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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Oloristarr(f): 5:52pm On Feb 17, 2021
Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!


Baba u de give ursef unnecessary issues and if she had sex recently what does it change
She told u how she feels about u now u are still doubting asking questions u sef can’t answer
Las las u go still break her heart so take her word and respect it
Man up and stop finding resolve that’s not needed
Perhaps sex shouldn’t be on ur mind
Met a virgin and she has had numerous relationships that ended cause of sex funny thing is I never tot about it I seriously loved the gal and one day she confessed that when she met me she was tired of the whole sex issue and decided to break it I kinda felt used (second time it happened to me)she always tot I was hard on the outside so a man like me can’t love but it’s all a misconception ladies have about me so it was d basic purpose of dating me so we moved on fine and then had sex and I wasn’t happy after all cause I felt I wouldn’t give her what she wanted and then she would feel it’s cause I finally had sex with her...I still love her even though it’s been years without her
Well time happened and we faced life plus distance and we parted but still hold each other in high regards
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Irennediva(f): 5:54pm On Feb 17, 2021
EzinneNwachukwu:
My breasts are too heavy, please can you help me carry it for 30 minutes?
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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by OdenKelechi(m): 5:58pm On Feb 17, 2021
I honestly don't know what advise you're looking for.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by OdenKelechi(m): 5:58pm On Feb 17, 2021
[quote author=DaddyRochie1642 post=99144776]To Slap this guy dey hungry me[/quot

I swear down
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Hollawayn05(m): 5:59pm On Feb 17, 2021
Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

U said you deffrent
Guy You are not
All the same
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Pacyrus(m): 6:00pm On Feb 17, 2021
chatinent:


Story for Zeus.



Same story told by 99.9% of girls worldwide to sugarcoat their flirtatious nature.


Same finishing.



Same story told to unsuspecting fooled boyfriends wanting adventure.




A tale of two fools fooling themselves.
I like your sense of humor. Your brain dey hot! �
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by lenghtinny(m): 6:01pm On Feb 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


As if all the minors being raped daily across the country won't end up as someone's girlfriends someday.
Of course they do.......

But then too many cooks already spoiled the broth...

These female scammers makes it very difficult to distinguish between the wheat and the chaff....

Also when you look at the op's storyline, an experienced guy in the dating game would spot the same lines that majority always use...

Lines like other guys left her because of cookie, the new guy is different from other guys and bla bla black sheep....

We know as e dey go......
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Celense(m): 6:08pm On Feb 17, 2021
Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!
Is not as if you really need the sex, oga you need it & that's why you are a man. If you don't have sex with her & she lives you for another man tomorrow, she will definitely use it against you (you are not man enough). You might regret it for the rest of your life.

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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Exodora: 6:11pm On Feb 17, 2021
Sometimes I wonder if everybody in this country have a brain touch .
You really think you will get the answer you are looking for here right.
The same people spitting nonsense here are same people that bring down their wedding pictures here almost every week for us to congratulate them , they wanna tell us they met their partners' as virgins.
Stop listening to every advices you read on social media.
If you like her why not give it a try , remember don't break her to pieces if throughly you know you don't have anything to do with her but sex.
You can always walk away is never late many at times things like this bring hindrance depending on the individual you offended .
Don't let sex destroy your life.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 17, 2021
KingAlabi:
. grin

Lemme oh, I was raped angry



VAR check; you touch boobi , whether naa boobi to hand or hand to boobi

decision: No Rape

Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by EzinneNwachukwu(f): 6:16pm On Feb 17, 2021
[quote author=Irennediva post=99165867][/quote] OMG, shocked wtf!!! Why does your pussy lips look like a dry burnt hibiscus flower? My own is totally pink, phat, juicy and sexy, that's why these my married men won't leave me alone grin
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by don4real: 6:17pm On Feb 17, 2021
Take it easy, not all girls are like your girlfriend

chatinent:


Story for Zeus.



Same story told by 99.9% of girls worldwide to sugarcoat their flirtatious nature.


Same finishing.



Same story told to unsuspecting fooled boyfriends wanting adventure.




A tale of two fools fooling themselves.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by DaInferno(m): 6:17pm On Feb 17, 2021
seanwilliam:
dont you think it is sensible to keep shut than to dey give unreasonable suggestion
i no come this world only to observe. some people make things happen, some wish things happen, and some don't even know wtf's going on. Some people don't learn unless you chirp in an idea- the worl
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Sixfeetbelle: 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2021
pocohantas:
Everyday on frontpage there is a thread of a minor getting raped. Yet when these girls grow and share their experiences, same men will call them liars.

I have said it before, any NIGERIAN man that tries that with me, even if it costs me my life, I will find him and KILL him in the most gruesome way possible. Then I go home a fulfilled woman. Ediots. I don’t blame you lots, I blame the women reporting to police. If many were like me, people would be waking to y’all mutilated bodies on the streets.

I think the problem with rape cases on this forum, generally, is that Nigerian men are very much un-sensitized/desensitized about what rape is, hence their obvious apathy to rape cases.

This story reminds me of a topic that was on front page weeks ago. A couple watched a crime channel about a random scenario of a lady being raped by six hefty men. She fought against the rapists and was killed. When asked, the husband was shocked his wife admitted to being okay with the rape option rather than death, and brought it here for contributions. Did you know most were of the view that since "it's just sex", she shouldn't see it as a big deal and neither should the husband. In fact, they kept pointing out that for the sake of her family, she should endure, after all, it was just sex with six guys one after the other (using gangbangs as reference). It was then I understood men's psyche, especially of those on this forum.

A) Tell a guy you were raped. Explain to him the circumstances surrounding the case and this is what his brain interpretes it as.

Average Nigerian man: I just had sex with a guy I didn't know and didn't like. He wasn't gentle at all so I didn't cum


It's as basic as that. They never think of the emotional and psychological effects rape has on a person because they don't see it the same way the victim sees it.

B) Tell him you were raped as a child.

Average Nigerian man: As a child, your pvssy is too small to accommodate a preeq so there's no way it did any damage on you since it wouldn't fit. Besides, if it happened years ago, you should have forgotten about it by now. Adults, as a rule, hardly remember stuff that happened to them as children


It doesn't matter how you say it or what you say, it doesn't matter how angry you get over their insensitivity, the truth remains, the average Nigerian man hasn't been exposed to the rape events like their female counterpart and will mostly never see it the way it truly is. That rape is not merely just a 'tasteless, boring sex'

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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by EzinneNwachukwu(f): 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2021
Hassanmaye:

This life no balance husband dick small while neighbors dick will be big and so sweet. Hmm
Stop eeeeettt!!! I'm at work. You just reminded me that My iPhone Pro Max is longer than my boyfriend's dick. Why do rich fine boys have small dicks, why? cry

Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Irennediva(f): 6:23pm On Feb 17, 2021
EzinneNwachukwu:
OMG, shocked wtf!!! Why does your pussy lips look like a dry burnt hibiscus flower? My own is totally pink, phat, juicy and sexy, that's why these my married men won't leave me alone grin
continue deceiving yourself. you think I don't know you. you disguised yourself thinking I will not find out whom you are. I know your real monicker on nairaland
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mairice125: 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2021
CalliDora1:
You're clearly not ready for responsibilites from your statement but that tiny rope between your legs is trying to help you do the thinking by pushing you to have sex with her "just to know if she's telling you the truth". And she's told you if anything happens not to leave her but you still want to go ahead knowing full well that you won't commit to her.

My sincere advice.

Op, do you have the money to cater for a family now? Use your brain, leave sex out of this relationship. Sex is overrated because after everything, your senses will come back and reality will strike you hard, by what time it is too late.
This is how you bring problems for yourselves just because of five mins madness.
high value woman ♥️���

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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Coinbased: 6:24pm On Feb 17, 2021
Girls are liars
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Sixfeetbelle: 6:25pm On Feb 17, 2021
lenghtinny:

Of course they do.......

But then too many cooks already spoiled the broth...

These female scammers makes it very difficult to distinguish between the wheat and the chaff....

Also when you look at the op's storyline, an experienced guy in the dating game would spot the same lines that majority always use...

Lines like other guys left her because of cookie, the new guy is different from other guys and bla bla black sheep....

We know as e dey go......

As you Nigerian men as a whole have any plans to separate the wheat from the chaff in the first place.

We know how e dey go.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Irennediva(f): 6:27pm On Feb 17, 2021
EzinneNwachukwu:
Stop eeeeettt!!! I'm at work. You just reminded me that My iPhone Pro Max is longer than my boyfriend's dick. Why do rich fine boys have small dicks, why? cry
your real monicker is in Hassanmaye followers. you bash men a lot on nairaland
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by EzinneNwachukwu(f): 6:29pm On Feb 17, 2021
Irennediva:
continue deceiving yourself. you think I don't know you. you disguised yourself thinking I will not find out whom you are. I know your real monicker on nairaland
Who's this one? Did someone drug you, because you're definitely hallucinating undecided

Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by bigfish3k: 6:30pm On Feb 17, 2021
12+7=17 yrs
That means she is still a minor, so don't indulge.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Irennediva(f): 6:32pm On Feb 17, 2021
EzinneNwachukwu:
Who's this one? Did someone drug you, because you're definitely hallucinating undecided
I will not mention your name o, but a little description about you. you always bash men on nairaland. you insult men a lot on nairaland. if Men could remember a lady that always insult them, here she is"
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by consultancy: 6:34pm On Feb 17, 2021
chatinent:


Story for Zeus.



Same story told by 99.9% of girls worldwide to sugarcoat their flirtatious nature.


Same finishing.



Same story told to unsuspecting fooled boyfriends wanting adventure.




A tale of two fools fooling themselves.
brutal, very brutal embarassed
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mairice125: 6:37pm On Feb 17, 2021
CalliDora1:


What's the gain in having sex with someone you're not married to? Youll only lose.

You guys seriously need to change your mentality.
Dora ,there are so many low value men out there ,because they can't control their urge .We live in the world were sex is painted has the most important thing in life .Take a look at the porn industry , Hollywood ,. Nolywood they are all built on sex ,they sell so wide because they have worked on men Psyche thinking "Ejaculation" is the ultimate.Sexual Energy is the most powerful energy in the world,it has the power to bring in another human!!,Chanellling this sexual energy to other activities would make most men write their name in sands of time .Tesla Nikola when celibate all is life ,and achieved his dreams , Mohamed Ali abstained from sex for two years and became a world champion .Sex is sooooo overated ,there is life before and after sex .Cheers.Dont mind my English
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Reelmii: 6:41pm On Feb 17, 2021
Philipmighty:
I have all the necessary things to take care oh her if in case something happens, but I'm confused she might be lieing to me. I believe that's what some girls do tell to cover up there flirtatious life.
the thing is, u can't get wat u seek here.. do ur findings about her secretly while the relationship is on

na u know the girl we dont know her, people's experiences may not the same as urs so don't think that those advising u to leave the girl are giving you the best advice


ask questions about the girl, that is, if u really want more than sex from her. pay her surprise visit at her family house and while u are there, be very observant about how the family behave, to know if they will be good in laws

sex no dey run, una go do una go tire. but if u dont want anything aside sex, no need to stress urself to find out things, just fvck and move on
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by joelala(m): 6:46pm On Feb 17, 2021
hmmmmmmm KIDS!!!! look here son, you dont ask a girl for sex, you make her beg for it! Kiss her, touch her in the most sensitive spots and leave her hanging......go get yourself a side piece and get laid on the steady. Whenever she comes over to your place, touch her and torture her sexually, then sit back and watch what happens......Never beg or chase a girl for sex, real players ATTRACT SEX! Thank me later son.

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Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Feb 17, 2021
majamajic:
Meaning the girl is just 17

At her age it's possible she is telling u the truth

Just go price the current market price of baby foods and Pampers , then continue

Raped @7
12 years after the rape: 7+12= 19.

bigfish3k:
12+7=17 yrs
That means she is still a minor, so don't indulge.

How u take do the sum? angry
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by chatinent: 6:51pm On Feb 17, 2021
Realitykay:



Why do guys quickly judge and conclude on such a sensitive topic? Do we even consider the psychological effects of rape on minors? Bros, sex is not food, I would rather suggest you go on a journey to rehabilitate her if truly you care.


Not when you can't differentiate which is a lie.


That story don cast na.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by chatinent: 6:51pm On Feb 17, 2021
frankson1:



I don't know why they always come up with this rape story. That was how one told me that she was driving out with her sister but when the car went bad, some guys came to rape her and shot her sister on the leg. Very lame.


Lol.

No creature lies more than girls.
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Angelacruz: 6:52pm On Feb 17, 2021
I swear...
Sickmod:

Epic image....
The first person to comment has said it all
Re: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by EzinneNwachukwu(f): 6:52pm On Feb 17, 2021
Irennediva:
your real monicker is in Hassanmaye followers. you bash men a lot on nairaland
I Bleep men almost every day, why will I bash them? I love men with big fat long very strong dicks, they satisfy my wildest cravings. Men pay my bills, give me expensive thrills and pleasurable chills. I like men, the world would be useless without men, real masculine men, not simps tho. I don't like sissy simps, they turn me off. I just collect their gifts and friendzone them. This is what I do to masculine men tongue
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