married
She just wanted to settle down with the beta man all because he's ready for marriage and he's financially stable, but the sexual attraction is not there
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by alizma: 8:15am On Jan 18|
Hassanmaye:I am there too bro
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:17am On Jan 18|
Tell me more
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Pacesetter123(m): 8:17am On Jan 18|
Teleprompter:Can you through more light on your last paragraph?
What becomes so much more available to a woman after marriage?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Orlasunkanmy: 8:20am On Jan 18|
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kelvinbako: 8:21am On Jan 18|
some women see sex as pleasure...while some see sex as stressful work....
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by weighadsef: 8:22am On Jan 18|
polygamy is not by force it a necessity. It is there to solve so many societal problems. Non of of the prophets of God preached against it. Men with single wife are more likely to die young now compare to our grandfather. The old generations that come from polygamy were successful than the new generations of nowadays because our mothers Xfactors . Most of our leaders were from polygamous family and there better off. Polygamy is for men anyway is not for women because all women are born to relegate men to nothing at any fucking time especially when you're old. However, money is not the key in keeping family because with only one man, one woman and one child, you're not guaranteed automatic success. Let keep in mind that polygamy is to rescue our society from diseases, adultery, fornication, DNA test, infidel, bad belle to other mankind, immorality e.t.c. Imagine those countries that we copy, they change women like cloth and fornicate at will (e.g. Homosexual). Now, let imagine of those countries that practice polygamy to ours... They are far away better off.
Don't let us be misinformed, polygamy is not for half baked men of nowadays who is more like a woman or children.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Coolgent: 8:22am On Jan 18|
Oga u have said it all.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Pacesetter123(m): 8:24am On Jan 18|
bizme:Very mature responses without any abusive words typical of most replies to mentions in NAIRALAND.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:24am On Jan 18|
A lot of factors in which stress is the major one.
Check out this thread on nairaland to know some of the things you truly need as a married couple.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by spiritedtete: 8:24am On Jan 18|
I read your assertion... you can't be more correct in this... you are absolutely right...
I have asked questions about who made the rule of one man one woman... they said GOD.. they sad bible lol... also did bible condemn polygamy in any way... we have examples of great men in the bible who are polygamous.. I tell my wife with all due respect.. if i chose to marry morethan one.. no one can question me.. and i am not giving anyone a divorce.
My major contribution as the husband is to make sure everybody in my home feel protected and grows in there various life endeavors.
But as a man... you need to understand human purposes... before even trying to walk with any even being as a friend.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Pacesetter123(m): 8:27am On Jan 18|
CalliDora1:Good opinion there, coming from a woman cos they wear the shoes n know where it pinches.
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:27am On Jan 18|
One look at ya profile shows say you go gimme big stress...
See all those long ass Epistles you wrote na
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 18|
Women enjoy sex, but it is more valuable to them as currency to buy commitment. And the fact that sex reduces drastically post marriage; except in very rare cases, and practically always because the wife doesn't want it as often; proves that they may not like it as often as men do. Most husbands are willing to have sex everyday. It would be a rare wife who would accommodate that for any prolonged period of time.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Pacesetter123(m): 8:32am On Jan 18|
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by missyblissy: 8:35am On Jan 18|
How do you know am not married?
To each its own. Sometimes women tends to hold sex when they are not satisfied. You don't come and hump and go like. She's a horse without feelings. Treat her like the Queen she is and You will see her eat you in bed......
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by gabicon: 8:36am On Jan 18|
It all begins with the basic needs of both partners in a marriage. A man's primary need in a relationship is sex while a woman requires affection, most times the amount of sex a man gets is dependent on the amount of affection the woman gets. This theory can be disregarded if the relationship has been based on finance from the beginning. So when a man is trying to get a woman he goes through heaven and earth to please her, he showers her with affection, gifts, his time, money etc when he gets married to her, she becomes a piece of property to him. The woman simply wants the things that made her agree to be with the man in the first place her affection bank account has been severely depleted hence the desire to be with the man is somewhat not enticing.
Another thing is that the coming of children changes the dynamics of a marriage, improper planning for the results that follow can be detrimental to the relationship. Most men tend to leave all the responsibility of caring for the children and the home to the women, some don't even deem it fit to hire help for their wives. so a severely tired woman who goes to work cares for her home cares for her husband and kids won't want to have sex at night cause that's probably the only time she can rest.
While some other women have health issues like low libido.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Darlyton: 8:37am On Jan 18|
funny how I love and same time disagree with your comment... making sense, but I disagree..
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by dave234(m): 8:40am On Jan 18|
No need to trouble your self on the woman, if she stop making sex,find omoolosho
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Mindlog: 8:40am On Jan 18|
It is the shortened form of Nymphomania.
Both nymphomania (female) and satyriasis (male) are grouped under hypersexuality.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by payloader(m): 8:43am On Jan 18|
Many times, even the men are the cause. You stopped all the things you usually did with her when you were newly married. Besides, pre-marital sex is also a huge contributor. When you guys were not married, you were so busy f..king the hell out of each other. Now you are exhausted, after you have legitimized the union. This is very wrong, and should stop. You don't take a car home for testing, before paying for it, so why are you demanding sex from him/her before solemnisation? The Bible says, "Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled"; Heb 13:4. If we had been doing the right thing this issue wouldn't have become a global pandemic.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by dataslid: 8:45am On Jan 18|
LoL that's quite funny, but that's works better. I don't even know the essence of marriage self, humans with a lot of social construct and abstraction. What does a man really gains from getting married, that can't be gotten outside of marriage? That's the question?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by dataslid: 8:49am On Jan 18|
Abi now, those one's won't tire ur pocket and give weird excuse on the other hand no try though, not cause religion
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:49am On Jan 18|
Polygamy is not for everyone. If you're a weak man, I wouldn't advice you to go for it. Also, there are rules you must adhere to. If you don't know them, stay out. But as a system, it is very viable. Virtually all societies have developed to accept polygamy as a norm; with the exception of the ancient Greeks and Romans from where monogamy was imported into Western culture, and from there to Africa.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ysalli: 8:50am On Jan 18|
This is great!!!
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by soojar: 8:51am On Jan 18|
Don't mind me, no research conducted to arrive at that. Just trying to drive home my point
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Flamemignon1(m): 8:54am On Jan 18|
Sex for most women after marriage is seen as a chore and no longer a hobby
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Prolific007: 8:56am On Jan 18|
The Time Now Is Entirely Different From That Of Our Father's And Grand Father's, So Inessence Marryin' More Than One Woman Is Greed And Would Only Complicate Matters For You In The Long Run Due To Your Insatiable Wants. Sex Is A Need But When You Feel It Has Become A Want You Will Just Have To Expect The Resultant Effect Of It. I Wouldn't Be Proud To Give Birth To Children And Abandon Them Like Rodents, Because That Is Typical Of Any Polygamous Man And Family, Since You Said Earlier Too That You Gonna Pretend To Love Them All. So Lemme Ask You A Quick Question; Can You Love More Than One Person?? Please Be Sincere To Yourself
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by soojar: 8:56am On Jan 18|
From experience and undocumented research
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by goodnews2017: 8:58am On Jan 18|
Sex is a necessity in every marriage. Without adequate sex, there might be friction in that marriage. So invariably , sex is a lubricant that keeps marriage running. Without it, marriage can be knocked- out. So women should develop reasonable interest in sex after marriage while men should also endeavour to exhibit so much love towards their wives in order for peace and joy to reign in the home. Conclusively, there is no reason why a woman should deny her husband sex whenever he needs it, it is not healthy for the marriage.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:58am On Jan 18|
Lol. I understand, it is difficult to get rid of years of indoctrination. Always open your mind to reason, and not to what you've been forced to accept as truth. If something makes sense to you, and you still don't accept it, there's a flaw in your way of thinking. Get rid of it. I really don't mean that as an insult, so please don't take offence. I mean it as life advice. When you get rid of bias, prejudice, and unreasonable 'truths', the world really opens up to you, and your life becomes full of options.
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