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What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Mamarockzie(f): 9:49pm On Mar 19
After work today, I and few friends decided to do TGIF at the shrine(Fela Shrine), nothing really spectacular about it but we just needed somewhere/ something different from our movies, clubbing and the modern settings.

While we were having our different talks, a very pretty lady walked up to us and asked to see a colleague of mine(a guy). They went afar and when he got back, we asked to know what transpired. He actually didn't want to open up but we're all Gees (Lols).

So he told us the Lady wooed him(like seriously) and with all sincerity, he already liked her for that. I remembered walking up to a guy back then in school to tell him he was cute. But in all sincerity I don't think I have that boldness anymore.

Another (a guy) said he consider it more, preferable and he wished it was immensely more common. And my gee concluded that if the lady is serious about it, he would date her and respect her more.

Honestly, I admired the lady's courage and I think you should go for whatever makes you happy after all, .most guys ends up been turned down, so as a lady also be prepared to handle rejection too.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:55pm On Mar 19
In this world now, if a guy makes the first move he's a simp o. grin

You can even get arrested for sexual harassment and misogyny sef.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by chiommy123(f): 9:56pm On Mar 19
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Obineri55(m): 9:57pm On Mar 19
I respect that kind of lady more. My very good friend is happily married today, his wife made the first move. Its just our mentality that a guy should/ must do the wooing. Let's cut ourselves some slack and try to embrace some nice stuffs too.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Spending123: 9:57pm On Mar 19
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Obineri55(m): 10:01pm On Mar 19
Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.

Lols.....you dey fear?

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by drmikeadams(m): 10:01pm On Mar 19
..I have been toasted severally...d thing sweet sha...I no dey fall their fall their hands....for woman to toast man dey hard them sha..others go give u strong green light,once u as a guy code d green light collect number, them go open up.. grin grin

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Favouredhero(m): 10:06pm On Mar 19
I have actually experienced this, several times and I definitely have soft spot for such ladies. I have never outrightly turned down a lady that walked up to me and expressed her interest in me, whereas I always respect them.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Mar 19
if the feeling is mutual, why not? If she is beautiful with good manners, she has my heart

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by JaneYave(f): 10:19pm On Mar 19
Why will I? I haven't seen any man that will make me develop such guts.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Jeon(f): 10:40pm On Mar 19
Mamarockzie:
After work today, I and few friends decided to do TGIF at t

Honestly, I admired the lady's courage and I think you should go for whatever makes you happy after all, .most guys ends up been turned down, so as a lady also be prepared to handle rejection too.

honestly I pity some girls who do this shit in this shithole country with their useless cheap men with arrogant behavior.
zzor what do have to say about this move?

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by kingsceedon(m): 10:42pm On Mar 19
My people make una see another Buhari wey surface for Lagos today, na Taxi driver him be, people gather dey snap am picture

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Reex12(m): 11:00pm On Mar 19
takes a lot of courage for them ladies

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Reex12(m): 11:00pm On Mar 19
JaneYave:
Why will I? I haven't seen any man that will make me develop such guts.
change your circle

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Xenry: 11:12pm On Mar 19
Well, that's cool, but expect a heartbreak if things go wrong.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Xenry: 11:16pm On Mar 19
Spending123:
If you're not ready for heartbreak, if you're not ready to block and unblock at least three times a day, if you're not ready to cry at least four times a day, please avoid relationship.....A wise is enough for a word, oh sorry, enough is a wise for the word.
You dey ment, Asswear! grin

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by brainmax2000: 11:27pm On Mar 19
Jeon:


honestly I pity some girls who do this shit in this shithole country with their useless cheap men with arrogant behavior.
zzor what do have to say about this move?
Pls are you a lesbian?homosexual?bisexual?

the same men you complain of is who you will still marry, and your father still falls into this category

I see your trying to front a counter perspective like misogyny but honestly its apalling,degrading and dishonorable to hear this from a woman. Its one thing to be a feminist & another to be whatever it is your trynna be..

To even top it all assuming your now a virgin, this totally discredits whatever your trynna stand for..bcus you have absolutely no taste in men and ur toxically bashing them.
am sure evn those so called redpilled guys have sex once in a while

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Kennyking1234: 1:41am On Mar 20
gaslighting
Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by popweezy(m): 1:47am On Mar 20
girls making the first move aint bad. But in my own case, I still turn you down if you're not my taste or I accept you but the relationship won't last cuz I will just turn you to a f0ck_mate...I have rejected few girls who happened to woo me..I have also been rejected by some girls I wooed..

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Depressedkidd: 3:04am On Mar 20
chiommy123:
I can't try such. I no need anybody insult in future
Lmao. Girls just can't take what they dish out.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Depressedkidd: 3:05am On Mar 20
popweezy:
girls making the first move aint bad. But in my own case, I still turn you down if you're not my taste or I accept you but the relationship won't last cuz I will just turn you to a f0ck_mate...I have rejected few girls who happened to woo me..I have also been rejected by some girls I wooed..
When guys turn girls down, girls automatically turn it's into a "guys don't like when girls woo them" when it's really just a case of the guy not liking her.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Nobody: 5:08am On Mar 20
Jeon:


honestly I pity some girls who do this shit in this shithole country with their useless cheap men with arrogant behavior.
zzor what do have to say about this move?
Making a first move on Nigerian men is almost madness

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:09am On Mar 20
Mtcheeew. Man-boys forming alphas that can take on a confident woman.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by rex444(m): 5:46am On Mar 20
It's a turn on especially if the girl happens to be smart as well
Mamarockzie:
After work today, I and few friends decided to do TGIF at the shrine(Fela Shrine), nothing really spectacular about it but we just needed somewhere/ something different from our movies, clubbing and the modern settings.

While we were having our different talks, a very pretty lady walked up to us and asked to see a colleague of mine(a guy). They went afar and when he got back, we asked to know what transpired. He actually didn't want to open up but we're all Gees (Lols).

So he told us the Lady wooed him(like seriously) and with all sincerity, he already liked her for that. I remembered walking up to a guy back then in school to tell him he was cute. But in all sincerity I don't think I have that boldness anymore.

Another (a guy) said he consider it more, preferable and he wished it was immensely more common. And my gee concluded that if the lady is serious about it, he would date her and respect her more.

Honestly, I admired the lady's courage and I think you should go for whatever makes you happy after all, .most guys ends up been turned down, so as a lady also be prepared to handle rejection too.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Tloc(m): 5:54am On Mar 20
brainmax2000:
Pls are you a lesbian?homosexual?bisexual?

the same men you complain of is who you will still marry, and your father still falls into this category

I see your trying to front a counter perspective like misogyny but honestly its apalling,degrading and dishonorable to hear this from a woman. Its one thing to be a feminist & another to be whatever it is your trynna be..

To even top it all assuming your now a virgin, this totally discredits whatever your trynna stand for..bcus you have absolutely no taste in men and ur toxically bashing them.
am sure evn those so called
redpilled guys have sex once in a while
It's that sinile girl ZZOR, showing her dumbness everywhere on the forum.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Draught: 6:12am On Mar 20
...

You too ask yourself, how do you feel when a male initiates wooing? Men also feel the same emotion...

We are all human beings... It's only in this part of the world woman wooing man is considered taboo of some kind..

I have been asked out by a lady and I treated her with respect and loved her courage, it was exhilarating..

It made me step my game cos I figured her courage will be very beneficial in all aspects of life..

I love strong, un-afraid, confident women.. And there are guys who don't.. Everyone has his own meat that might not be palatable for someone else..

Just be yourself and attain personal happiness not seeking for societal approval.. Cos las Las society not gonna be with you during the course...

People keep saying expect heartbreak.. OK so when Man makes 1st move to a woman, that means the relationship will last forever? There won't be any heartbreak?...

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by chibuike65: 6:19am On Mar 20
Women like that are the real feminist

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Offpoint1: 7:01am On Mar 20
If I was a woman I would have used this method to cash out big time...

Most Nigerian men CAN'T turn down a lady request. I for use am cash out like werey

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by Jeon(f): 7:06am On Mar 20
Zzor:
Making a first move on Nigerian men is almost madness

over madness.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by daania50080: 7:20am On Mar 20
takes a lot of courage for them ladies

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:54am On Mar 20
Personally, I don't appreciate it. I like doing the wooing myself irrespective of the outcome.

If you woo me as a girl, I'll respectfully turn you down. If I ever had attraction towards you before, it becomes lost.

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Re: What Is Your Opinion On A Girl Making The First Move? by BigDawsNet: 8:00am On Mar 20
She's smart

And believe in what she wants

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