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Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Sazzay(m): 9:15am On Aug 11, 2021 |
me too.... |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by krebdawise(m): 9:16am On Aug 11, 2021 |
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Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by krebdawise(m): 9:16am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by kennybelle: 9:17am On Aug 11, 2021 |
I don't think there's anyone who didn't have cold feet about getting married. Allay your fears and go for it if you think you have the right partner you wish to spend your life, joys, pains and good and bad memories with. As humans, a point in time will come in our lives when we'll so desire companionship. Marriage will give you that when you are with the RIGHT person. Alas, marriage is not a bed of roses. There will be peaks and troughs. It requires the SELFLESSNESS of both parties to make things work. Marriage is sweet (despite any challenges) if you're truly with your better half. I wish you the best, sir. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Nobody: 9:17am On Aug 11, 2021 |
frozen70:Have a tiger ever bitten you but I am sure you would be afraid if you saw a tiger in real life 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by pennzo: 9:17am On Aug 11, 2021 |
When it is time for you to really get married, you will know. Until then, enjoy yourself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by dljbd1(m): 9:17am On Aug 11, 2021 |
I don't see why you should be afraid if you are getting married to your friend? 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by kingslj: 9:21am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Also make sure she is not pregnant before marriage,(I am pregnant you must marry me) that is if you decide to marry...the child may not be yours. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by akeeng: 9:23am On Aug 11, 2021 |
frozen70:Have you experienced death before? Aint you scared of it? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by proclinician: 9:23am On Aug 11, 2021 |
E reach to fear oo. I don't understand again. U buy ur mama way born u pure water, ur wife go apply for divorce out of jealousy, marriage don end. E be things oo. 11 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by arantess: 9:23am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1:Pray, pray and pray some more because it's not easy getting Godswill for you in marriage Don't be afraid, it's a stage you will come to encounter at some point in life which is now in your case, look at your father and mother and draw inspiration from them, they married and birthed you, and despite the challenges, talk to them about it also(if they are still living) no shaking bro, you are good to go I was afraid of getting married too but I had to man up and today I am happy Marriage is sweet, it has its challenges but it's sweet, if anyone tells you otherwise he's a liar Learn to communicate effectively with your partner, talk about everything and anything between yourselves Congratulations in advance 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Farotimi72: 9:24am On Aug 11, 2021 |
There is no phobias anywhere. You dey fear just BECAUSE YOU NO GET MONEY. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Viktoh210: 9:25am On Aug 11, 2021 |
With what is happening this days, you are not the only one marriage dey fear.. But at a point it's important to have a partner, all you should pray for is to get a good partner that will care and understand, cus at some point the love go die and e go choke ... marriage no be child's play thats why u don't rush it, just pray for a good partner who knows ur worth , cus as e dey be naw some marriage na money be the binding force wey dey hold them now ...just no fear nothing is easy in this world 9 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Santaboris: 9:25am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1:Never do court marriage as marriage give women sense of total lockdown, and when a lady feels she has locked down a man then she’ll start misbehaving because the law backs and ensure continuation of that marriage . Good averagely healthy girl over Beautiful bad girl . Get money before thinking about anything marriage ,at least be able to feed like 6 adults before thinking about marriage 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by enyiinne(m): 9:26am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Now 11 WOMEN ganged up against him stating he has got awful ways of greeting women which they see as harassment. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Temptee101(m): 9:27am On Aug 11, 2021 |
You are not alone my brother. I was discussing same thing with a married friend yesterday. He is not finding his marriage funny at all. Once you get married, your wife determines your happiness. She can decide to make your home a living hell or paradise. To a greater extent, your life is in her hands, she determines whether you'd live long or not. Everything solely lies in her hands. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by od501: 9:30am On Aug 11, 2021 |
frozen70: Matrimonial ota pia pia spotted 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Hassanmaye(m): 9:32am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1:You are not alone o, |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by harmony75: 9:32am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Tell GOD to lead you commit your marriage ' k future kids into God's hands and He will make everything thing perfect just talk to God about everything and everything will be okay! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Goldbw122(m): 9:33am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1:Well am in your shoes, well what I will advice is that, find the person you like and talk with her and make her understand that you are scared of marriage if she will allow a child in the family then trust me other things will follow.. when there is a pregnancy or child in the family, then the family will reconsider, because the expenses of marriage and the commitment to marriage is very sensitive and wonderful, so to avoid any future drama . Choose the person you like and observe if that individual likes you too for peace to Reign, in your future.. On that note you can be able to bypass the experience marriage.. |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Temptee101(m): 9:33am On Aug 11, 2021 |
frozen70: Are you serious right now? So you will have to experience death before you know it's real? 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by GreatManBee: 9:33am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1: What exactly are your afraid or scared of? |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by sematec(m): 9:34am On Aug 11, 2021 |
has anyone heard of marriage phobia before? |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by od501: 9:35am On Aug 11, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: The other gender will come for you sir...in 3...2...1 |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by gabicon: 9:35am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1: The question you need to answer is ''what does marriage mean to you?'', whatever fear you are having at the moment is tied to the answer to this question. Some people view marriage as getting an ATM machine, others a sex mate, a few a puppet to control, another bondage, some an avenue to share life with someone etc. The minute you understand the purpose and power of marriage you will be able to decide on the perfect partner. Once you can differentiate marriage from your needs you will snap out of your fear. Secondly, marriage is not for everyone, success in marriage is confined to certain rules, if you cant leave by these rules then its best not to enter into marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Karanka: 9:36am On Aug 11, 2021 |
OP, try and do your due diligence by getting someone that suits you; someone you can "manage" even at old age. Then learn how to tolerate. Seriously, marriage is not easy. Imagine two people from different backgrounds coming together to live "forever". That Is why you have to make it easier for her and you by getting someone you can tolerate. One very good aspect of it is that you will have someone that will always have your back - if you're fortunate enough to marry a good person. Then strung it along. Enjoy the good aspect and manage the not-so-good aspect. But at the long, you ought to take the plunge. And it is better if you do it when you are still young so that you can enjoy your family. It's great to know that you are living a legacy and hustling for someone or people special to you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 11, 2021 |
frozen70:What do you think 'fear of the unknown' refers to? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Phobia Killing Me Help by Juliearth(f): 9:39am On Aug 11, 2021 |
larryeffizy1: The sad tales we read on social media is enough to make everyone feel this way. However, you need to have the mindset that your case would be different. A marriage built on the precepts of God can and would stand the test of time. Thus, involve God all the way, have a positive mindset also. This is important because we attract what our minds breed. So if you believe that yours would fail, it would and vice-versa. All will be well! 1 Like |
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