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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jan 18|
Everything wrong in this your write up is the fact that you can never buy love.
That is where you got it all totally wrong.
Neither sex nor money can ever buy love.
Marrying more than one wife is good when it comes to satisfying the sexual urge but,it is a major chaos on its own.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:47am On Jan 18|
Wasn't this what I was telling some NL gehs here? They complained of tiredness all the time but you get house help, do house chores and all that and they will still not agree.
Get a second wife or kuku get a concubine. When a man is readily available for sex,women weaponise it.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by tarantino1: 11:47am On Jan 18|
All I see is excuses as to why they are fat. It doesn't change the fact that they are. Anybody serious about fitness pregnancy or not will get back in shape after.
When you can't be bothered to try，dont expect your husband to care
Oh, and by the way men's testosterone gradually reduces every year from the age of 40 which means it gets frigging harder to build muscle and lose fat as they age. We can all blame the goddamn hormones
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:48am On Jan 18|
yeman1:Does she give you a ex anytime you want it?
Does she give you peace?
These will determine what I will say
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by oluwatooni(f): 11:48am On Jan 18|
luminouz:I hear you
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:52am On Jan 18|
Maybe...but that's what women use
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:52am On Jan 18|
You watch Mexican and Turkish love dramas a lot don't you?
By love, I obviously wasn't referring to the romantic hocus pocus that women read about in chick flits and which doesn't exist. I was talking about real love; which is attention, commitment and provision. Yes, you can absolutely use sex to buy that. Men don't want your 'love' either. They want sex, respect and deference/submission. Yes, they can use money to buy that too.
Polygamous homes can be joyful ones if you keep to the rules, and if the man is emotionally and financially capable. Ask Ned Nwoko's wives.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:53am On Jan 18|
See her mouth...
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:54am On Jan 18|
ArcFresky:A nymph? She will fvck all ur frnds nd neighbours
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by tarantino1: 11:56am On Jan 18|
If no be say my uncle na small mumu, that marriage no suppose last two weeks.
Na when there admit am for hospital because she break e hand with Pistle plus hbp na people for outside kon know wetin dey sup
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 18|
I'm glad to see that some women still accept that the traditional system is the best...especially on NL.
I was influenced by my grandmothers. Both my grandfathers were polygamists. I saw how much my grandmothers idolised them even after their deaths. They had none of the romantic worries that plague modern man.
By the way, I sense that your 'almost' is just an attempt to hold on tenaciously to past beliefs.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bizme: 11:59am On Jan 18|
Except my wife wouldn't be able to step into my own shoes and perform my roles for even one day. You see, everyone has his/her roles in the scheme of things. :-)
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bizme: 12:01pm On Jan 18|
A little punctuation might have helped the point you were trying to make.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Akasammyoka(m): 12:07pm On Jan 18|
Hassanmaye:dont know we are just negative about polygamy, it was really helpful then
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by tarantino1: 12:09pm On Jan 18|
Mama d mama
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by lillyontop(m): 12:09pm On Jan 18|
Good day house I just finished reading 16 charters on the above topic and I just want to say something about it and mine is going to be a long note but just don't mind the typo... Thanks to everyone who contributed to it I see reasons to every point mentioned but I will say these polygamous is a bad idea, might be good for the father as a tools to control his wives and sexual desires it now goes down to the kids I am a product of polygamous and wish I never come out of there because every mother has an advise to tell each other kids like for example cos a child is from same father different mother when one child has the opportunity to help his sibling from another mother the mother will tell you haven't finish helping your siblings you want to go out to help another one that's one 2 the children only love them selves when the father is alive but when the father is gone separation sets in before you say some do stay together forever on rear cases maybe 3 out of 10... God bless the male and female gender but I will tell you guys something, there nothing that's really perfect on earth.... Do the best you can do and leave the rest for God.
When growing up with my dad due to the numbers of wives he had, made me not to like women at all, cos I have these sense of believe that every female gender is a gold digger either young or old but I am still in the process of changing that behaviour before the females here attack me oh.... My dad's last wife was my junior in secondary school and there's nothing I can do about that also when growing up I understand something the older kids looks expired and the younger ones looks trending so most times when I ask for stuff from dad he will like say wait let me settle your younger ones first and the remaining I will give you that's bad but if it one wife the man will definitely know how to settle the mother down and talk to her and trash what issue that needs to be settled so the older one will still understand whats happening....
Am going to be 34 these year I have no girlfriend or someone I am looking up to get married soon why my mentality is till very coined from the home I came from it's not like I don't have what it take to get married oh, I am self employed, have 3 houses to my name and other stuff, so before you call your self a man learn to control your urges for sex and always draw a line down to the kids you are giving birth to that's the main objective as a man and for the female gender it's not easy taking care of grown men and little kids at the same time but atleast put in for more effort and for the guy Na una get most of issue, since when you marry your wife and she start having kids when have you tell her today is a cook free day let me take you out or when have you toasted her all over again to make I few special, men are moved by what they see but for women they are moved by what they hear and also feeling abeg make them feel special chat up your wife for no reason, kiss her for no reason.. communicate with her and tell her what will make her smile 24 /7 and look weather the door to Jerusalem go close for one day....lol it's not my hand writing oh
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bizme: 12:13pm On Jan 18|
You are kind. Thanks a lot. I am your fan too now. :-)
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Emperorlanky: 12:13pm On Jan 18|
Just laughing at you. Is this not the same reason men who cheats give?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bizme: 12:17pm On Jan 18|
Okay on a serious note the physique degeneration you alluded to affects women more than men. Most Nigerian women, even before marriage, have already developed a large stomach. As a pharmacist I can tell you for free that so many Nigerian ladies and women actively patronize drug stores for drugs to fatten them up... Most of these drugs eventually render them shapeless. Some Nigerian women associate fat/big size with respect.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by yeman1(m): 12:29pm On Jan 18|
he he he ! it should be on her term, if not na rape she go shout oh
Peace or what did you say ? only God can give you peace my dear. sometimes I dont wanna come home he he
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Sterope(f): 12:31pm On Jan 18|
I am curious. Let's see
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Sterope(f): 12:32pm On Jan 18|
The bolded is also very true.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ArcFresky(m): 12:33pm On Jan 18|
You mean can she stay faithful to me?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by yeman1(m): 12:40pm On Jan 18|
of course i am, even if she buys something from outside she would still collect the money money.
In fact is good to have a beautiful chick outside to cool you down especially when husband is active. I stayed for 8 months without it when she was pregnant , she said doctor said .and agreed and after birth she believes it would continue like this,, you wan kill me ? body no be fire wood oh!
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:41pm On Jan 18|
Besides, a woman is only what her husband trains her to be.
Confidently and everlastingly spitting thrash.
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by concept65: 12:43pm On Jan 18|
No it has nothing to do with past beliefs. I wouldn't share my husband because I love him a lot and I perform my wifely duties wholeheartedly. If I lack somewhere I would rather like him to let me know and I will do my best to improve in that area, same as I let him know when Im not satisfied or unhappy and I give him an opportunity to correct it or improve. I love having sex with him still after all these years and he never has to beg for it, and I know attraction and romance fizzles out after sometime between a couple, we just both need to work together to always re-candle our love and romance. No need to bring outsiders.
Most importantly, my peace of mind is right up there at the top of my priority list. I wouldn't have peace of mind in a polygamous marriage, I would be lying to myself and the man.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by yeman1(m): 12:44pm On Jan 18|
In my own opinion, if not side chick, some would have died of konji oh.
Despite provided for home but still complained. my own sef dey do am. me just dey look ni oh.. tilld time will come
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:45pm On Jan 18|
Between Christ and Solomon, who is worthy of more emulation? The person wey give wisdom, abi the person wey dem give? The pure one redeeming the sinner - or the other way round?
If any Christian should emulate anybody, Christ tops. Died a virgin, focused on purpose, SIMP, because yeah, if we are to analyze his behaviors, he'd pass for the person y'all call simps. And finally, he respected and elevated women.
Again, stop yarning okoto meow meow.
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 18|
I understand your position, though I don't really support extra marital affairs. I think it's far better to make it official and give the outside lady all her full right to recognition. What if she gets pregnant for example? I don't really endorse this exploitation of women for sex without marrying them.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jan 18|
Christ wasn't renowned for his wisdom, Solomon was. And if you know it's better to die as a virgin, why do your pastors hold matchmaking events?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 18|
I hope that works out for you.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:53pm On Jan 18|
Lmaoooo. Who gave Solomon wisdom na? No be the God wey give up his Son? Christ followed what God wanted - A Being wiser than Solomon is.
This is in a Christian context and you were addressing Christians... Christ OBVIOUSLY knows, etc., better than Solomon. And Christ was pure till the end.
Whatever pastas do ain't none of my biz. Who is the model we should emulate? Christ, Daddy GOs, Abraham, Solomon, or Paul?
Marrying ain't required in the Bible. So yeah, dying as a virgin or an eunuch ain't wrong.
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