TheUndercover:
"When someone asks you "What do you do for a living?" Mostly, it is to calculate the level of respect they need to give you."

So, what's the best way to respond to this question?

TheUndercover:

If you overtly reject someone's gift, or you feel the need not to appreciate the person, he/she won't be inclined to do you favours in the future. It will make them think you're ungrateful.

Sometimes, someone might test you just to know how you're going to react on getting a certain gift, if you show your dissatisfaction, it won't let them offer you something greater.

If you don't like what was given to you, or you don't like the intention they may have in doing so, do not show it openly. Remember, they gave you as a gift, not what you're entitled to.

I rejected a gift from my in-law and he felt insulted, I've being receiving gift from him I just felt I'm getting older now I should be the one giving him and my niece but my in-law wasn't happy about you that and he told my mom about it, felt bad

I don't know the reason why anti-bot keeps banning me when making a particular post.

[quote author=TheUndercover post=103237430][b]Do seek out weak people in power:

Seeking out those already in power is foolish. They will swallow you up and spit you out. They do not need anything from you.

Don't keep company with those who will make you seem less gifted, either because they are superior or inferior. The more perfect someone is, the more highly he is esteemed. The other person will always play the leading role, and you a secondary one, and if you win any respect at all, it will come in scraps and remnants.


I beg to differ on this to an extent. I for one like to surround myself with folks better than me in aspects that are very important to me. I stay with them play the FOOL GAME for awhile, l appear to look stupid but i am tapping their knowledge. Trying to know what make them tick. The methods they apply to succeed in their endeavors. Like a cat, i am watching them, learning all i can. After i am satisfied and my level has started to appreciate,i ball out and move to their set of high valued people. In this game i can't afford to relax. I am always on the ascendancy. The moment u are a champion in your clique, you ball out or else, u never exit the COMFORT ZONE.

Evolutionlove:


You can google up "Dark Psychology Secrets Dot Pdf" It will bring the download link. Motunomori I will try and send the PDF to you.....

Thank you bro. I've downloaded it.

@LIVINGICON
Of course, I understand you. The quote didn't state you shouldn't seek those who are more knowledgeable than you, but to avoid those who seek to undermine you or make you feel inferior to them.

TheUndercover:
If you are a loser and you are on track for this to continue in the future, you should be willing to take risks. You have nothing to lose in the sense that you have a life not worth living.

Continue to execute high risk high reward strategies until you either win, or die. Death is nothing, but to live and be a loser is to die every day.

I feel it, so deep

TheUndercover:
Be silent. "Over-explainers will take your silence as an acknowledgement of your incomplete understanding, and they’ll seek to rectify your ignorance while noting your willingness to learn."

Shed more light on this please

TheUndercover:
Stop Going Back To Your Exes:

Dating your ex has to be the most miserable thing you could possibly do. You broke up, but literally could not move on. Failed to find someone else so you HAD to go back to them, or you accepted them back.

If you're trying to get your ex back, I know you’re out of options. And so does her. And so do you.

This is where the problem is..told my 'ex' we done before I left for owerri but anytime I am visiting we hook up..mama's mind be say we good..now I am back fully and she's doing the most even brought food to my workplace this afternoon..me I can't say no given I didn't bring any from the house..hungry kuku dey catch at the time but she knows nigga has changed in the entirety of the word change..

Kinda sympathetic human though but when i wanted this love has long gone.. I am jes allowing time to play out things..cos I know we can never end up together cos na dia her mind dey now o..dey bring up subtle talk of marriage nonsense..I dey laff am

Buddy0:


If only people could comprehend how deep this is.

Aswearugawd! That is a clear cut definition of myself aswear...

TheUndercover:
A man may fall many times but he won't be a failure until he says someone pushed him. It is more fitting for a man to laugh at life than to lament over it.

This is so me..I can never tell you wetin dey sup for my life.. Wetin u go heat na ''easy o jeje''

TheUndercover:
A man in love is incomplete until he has married - then he's finished.

I get ur sarcasm brah

Legendarytonyy:
So I said to myself, "as I go through this thread, I'll screenshot every striking message". Guess what? My gallery is filled. Abeg arrange PDF for me.
Thank y'all

I have a notebook app on my phone..I jes copy and paste

ObinnaValentine:


This is where the problem is..told my 'ex' we done before I left for owerri but anytime I am visiting we hook up..mama's mind be say we good..now I am back fully and she's doing the most even brought food to my workplace this afternoon..me I can't say no given I didn't bring any from the house..hungry kuku dey catch at the time but she knows nigga has changed in the entirety of the word change..

Kinda sympathetic human though but when i wanted this love has long gone.. I am jes allowing time to play out things..cos I know we can never end up together cos na dia her mind dey now o..dey bring up subtle talk of marriage nonsense..I dey laff am

Hmm, just be cautious about this though. That's what I have to say.