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Hassanmaye:

What is the real stuff

You already knew it.

When I was in school, I was really shy to talk to this particular girl but she did the needful and we ended up loving each other so much.

Nodeydopass:


I understand you dear. thanks for your input. it was my bad that I didn't call her the second day but I already made it open ended the first day when I told her that if a second date is going to happen, we'd definitely go swimming and she replied saying she doesn't know whether she could swim or not.
I've exhausted every form of manly thing I can do to get her, that's why I think doing anything again would make me seem desperate

Sometimes some girls are shy and not used to being wooed. But if she's still young and you feel she doesn't look ready, let her go. If you are meant for each other, you might come together again.

Pclemenza:

I would want to disagree with you. It’s very obvious the said lady isn’t in anyway attracted to this young man. You are a lady and you know how your kind behave when u find someone attractive. Be honest and tell him reality rather then pet the whole situation.

You can disagree without accusing me of dishonesty.

read again, i said “or maybe she’s genuinely not interested in you” in the response you read.

I don’t know this woman so I can’t 100% say how she feels for him based on what he shared. Some women are reserved, some women have a strict dating etiquette where they don’t chase after men, some women are socially awkward and don’t know how to initiate things...

“My kind” don’t all behave the same way the same way males don’t all behave the same way or for the same reasons.

Nodeydopass:



You get mind ooo

sometimes when you excessively show gal you care about her, she rides on you like a horse.

Nodeydopass:


hmmmm.... I'll think about this, but thanks

Don't even think about doing that nonsense..
Only thing worth chasing is financial security. You've done your part..
If she doesn't want, onto the next person.. No time to waste..

People will just use their hands to buy problem

egopersonified:
So if you dey build house now, you lay foundation, the next day will you be waiting for your workers to complete the house for you or you will keep calling them daily to come to site?

naso u turn urself to a non-living

ihimiray:
hmmm I like u... How about we hangout some day

Nodeydopass:
it's been 4 days we went on date and I haven't heard or seen anything from her be it WhatsApp message or even call or text... is it worth it or I should just move on...

it's my first date too and I don't know whether I have to be the one to call her the second day or not.

@TheUndercoverer Ubunja martinez39s ublight glycolysis please let me have your opinion on this

my guy, forget that babe. she is not that into u. she probably had a bad experience with u

Nodeydopass:
Good evening nlders, I need your input on this situation I'm in and I'll appreciate if you can help with your honest opinion.

There's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my girlfriend. I met with her about a month ago and I told her I wanted to see her and discuss properly with her and since then, I've been trying to get to know her on WhatsApp (she gave me her contact) but this girl is very boring on WhatsApp. I literally had to bring up ways to make the conversation going but it always end with some awkward silence as she usually reply with short answer or even abbreviation.

So I decided to have a proper date with her and I scheduled a day and time. I picked her up at her place and we went out on a "date". Throughout the date, it was me just bringing things up and she was also making attempt to flow along and the conversation was going smoothly, tho I was the one bringing up topics et al. The date was cool, interesting and even whenever she had to do something outside that we had to go together, she held my arm all through and the physical contact was unhindered.

Then we came back from date and she asked for my picture and I told her I don't have any but I'll take one the following day but she said I shouldn't bother. However, since that day we went out, she hasn't even called me or even message me on Whatsapp even though she's online.

Tho I like this girl but I believe the feeling and the communication should be mutual and shouldn't be always me chatting her up all the time, so I let her be. I'm really thinking about her but I don't want to contact her. I feel she has to make an effort too. or am I being too unreasonable?

Buy her Gift and you see her following you like monkey

Nodeydopass:
it's been 4 days we went on date and I haven't heard or seen anything from her be it WhatsApp message or even call or text... is it worth it or I should just move on...

it's my first date too and I don't know whether I have to be the one to call her the second day or not.

@TheUndercoverer Ubunja martinez39s ublight glycolysis please let me have your opinion on this

she might b into yu,bt waiting 4 yu to do the hunting..bro try one more

Nodeydopass:
Good evening nlders, I need your input on this situation I'm in and I'll appreciate if you can help with your honest opinion.

There's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my girlfriend. I met with her about a month ago and I told her I wanted to see her and discuss properly with her and since then, I've been trying to get to know her on WhatsApp (she gave me her contact) but this girl is very boring on WhatsApp. I literally had to bring up ways to make the conversation going but it always end with some awkward silence as she usually reply with short answer or even abbreviation.

So I decided to have a proper date with her and I scheduled a day and time. I picked her up at her place and we went out on a "date". Throughout the date, it was me just bringing things up and she was also making attempt to flow along and the conversation was going smoothly, tho I was the one bringing up topics et al. The date was cool, interesting and even whenever she had to do something outside that we had to go together, she held my arm all through and the physical contact was unhindered.

Then we came back from date and she asked for my picture and I told her I don't have any but I'll take one the following day but she said I shouldn't bother. However, since that day we went out, she hasn't even called me or even message me on Whatsapp even though she's online.

Tho I like this girl but I believe the feeling and the communication should be mutual and shouldn't be always me chatting her up all the time, so I let her be. I'm really thinking about her but I don't want to contact her. I feel she has to make an effort too. or am I being too unreasonable?

The likes u too. Na u never press her Mumu button. I think she is an introvert, and someone who rarely talks. Ladies generally are very poor mostly on online chat. Make ur chat with her lively and interesting, online and offline. Be more romantic with her and cuddle her too.