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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 6:59am On Apr 11, 2021
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid
I no dey pity your type of guys from my experience, Una prefer to learn the hard way. Good for you tongue

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 7:09am On Apr 11, 2021
Karleb:


O boy! This is saddening!

I don't get why you ladies form abstinence only to masturbate.

I mean, why not just have the sex with your boyfriend and enjoy it rather than seeing your body as the price for the highest bidder?

Not as if you give the sex as often as possible in marriages.
I tire for dem o...dis one sef dey claim doctor
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 7:15am On Apr 11, 2021
Fiscus105:



Women can't love two or more people at ago unlike man, also they can't pretend to love like man too, immediately man's love fades in their hearts they show it without think twice.
Explain the one that keeps sleeping with other men, yet telling the bf she has never cheated and cries that she doesn't want to loose him
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 7:17am On Apr 11, 2021
Karleb:


Your first sex experience actually changed your perspective about sexx. It is alright.

I hope you don't deny your spouse his rights tho.
it is not a right. She has been damaged psychologically and has no one to tell her

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alphaNomega: 7:23am On Apr 11, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

Thanks.. The fact that you mentioned kidney being damaged as a result of constant dispensation of semens, my brother i don give up for masturbation automatically o.. Thank you so much, I just deleted all the porn videos and pages saved in my phone now before replying to you.
I'd be glad to see a great change!
There is no relationship between kidney damage and masturbation. Don't believe everything you read on the internet

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Fiscus105(m): 2:01pm On Apr 11, 2021
alphaNomega:
Explain the one that keeps sleeping with other men, yet telling the bf she has never cheated and cries that she doesn't want to loose him

I biliv u knw how to read to understand and not to read to attack

I said woman can't love two or more and not that woman can't sleep with.



you have female siblings you can confirm from them
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by CutieMya(f): 6:19am On Aug 22, 2021
Nope....
luminouz:


So how is your relationship life now? You hooked up yet? wink
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by CutieMya(f): 6:22am On Aug 22, 2021
That is it my dear... much love
Petriaa:

So sad it will get better just go out there and live your life to the fullest.
One thing is no matter how intense the love seems always try to invest in yourself outside the relationship.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by CutieMya(f): 6:23am On Aug 22, 2021
Yea, it's very painful..
extol1:

eeya very painful. I can relate
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by bepositive11: 12:19pm On Aug 22, 2021
BernieLee:
The clown took off my pictures on her facebook(and they were many).
Well, i went the extra mile. Yanked off her pics too, blocked her family members and friends and upgraded my side chic to full status. All in 24hrs, babe choke con dey beg but i wasn't swayed. Was actually good riddance.
Lessons learnt:
1. Keep your relationship off social media.
2. Avoid girls with a temper/short fuse.
3. If you no be strong man, avoid Edo girls like a plague.
4. Resist every attempt to turn you into a Simp.
5. For your sanity, run far from a toxic relationship.

You were also a toxic one. Very toxic at that
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by tayewomi(m): 12:27pm On Aug 22, 2021
fineboynl:
why would someone loving me validate my likeness for myself. I don’t even like girls showing the love me and stacking me.

Just be real and be yourself. And I will see if the friendship can continue. There was a Virgin girl who want to kill herself for me. Stack and small thing she start crying. I told her severally I cannot date or marry someone because she is a Virgin. I select people because of compatibility and when we are not compact there will always be problem which will never ends.

I slowly left her and many think something was wrong with me. A decent girl that loves me and a virgin. My reason was that she was too serious with me and never wanted to have sex until marriage. I was not forcing her to have sex with me either but i was not ready for all of them. And I shouldn’t be blackmailed into it because she loves me.
yes i love your decision though it's not good having sex in a relationship coz it's sinful but a girl can't be Coming to have a relationship with a guy and she will be the one making rules no it uncalled for,and girls like dt will later dump wen she found sm1 else she likes, Nigeria girls generally are not what to be taken seriously jare,tankiu
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BlueAir: 12:29pm On Aug 22, 2021
sad See this one taking paracetamol for someone's else's headache out of gender sake. Lakaye ko common
She will get what she's looking for because you are not her dad and she's not tied to you all in the name of the fornication things you did with her called Boyfriend. She's free to leave you at any time and vice versa
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BlueAir: 12:40pm On Aug 22, 2021
angry Person wey bamanga suppose use do money ritual instead of leaving her. Women like her are rationally worthy of been used. There's nothing to regret
Volkswagen90:
Poor Bamanga, God will judge u
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BlueAir: 12:43pm On Aug 22, 2021
angry U fuuckk up. People u supposed to carry their names and pictures to shrine. The gods would be too glad to mess them up for u
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BernieLee(m): 8:48pm On Aug 22, 2021
bepositive11:


You were also a toxic one. Very toxic at that
And who are you?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by bepositive11: 1:51am On Aug 23, 2021
BernieLee:
And who are you?

You really see nothing wrong with your actions?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BernieLee(m): 10:33am On Aug 23, 2021
bepositive11:


You really see nothing wrong with your actions?
Nothing whatsoever. And if you were in my shoes, having read what transpired, what would you have done differently?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by bepositive11: 4:05pm On Aug 23, 2021
BernieLee:
Nothing whatsoever. And if you were in my shoes, having read what transpired, what would you have done differently?

Tbh, it's a good thing that she left you. She dodged a bullet. You had a side chick all along!
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by onlyson16(m): 6:03pm On Aug 23, 2021
lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?
even lala d pursu woman. Upon say u be slave to seun. Leave wooman and be useful to ur parent.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by BernieLee(m): 8:32pm On Aug 23, 2021
bepositive11:


Tbh, it's a good thing that she left you. She dodged a bullet. You had a side chick all along!
You're a psycho, you don't even know me and here you are being sentimental and judging me. Lady Pls stay off my mentions.

My last response to you.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by bepositive11: 2:10am On Aug 24, 2021
BernieLee:
You're a psycho, you don't even know me and here you are being sentimental and judging me. Lady Pls stay off my mentions.

My last response to you.

It's easy to point out other people's mistakes but harder to admit our own
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Mrscarter(f): 12:03pm On Aug 24, 2021
SmellySperm:
be like dem don do lala strong thing grin


modified: when she kept on changing my name on her contact list from babyboo to "oga solo"

Oga solo�
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Aug 24, 2021
Mrscarter:


Oga solo�
Yels babyyo wink

Long time
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Mrscarter(f): 12:49pm On Aug 24, 2021
SmellySperm:

Yels babyyo wink

Long time

Lol indeed.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Aug 24, 2021
Mrscarter:


Lol indeed.
Anything for your guy?

You're not treating me well o

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