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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by MrMacinterchi1: 4:47pm On May 11, 2021
bizhop01:
I don't do girlfriend
what then do you do ?
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by MrMacinterchi1: 4:52pm On May 11, 2021
Goldbw122:
WELL IT IS IMPORTANT FOR A WOMAN TO LIKE A MAN MORE E GET why
some would say it's important for men to do that. Majority always goes with that not men loving More.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by fredoooooo: 4:54pm On May 11, 2021
abbey621:


You think you can make a woman cum everytime without massaging her heart as well? Imagine a woman that is financially worried or having troubles at work and all you offer is SMASH SMASH SMASH grin grin grin
Oga leave cum smash or whatever , so far i don come she can go and get hers at your place ...
You all attach nonsebse to been romantic ,how many women are financially worried too but still cum .. oga be a man , don't be an emotional slave.
You can't win it all though
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by LastProphet: 4:55pm On May 11, 2021
SIGE:
Na wa oo... if a babe visit you and eat your food does that mean the babe must date you...or cant you receive a NO from a babe and still be friends. My guy this life no be two. If i toss you and you no gree, l MOVE...but which kind babe will say no and still be coming to eat food for your house. Bro you need to leave all these hungry babes alone.

But bro your article no make sense undecided

Read it again or go buy English textbook
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Godstime234: 4:59pm On May 11, 2021
Am in the mess.. as am writing ,on my way to ilorin to see a lady that's proving hard to get and I love her die
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by jevic(m): 5:02pm On May 11, 2021
We move.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by TemmyT002(m): 5:13pm On May 11, 2021
xxxtedyxxx:
Useless post, useless right up.

Your friend is mad.

Must you sleep with every girl?


Swear say you read all
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Lekq2: 5:16pm On May 11, 2021
True
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Laideabdulahi: 5:22pm On May 11, 2021
AfroKnight:
OP you are right. Once the shakara is getting too much leave her alone. Toasting normally should not pass 4 working days, except if someone recommended her as a good person to marry, then you may extend it to 7 working days. cool

After that, move on.

Nigerian girls are time wasters. They like a guy but would act differently and wonder why the young man cannot see that they like him.

There is more to life than chasing a woman who wants to play hard to get. If you don’t get an emphatic yes from her, take her response as a no. Don’t let her string you along for benefits. If you do, sooner or later, you would resent her and that’s even if she later says yes. Why? Cos it would appear like she wasn’t worth the trouble. She wasn’t worth the time wasted.


I never even toast girl before.
But I don knack 17.
Date 2.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by AfroKnight: 5:25pm On May 11, 2021
Laideabdulahi:



I never even toast girl before.
But I don knack 17.
Date 2.

grin cheesy Ah! You are a dangerous individual sir.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by alexsoftwork(m): 5:27pm On May 11, 2021
grin
OfeAchi:
If she has been coming to your apartment and spending time, and has refused your advances, then I suggest you try a technique I call; The Ending Man technique.
What's this technique? It's simple. Stand on the doorway when she's about leaving and provide your erect manhoood! (note, your peniss must be very very erect!)
When she sees this, it would activate an enzymous hormone in her that would make her agree to your advances.

This technique has been proven to have a success rate of 91.23%.


grin grin grin cheesy cheesy wink grin grin grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by lakefist(m): 5:32pm On May 11, 2021
xxxtedyxxx:
Useless post, useless right up.

Your friend is mad.

Must you sleep with every girl?

The post is so useless, I can't even explain it.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Hassanmaye(m): 5:37pm On May 11, 2021
SportsHD:
Ain't reading no epistle bout vagina matters
hahahha you don tire Abi you never see anything sef
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by abbey621(m): 5:44pm On May 11, 2021
fredoooooo:

Oga leave cum smash or whatever , so far i don come she can go and get hers at your place ...
You all attach nonsebse to been romantic ,how many women are financially worried too but still cum .. oga be a man , don't be an emotional slave.
You can't win it all though

It's wonderful to know that you would allow yoour wife or future wife to get hers at my place, such a generous man, appreciate it bro grin grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Laideabdulahi: 5:50pm On May 11, 2021
AfroKnight:


grin cheesy Ah! You are a dangerous individual sir.

Dangerous ke
To be frank I haven't.
There are ways to achieve this.
Even my wife dey vex say I no toast am.

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Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by AfroKnight: 5:56pm On May 11, 2021
Laideabdulahi:


Dangerous ke
To be frank I haven't.
There are ways to achieve this.
Even my wife dey vex say I no toast am.

cheesy cheesy And she gree marry you? Without toasting?

Baba, cut soap for me na.
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by fredoooooo: 6:12pm On May 11, 2021
abbey621:


It's wonderful to know that you would allow yoour wife or future wife to get hers at my place, such a generous man, appreciate it bro grin grin grin
You can't even handle a woman with your guts and broom D grin grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by abbey621(m): 6:14pm On May 11, 2021
fredoooooo:

You can't even handle a woman with your guts and broom D grin grin grin

Been married over 5 years now but i wouldn't mind chopping your own too if you want to dash me as offering grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by fredoooooo: 6:17pm On May 11, 2021
abbey621:


Been married over 5 years now but i wouldn't mind chopping your own too if you want to dash me as offering grin grin
No wonder your own dey nack ya friend cos you no fit handle her wella ... if i handle her once oga you go dey the list of divorcee straight grin cheesy
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by abbey621(m): 6:29pm On May 11, 2021
fredoooooo:

No wonder your own dey nack ya friend cos you no fit handle her wella ... if i handle her once oga you go dey the list of divorcee straight grin cheesy

Oshey ja bed ja bed dickson........Your matter just dey make me laugh, I refer your matter to Desmond Elliot grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Laideabdulahi: 6:40pm On May 11, 2021
AfroKnight:


cheesy cheesy And she gree marry you? Without toasting?

Baba, cut soap for me na.

Baba, I go cut am for u.
I bet you e no hard.
And it works very well in a partially closed circuit settings.
Before she realizes u didn't toast her, u had gone far into the rlnthsp
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by fredoooooo: 6:41pm On May 11, 2021
abbey621:


Oshey ja bed ja bed dickson........Your matter just dey make me laugh, I refer your matter to Desmond Elliot grin grin

Hahah ja bed dickson ko ja mattress nackson ni ... grin cheesy grin cheesy
Gbayi bro , I like ypur sense of humor ... grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Coolbadguy: 7:36pm On May 11, 2021
MrMacinterchi1:

what then do you do ?

He does pay as you go... grin grin
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Eastcaostboy: 7:53pm On May 11, 2021
Originalsly:
Bro.... it is foolish to be dashing money at something you don't know if it's on sale. Even if it is.... why dash money and you don't know the price? A guy spends N10K on a babe and expects to sleep with her.... when her price point is N20K? If you're giving and expecting something in return then you're doing business. If you're doing business then you're trading and an agreement must be met. He should know the type of women that exchange sex for money.... they're out there.... everywhere.
Be a wise guy don't be a love-vendor. Every woman do exchage sex for money even as a wife...
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Ekaka1(m): 8:43pm On May 11, 2021
xxxtedyxxx:
Useless post, useless right up.

Your friend is mad.

Must you sleep with every girl?
Comprehension is not cheap o shocked
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by FarmTech(m): 9:50pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria
.
You better repent and give ur life to Christ. Fornication is sinful. Escape hell!
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Schprobs: 10:05pm On May 11, 2021
xxxtedyxxx:
Useless post, useless right up.

Your friend is mad.

Must you sleep with every girl?


Must a man be responsible for ur financial needs
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 11, 2021
KingsleyOnwuka1:
Someone gisted me about how he has been struggling and begging “to do something” with a girl that comes to his house. The girl has been so tough for him, and he almost forced her the last time.

I simply advised him to disallow the girl from coming to his house anymore. When a girl comes so close to you, spends time comfortably with you in the privacy of your room, eats your food and collects money or receives other forms of favour from you, but she’s not interested in getting intimate with you, the best thing for you to do is to quickly cut off from her and just let her be. Don’t even allow such a situation to linger for long. Don’t allow interaction between you and a girl to get to the point where you’ll be struggling with her or begging her for sexual attention.

Gone are those days when one could be begging or pestering a girl for any kind of attention, gone are those days. It doesn’t make sense to me for a girl to behave as if giving a man sexual attention means doing him a favour, it doesn’t make sense to me at all.

In the course of relating with a girl for instance, I will be nice to you, I will spend on you, and even when we get the act I will also endeavour to pleasure and satisfy you. So if it comes to counting gains and losses, who actually gains and who loses in the whole thing? So how is it a favour you’re doing me? It’s just like in a business relationship, I hate it when a customer takes advantage of my humility to behave as if he/she is doing me a favour by patronizing me. A business relationship thrives on the basis of mutual need, I give you what you want (goods or services) and you give me what I want (money). So if there’s any favour in the business relationship, it is mutual favour, we did other a favour.

I heard on one radio show, that a guy has been begging a particular girl for relationship for more than one year and the girl is still saying no. it sounded like a joke to me. When a man seeks to relate closely with a girl, the primary end in mind is sex (although he might later find the girl worthy of something more meaningful perhaps after the sex, but the primary aim at first is sex, it doesn’t matter how much or how long there is pretence about it).

And because of the way most men seek sexual attention from women, women in this part of the world tend to perceive themselves as the oxygen that men need to survive.
There is nothing wrong in seeking to relate closely with a girl. It might even go beyond sex and lead to something more meaningful. And by the way, in the textbook THE SUBSATNCE OF PLOITICS by Appadorai, sex is listed as one of the primary needs of man (human beings in general), alongside food, drink, clothing and shelter. Craving for such pleasures is natural and one of what make us human.

But self-control is very much necessary, necessary in the sense that when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you, you leave her and respect yourself. If she cooperates and gives you the attention you desire, fine, go ahead and relate well with her. But if not, just free her and move on.

You might want to think she’s just playing hard-to-get. It might be true, but I don’t subscribe to the idea of a woman being hard-to-get. I belong to a facebook group where a lady posted something which I screenshot sometime ago, it reads: “Women are not hard-to-get. She is hard-to-get because she doesn’t like you. If a woman likes you she will be soft like today’s bread.”

It was a lady that made the post, the post resonated with me and I screenshot and saved it. When I like a girl and I make the slightest attempt to relate with her, and she shows me an attitude of not being interested, I will simply quickly free her and move on.

The point of this write-up is a message against rape. I’m writing this to discourage those men who have the tendency of raping women.

My heart was saddened by the news about the guy that raped and killed a young lady who went to see him in search of job in Uyo. I felt and still feel so sad about it. Perhaps the guy killed her just to prevent her from exposing his illicit act if rape against her. That’s the height of evil and wickedness! RAPE IS BAD! Rape is absolutely not necessary.

I belong to the school of thought that believes there is a substitute for everything. So u don’t have to be fixated on a particular woman. If any particular woman refuses to do anything with you, there are many other women out there, who are even more beautiful than she is.

So to my fellow men in the world: when you want a woman and she doesn’t want you – leave her and respect yourself and move on.

Kingsley Onwuka,
Port Harcourt, Nigeria
OP you belong to so many "Schools" of thought oh.... Only you. Scholar of life
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by justmondris: 10:29pm On May 11, 2021
She might be saying no to you because she is in a serious relation and she is very happy there. I like girls or boys that don’t attempt to break the serious relationship of others.

Do you want her to destroy her lovely relationship and follow u?
Re: When You Want A Woman And She Doesn't Want You by Joerahp(m): 11:27pm On May 11, 2021
OfeAchi:
If she has been coming to your apartment and spending time, and has refused your advances, then I suggest you try a technique I call; The Ending Man technique.
What's this technique? It's simple. Stand on the doorway when she's about leaving and provide your erect manhoood! (note, your peniss must be very very erect!)
When she sees this, it would activate an enzymous hormone in her that would make her agree to your advances.

This technique has been proven to have a success rate of 91.23%.

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