Nodeydopass:


done that twice.... reaction?? no Bleep seems to be given

Logan321:
see below

MufasaLion:


Ohh.. Ancient of days. Shove your moral advise in your loose asshole.

Funkeshuga:



everything simp simping. I don't think the psychiatrist treating your mental illness sef sabi work


you sound more dumb here. mumu boy

Logan321:
see below

How you pipu do this betting thing is ... anyhow, e be like I go PM you.
I wan start too.

MufasaLion:


You talk too much. Slowpoke chasin' clout!. I ain't got no time.

Nodeydopass:
Good evening nlders, I need your input on this situation I'm in and I'll appreciate if you can help with your honest opinion.

There's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my girlfriend. I met with her about a month ago and I told her I wanted to see her and discuss properly with her and since then, I've been trying to get to know her on WhatsApp (she gave me her contact) but this girl is very boring on WhatsApp. I literally had to bring up ways to make the conversation going but it always end with some awkward silence as she usually reply with short answer or even abbreviation.

So I decided to have a proper date with her and I scheduled a day and time. I picked her up at her place and we went out on a "date". Throughout the date, it was me just bringing things up and she was also making attempt to flow along and the conversation was going smoothly, tho I was the one bringing up topics et al. The date was cool, interesting and even whenever she had to do something outside that we had to go together, she held my arm all through and the physical contact was unhindered.

Then we came back from date and she asked for my picture and I told her I don't have any but I'll take one the following day but she said I shouldn't bother. However, since that day we went out, she hasn't even called me or even message me on Whatsapp even though she's online.

Tho I like this girl but I believe the feeling and the communication should be mutual and shouldn't be always me chatting her up all the time, so I let her be. I'm really thinking about her but I don't want to contact her. I feel she has to make an effort too. or am I being too unreasonable?

Ritztravels:


Brother, I will tell you from my experience it depends on the culture or the environment you find yourselves. I personally have dated white, black and Asian girls and each time I have to be aware as to how their culture and societal norms might influence simple things as texting after a date. For example after a date with Asians or whites, I don't have to worry about texting after the date as I know if she truly fancies me she is texting me the next morning or in many cases before I even get to my room. But you see this our Nigerian girls, I don't know if it's the bros forming simps to get under their pants that has made them feel like they don't need to put much efforts into dating and social interactions. If I picked you up from your home, paid for the dates, even made an effort to start conversations and you still feel too big to text "thanks for the dinner" or even to ask if I got home safe, I'm cutting you lose, you are for the street.
My advice is to not make yourself the fool by calling and yelling at her (as some have suggested) that "hard guy persona" is just a mask most guys wear to cover up their deep insecurities, don't be that guy. You had a date, it isn't what you hope it will be, simply move on.

Xenry:
I actually read your post like this: there's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my Liability...
Imagine contacting a Liability so that she would relate with you as if her needs are your responsibilities, Damn!
Girls keep catching you guys unprepared, and I'm not cool with it.

McSquishi:


Hmmm. She will probably text you in a week or two more asking when the swimming will take place or maybe she’s genuinely not interested at all but was just going along for the ride.

I think you you knowing the situation best if you feel you’ll look desperate by reaching out again then don’t. But texting “hey, just checking on you” if you’re thinking about her to this extent, that is not a big deal. And if she hardly replies like the old times then at that point you can guess she’s not feeling you...

dating is complicated! Ugh!

Good luck

1beat:
Sorry ooo. How old are you ?
I think your priority now should be your studies last year was wasted year for Nigeria students due to strike and lockdown I don't want to believe you want to waste this year again shassing girls up and down. My advice for you is to leave that girl face your studies/ life and make name for your self that girl will be the one shassing you. but if you want to continue you are free to do so

Whois:


I feel your pain bro

@Op be careful what you wish for



"Avoid see finish". I won't say more than that

Nodeydopass:
[b][/b]

I secretly hope so @ bolded. thanks once again. I wish things could just be easy like Hollywood

Sammmyyyy:
There are people like that; that are naturally bad at communicating. The time frame you described, for me, is too little to conclude. Give her time and study her. If you then discover that's her in-born nature, teach her. Teach her how to be outward and loquacious. Don't loose what may be right for you cause of your impatience . Such girls, after being modlled are usually the best lovers on the long run. I am talking from experience. I been there.

DigitB:


You're welcome.

You should consider reading some of the "redpill" topics on the internet. There's a lot to learn...

It will help you understand how to relate with women.

I can suggest some materials for you if you'd like...

Nodeydopass:
Good evening nlders, I need your input on this situation I'm in and I'll appreciate if you can help with your honest opinion.

There's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my girlfriend. I met with her about a month ago and I told her I wanted to see her and discuss properly with her and since then, I've been trying to get to know her on WhatsApp (she gave me her contact) but this girl is very boring on WhatsApp. I literally had to bring up ways to make the conversation going but it always end with some awkward silence as she usually reply with short answer or even abbreviation.

So I decided to have a proper date with her and I scheduled a day and time. I picked her up at her place and we went out on a "date". Throughout the date, it was me just bringing things up and she was also making attempt to flow along and the conversation was going smoothly, tho I was the one bringing up topics et al. The date was cool, interesting and even whenever she had to do something outside that we had to go together, she held my arm all through and the physical contact was unhindered.

Then we came back from date and she asked for my picture and I told her I don't have any but I'll take one the following day but she said I shouldn't bother. However, since that day we went out, she hasn't even called me or even message me on Whatsapp even though she's online.

Tho I like this girl but I believe the feeling and the communication should be mutual and shouldn't be always me chatting her up all the time, so I let her be. I'm really thinking about her but I don't want to contact her. I feel she has to make an effort too. or am I being too unreasonable?

MufasaLion:
She's not into you. Simple!.

Your desperation might turn to SIMPING!

GrandFinale2021:
GBAM..
The green light is always there, but here in this case, dude is just desperate and can't wait to simp..
Ubunja was taught us "No green light No approach"

mendula:
delete her number and block her for good....

MufasaLion:


You talk too much. Slowpoke chasin' clout!. I ain't got no time.

Nodeydopass:
it's been 4 days we went on date and I haven't heard or seen anything from her be it WhatsApp message or even call or text... is it worth it or I should just move on...

it's my first date too and I don't know whether I have to be the one to call her the second day or not

Bobxin:


Trust me, those are the exact things you shouldn't take serious.

ihimiray:
brother I will advice you to play ur game well...u know the usual thing with Nigerian girls.. Dey don't wanna look too cheap.. Do the calling but always be in control...know when to call and not look to weak... With time she will get use to u... And na u self go tire... But if she doesn't change just do the moon walk...

Nodeydopass:
[b][/b]

I secretly hope so @ bolded. thanks once again. I wish things could just be easy like Hollywood

Nodeydopass:


if you had the ability and patience to read, you'll have inferred from the post that I was the one who paid for the date and everything that was spent that day.. I'm gainfully employed and I'm old enough to know that I need someone to share my feelings with. if you're here to troll, you should just avoid this post