Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

I say NO! to my gf err time
If she dies she dies

Fahdiga:
When a fish brain comments it is easy to know. so any man that approaches a girl will automatically inherit the girl's problems

Don't mind d mumu girl, our girls and their entitlement mentality.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Dumbest shiii ever

Wahala be like otapuapua

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

I'll tell you what a big sister who loves you will tell you:

We all see our birthdays as special days, we deserve happiness but not on anybody's inconvenience.

As a partner to her, you can do whatever bit you can to show that you care. Even if it's a #500 naira gift you can afford, it's the mind behind the gift that matters, not the gift in itself.

A wise woman will build wealth with her partner, not squander it. What's all the frivolity for? You must be a spendthrift yourself for wanting to throw a party and she was so ungrateful to be adamant about her hair!!!!!

Red flags flashing everywhere and you can't see them? Or you're choosing to ignore?

I'm privileged to work with families and I see the genesis of some men's problems is choosing the wrong woman.

Ask God for the spirit of discernment to be able to tell your Peter from your Judas. You may pardon Peter, he only had a bad day. Let your Judas go because he has a bad heart.

A word is enough..

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Bros, you don try. You were prepared to do all the things you listed above and the only one u left out is making her act up. She should do her worst.

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

so becos he approached her for love and relationship he should go broke? If she doesn't HV money to do her own hair let her go and barb it and stop making it seem we follow men for money alone biko.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

better let her go cos I had same experience she is not for the future ohhh she is just for today and once you get broke she will just life you and still blame you and no Matter what you do she will never appriciate cos she is feeling entitled already

MISSCONGENIALITY:
So there are guys here who do this for babes?
Or is OPstilla secondary school boy?
With the way you guys label ladies here, who would ha e thought one single guy will be doing all these for one girl?
Keep it up man. Your reward is in heaven.
Happy birthday to your babe in advance.
You better make her happy if you have the money or someone else would.

I feel like doing those for u but i don't want my reward to be in heaven.

She said she doesn't need me in it anymore.

Obey this bro.


It's good news.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Only an idiot will take this advice.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Are you her father?

if she wants to die. ehhh allow her to die na. don't disturb us please

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Go and quickly put a fine girl's picture on your whatsapp status.

Take one for the male team. Do it for us!

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

so.becos he approached her for love and relationship, he should empty his bank account for a woman. If she is unable to make her hair, she should kindly barb the hair.

jimi4us:


God will not allow me meet someone like you in Jesus name

Amen,God will not allow me meet your type who incapable of taking care of your woman, I reject it and I jump and pass

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

may be the guy that has hotel was not in picture then

Commotfornigeri:


You must be a prostitute

You are the prostitute,its not my fault you can't take care of your woman

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Ooh!! She is going to sleep over at her friend's place..Seems the real owner of the Congo is coming to shine it...maybe u are assistant...

Usually assistant is the usual ATM or pounder if the owner is not in town.

Back to the matter, so u want organise a party for her?....smh...As your wife, abii ur sister or your mom?

U guys keep on making same mistake.. If u want to spend on her as babe weh deh hold body and soul with u..Plan a small getaway... Of two days..convert the party money to hotel reservation, buy the drinks and food u two will be needing to enjoy yourselves... And go on to have mind blowing fun...if not, u go organise party to be ridiculed..

We are here to read the next thread... On how she went to her family house on emergency from the party venue... if u know you know.

A man has to know when to say "No" and stand by it.

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or she is someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

you've said it all

Op must be a Grade one Simp. Doing all of that for a Hoe you haven't Wifed yet?.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

I always heard that Nigeria girls are so useless, i think your comment really convince me enough to believe.

Most girlfriends are whores. Just that they don't directly put a price tag on their "trade".

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Hungry girl mentality. So if a guy asks you out, it means you must suddenly become a liability to him? No wonder many guys prefer girls from civilized nations or those that have something to offer. Who needs extra liabilities? That you want to be loved doesn't mean you want to be milked by a girl that wants things even her father can't buy her.

That's typical of Nigerian girls. Once approached all her problems even ones she can handle become the guy's must do. Love isn't all about money and materials.

Brian47:
name one thing she have done for you?

she's been giving him her "love and attention" lol. It's not easy for a simp to find any of those you know.

MemoriesAndMe:

Hungry girl mentality. So if a guy asks you out, it means you must suddenly become a liability to him? No wonder many guys prefer girls from civilized nations or those that have something to offer. Who needs extra liabilities? That you want to be loved doesn't mean you want to be milked by a girl that wants things even her father can't buy her.

Mtcheww,all I know is that a man who isn't financially stable should channel the little energy he has left on hustling and not looking for love and relationship that he won't be able to maintain

Jmw2kblogposts:
You have a PROSTITUTIONAL MENTALITY its like you were born to be a street wh0re, if you define love as money then you are no different from your ladies in the brothels and if unfortunately all women think like this then yall deserve to be treated like shit

Don't be fooled ,love is money.